I am not asking for much. If you have been to my room then you know that I try my very best to answer everyone and do what I can within the RULES
(yes we do have RULES we HAVE to follow). I love all of the regulars I have and all of the new people I meet each night. I am grateful to you. I however am getting to the point of turning off the sound and glancing at the ceiling due to all the people that come in my room and promise to go private if I just xyz. Why not just ask for xyz without lying that is so not attractive. Then if I choose to I choose to. Think about your job and everyday multiple people come in & tell you if you can get abc done they will take your product. You focus in on them because you want to satisfy them at that moment. You ask them if they would like some coffee or water while they wait (for us it is get a thong,hose or toy) so you go and you get it for them and when you return to the office they are gone. Hmmm this happens the whole rest of the day eventually you stop offering the refreshments until the business aspect is taken care of.. However, by doing that you might lose people as well because you are not be hospitable. So you are stuck as to which way is best to go. I was always taught & still believe honesty is the best policy. Here we are @ a cross road. ~1 Cali Quote

You are absolutely 100% right Cali Dear.

Unfortunately though, most of those causing the problem will never come here to read your wise words, let alone learn from them.

Hopefully enough nice, decent, thoughtful people will continue to visit you to help you overcome the constantly draining annoyance of those other sub-human knuckle-draggers. Such is life here, just keep smiling and do your best. Quote

hey sweetie that does really suck what you are saying and i hope out of all the people you see i can at least be one honest person for you and if you ever dont see me on and you are having a bad night email me and i will get on and come to your room and do your best to cheer you up beggers suck and so do these people i cant stand them either just need to try i know its hard and forget about them and enjoy yourself Quote

You know I always have fun & I feel like for the most people are really cool & honest. I had a lit of fun last night but I did run around my house a lot looking for requested items that member's requested to go private. To have it just be a scavenger hunt which I would have won. I like to please people and make them happy I just did not understand the point of it all maybe it was some slumber party game and I did not know I was playing, lol Thank you guys for the love and have an excellent Monday sure I will see you all soon. Just keep it real & I will really keep looking for stuff, lol ~1 Cali Quote

Pareto's Principle:

"Business management thinker Joseph M. Juran suggested the principle and named it after Italian economist Vilfredo Pareto, who observed in 1906 that 80% of the land in Italy was owned by 20% of the population; he developed the principle by observing that 20% of the pea pods in his garden contained 80% of the peas. It is a common rule of thumb in business; e.g., "80% of your sales come from 20% of your clients.""

This principle can be applied to many things in life from business to relationships. Focus on the 20% of customers who spend time with you in private. You will not only be more productive, but be more happy in general. It won't be hard for you to sort out the 20% of privates from the non-privates. The hard part will be deciding if a new customer will be in that 20%. Until they prove they want to be in that 20% I suggest you stay focused on the 20% that take you private because that is where 80% of your income is derived.

To extend that to relationships in your life. Take a look at the people who make you happy. Usually about 20% of the people in our lives make us happy, the other 80% are a headache. Deal with that and you will change your life for the better.

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Agreed, I just felt like I was going to get everything under the sun for everyone to not get to shine my full moon lol :-) I feel what you are saying. I just wish that men would listen to advices from a model like we listen to you guys advise and that is just BE HONEST and we will go from there. Does not mean no or yes just means level field since you can see us to know what we are about to do for the most part sometime we do something unexpected however since we can not see what you intend be honest in what you type. EASY RIGHT :-) ~1 Cali Quote