There is an ideal, and we all (most) gravitate toward it. Any deviation within an acceptable amount of that ideal is really not anything most of us would pay much attention to. We're not blind, I can see one girl's waist is larger than another's, and it's not exclusively a woman's personality that we're attracted to, looks matter as much as they do for you. But the size of her waist, or breasts, or thighs or arms or anything... we don't break it down like that. If you're pretty, you're very pretty. And if you're not.. well, one man's scribble is another's poetry I suppose.
But come with a pretty face and a smile and a warm personality with a touch of affection and you could move worlds in my book. And I'm not alone in this, I'd throw out a number but it's one more-or-less close to 9 out of 10 guys would likely think the same.
I will say that it bothers me most if someone I'm with is painfully aware of her midriff or thighs - if I'm over it and shower you with compliments, take some advise, and take them. A woman comfortable with herself, striving to improve herself yes but not stuck in the most base of insecurities, is appreciated to no end.
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