As I read through the forums and visit models rooms I see these terms more and more, could someone please give me a solid definition of each? Maybe I'm just not smart enough to get the concept, or maybe there is more to it than the people who label these individuals are willing to admit.
I guess I could be considered as either or both in the most basic sense of the description doled out in the models rooms. Someone who does not talk to the model or other chatters and doesn't take the model private or tip.
Now before someone goes on a rant, lets have some back story: I have been visiting the site for 10 years, I have been a unregistered user(grey) a registered user(white) and a VIP(gold/yellow). Until I stopped taking notes, or keeping score as some might see it, I had taken over 250 privates, I'm not talking 2 or 3 minute quickies, most in the 15 to 20 minute range with a number of longer visits. Some of the current models will probably verify this, or maybe not, oh well! But if you figure out the numbers at 15 minutes each, it comes to 3,750 minutes and $225 thousand dollars and as I stated that was only while I was keeping track, stopped doing that a few years ago.
Add to this multiple visits to some of the ladies that I really enjoyed sharing time with and it comes out to a significant dollar figure. So I doubt I could be considered a cheap begger.
What changed is that about a year ago, strange charges stated cropping up on my credit card statement, which is strange as the only place I have ever used that card is on this site, the only time its ever left my residence was when I moved and it was tucked away with other valuables and transported by me personally. After having the card revoked by the issuing company, and reissued I'm more than a bit hesitant about registering another card.
That said I still visit the site, and a number of models rooms, in most I try to stay inconspicuous as possible by not engaging the model in conversation that would lead to her believing I am going to take her private. I guess this makes me a lurker. As to the silent wanker title, I'm old enough that it takes more than a flash of a breast to excite me and trying to get excited enough to "wank" while catching the 5 second flash between curtains is not really going to happen either. I have never begged or even asked a model to do anything that would constitute a "free show". The only time I have asked for anything is maybe an age or where she comes from, and stopped that after I noticed those were part of the most asked question group.
If I am making a model uncomfortable with my presence, she has only to ask that I not visit her room and I will oblige. Now if looking at beautiful women and not engaging them makes me either or both of the titled subjects, I guess I can live with that, the question is can the models and their rabid fans respect that not everybody that isn't part of their little clic is not evil?
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