So, me and my boyfriend are a new couple on the site and i'm new to the industry, but he's what you might call a veteran. I was brought up as a sort of conservative type girl and i have just recently found my "sexiness" haha. I was wondering if you all had any tips or rituals that could help me feel comfortable in front of the camera? besides practicing in front of the mirror. Quote

Drink heavily. Just kidding.

Is the camera itself going to be a problem for you? (Don't let me asking that, make it a problem.) If it is, find a way to camouflage it. Are you using your own room? Or a studio room? Make your surroundings comfortable for you. More pillows, teddy bear, wall hangings. Be comfortable.

Be yourself. I actually don't watch film porn, because I never see sex the way I like to have it. I swear, for all the BS demands that you will see typed at you, you'll gain your own following if people know that that's YOU on the screen and not you trying to be someone you're not.

I hope this helps and best of luck. Quote

Drink heavily. Just kidding.

Is the camera itself going to be a problem for you? (Don't let me asking that, make it a problem.) If it is, find a way to camouflage it. Are you using your own room? Or a studio room? Make your surroundings comfortable for you. More pillows, teddy bear, wall hangings. Be comfortable.

Be yourself. I actually don't watch film porn, because I never see sex the way I like to have it. I swear, for all the BS demands that you will see typed at you, you'll gain your own following if people know that that's YOU on the screen and not you trying to be someone you're not.

I hope this helps and best of luck.



I think it might have to do a little bit with the camera, but i think the part that is most uncomfortable is the displays of affection. dont get me wrong, i love getting all cute and sexual with my guy all the time, just not in public. i'm just hope i dont have the same attitude on camera. even though i wont see the people, i'll know they're there. but i suppose that will come with time.
and since we are doing it at home, maybe it will be a little easier. thanks for pointing those things out. sometimes you just need an outsiders view. Quote

*somewhat sloshed toasts Mayhem and waves the empty snifter loosely* You'll do just fine, rely on your guy to guide you, if he's enough for you to love then him being there will let you lean into it. Pretend there is no cam and you're just alone and chatting online. Touch faces, arms, let the physical presence reassure.

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