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Created by: chris51376

6/11/09 @ 11:20pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I was in a room the other night for a regular that I go pvt with a lot, and a guy went PVT for a long time then when he was done, started talking about going to meet her for real in her open room (I guess they just talked about it in their pvt).

Just a note guys, if you're gonna talk about something like that keep it pvt. One is it's probably against the rules, and two consider there are other regulars who might see what you're saying and get turned off by it. I know i did, and as a result she just lost me as a customer.

Thanks jerk!

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Created by: gdiddy

6/12/09 @ 2:25am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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absolutely, 100% no no.. DO NOT talk about meeting up with a model in open chat. if the model chooses to meet a member, then that's their prerogative... but it definitely should not be discussed anywhere other than in private. regardless of your feelings on whether it's right or wrong private matters should stay private.

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Created by: g-mann

6/12/09 @ 3:02am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Whether this was a serious talk or not, it should NOT have been in open. Sorry it turned you off. Did you email the model and tell her since you were a regular? Hope this is serves as a warning that people pay attention to what you say in open.

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Created by: chris51376

6/12/09 @ 6:34pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Yes I told her that be sure to tell her other guys to keep it pvt, and that it was pretty stupid to discuss in open as well as inconsiderate.

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Created by: g-mann

6/12/09 @ 6:47pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Good job Chriis :thumbsup

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Created by: chris51376

6/12/09 @ 7:01pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Thanks and anyone reading this tell other users to STFU if they someone typing this rubbish in an open room.

And her ass is to the curb!

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Created by: Brintney James

6/12/09 @ 7:52pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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this is a good post chris. i have noticed some guys are "bragberts" and tend to lack a respect... or may a dare call it a maturity sense?...

but do keep in mind when kicking a lovley lady to the curb, that MOST understand a pvt is more or less a fantasy place.

like i know i cum here to hang out with great guys i would never other wise meet do to a busy single home/mom life. I love my sex life here!!!
but in the end of a day...... i know i log off and go back to my sexless life as a full time mom.... lmao

don't always believe what the guy coming out of the pvt is saying eaither.
give your model some credit... thus i am sure she became one of your faves for a reason.

<3BJ

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Created by: chris51376

6/13/09 @ 4:40am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Created by: mydyingbride

6/13/09 @ 4:52am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Created by: gdiddy

6/13/09 @ 4:57am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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This is so unbelievably naive.

and, sadly, naive seems to be the more practiced characteristic of any of the human emotions..

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Created by: mydyingbride

6/13/09 @ 7:42am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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It works both ways, as I know some girls (especially in Europe) actually have dreams of a rich white knight who will sweep them away from this job, and a guy will make them believe that. A guy wants to feel special and lots of the girls go a bit far to get him coming back. It's a difficult position to be in at times.

And btw... Please dont talk so degrading and pay a little respect to the East European models, oki?

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Created by: Loona

6/13/09 @ 7:46am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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And btw... Please dont talk so degrading and pay a little respect to the East European models, oki?

Yes, please. :winkwink

...maybe those girls don't wait for their knights but only they make them think they wait - cause knights want to think so :evil

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Created by: suggs

6/13/09 @ 8:05am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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if the person who started the chat in the room regarding a meet between customer and model is a regular then maybe instead of doing it in open or even pvt they should be doing it either via the sites messanging systerm ( when it's not just eating the messages ) or preferably on their own email / instant messenger service.

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Created by: amicu

6/13/09 @ 12:25pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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HI
Thanks you are a sweety, but outside of this cyber world I've been in enough situations to notice a few warning signs when it comes to certain relations, in this case "virtual" but still a relation regardless. When you spend enough time with a regular, sooner or later you reveal personal things to each other but then this being online you both start to tell lies easier lol. It works both ways, as I know some girls (especially in Europe) actually have dreams of a rich white knight who will sweep them away from this job, and a guy will make them believe that. A guy wants to feel special and lots of the girls go a bit far to get him coming back. It's a difficult position to be in at times.
It's good that you seperate both worlds. It's important to a healthy life ;)

I find the american girls just as apt to the rich white knight syndrome (Why else would all the starlets go to LA? Why would Hugh Heffner have ANYONE at his mansion, let alone in his bed, if not for little american girls who tossed out their self-respect to live the glamorous life with a denture-lisping senior citizen with a ridiculous collection of pajama pants, smoking jackets and robes?)... the perception that european girls (and by this I can only assume those in the poorest countries, as a dozen European countries' citizens live better off than in North America) dream of being swept away by a rich playboy or knight is dated and at best inaccurate.

I find Loona's reply more on point - the girls you know who "dream" of being swept away are just as apt to be feeding the White Knight types exactly what they need to hear to keep them coming back. Every time I'm in a model's room who isn't from North America, there are several guys who offer to rescue them, bring them to America - it's extremely insulting after the 68th guy that week comes to one's rescue when she doesn't need rescuing any more than the model in California on here.

You want to sweep a model off her feet? Be a f*#king person. Be friendly, take her private when you can, cheer up her day and she'll look forward to seeing you.

And chris, this was in NO way repudiating what you said or directed to you, I agree with your points, I just caught the European models comment with all the unintended baggage it carried and wanted to point out to all the guys in the US who use this tired, tired line how pointless it is. Although, admittedly, those guys don't read these forums much (or read much at all for that matter), so let's call this reply therapeutic venting?!

Anyway, agree with you on the private 'let's meet' chatter in public chat. This site is 100% fantasy, and this happy couple killed it for anyone hopeful that the model would want to spend time with him, when this particular braggart has all of her attention. They can have the chat room to themselves and lay in the bed they made.

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Created by: Loona

6/13/09 @ 12:44pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Thanks Amicu for understanding my point. After reading my post by myself I didnt understand it lmao ...lol too many pronouns hehe

About rescuing. I feel so amazed when I hear for example:
'I like to help people, give me your phone number and I will help you...'
'How does sooo lovely girl can work here?... lets meet and disscused that...'

...but I am too weak actress to act like poor European girl needing help. Shame on me.. :winkwink

Maybe I would get 2 mins of private from them :orglaugh

??

And most important: I find it sooo amazing that sooooo REAL excitement can come with fantasizing on chat... Before starting to work here I was thinking about that like about every kind of work - but I changed my mind when first cummings came, first soooo real smiles, laughes and happy moments, and first crushes on straight after... . Those emotions are so REAL... :thumbsup

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Created by: gdiddy

6/13/09 @ 1:10pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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amicu, again, hit's the nail on the head. i want to point out the end of his post though and "ditto" it. as soon as they talked about meeting in open it ruins the fantasy that any of the other guys have about taking that model pvt, cause now she's "taken".

on another note, that could also increase their (the other chatters in that room) hope that one day they too can have a model want to meet them. i don't think it would be very healthy to have more and more guys focusing their end goal on meeting a model and living happily ever after. i'm aware that a percentage do meet (and i have zero issue with it) but we as amicu stated .. if you're going to bring it up, there are numerous other ways other than open chat to discuss it. plus do you really want to be discussing details about where you live in open chat?

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Created by: chris51376

6/13/09 @ 2:45pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I'm not being naive just stating what has happened. SOME younger ones start out thinking that there is a White knight (okay fine not just east europe. i wasn't indicating anything disrespectful take it easy) then as they get older they realize it's a fantasy like anyone else.

Many models from all over the world have met guys. And yes, some actually think they'll find love! Surprise!

I talked to one model (not neccesarily here) who was in her late 20s, and she had told me about a time when she was younger where a guy had her convinced that he would meet her to start a relationship. They eventually met and guess what, once they had sex he just left and never came back. She was heartbroken! So yeah most models just state this stuff in pvt as a fantasy, but if you're 19 or 20 and someone is spending thousands of dollars on you there is a chance you might think this guy is serious enough.

Whether a model is talking about meeting seriously or just fantasy, regardless for me it is a big turn off because I like to think I'm the #1 guy while I am spending time with her. This model would tell me that I was her favourite, and I know she is full of shit but it's nice just to hear that for fantasy's sake. It's one of those things, what you DON'T know won't hurt you.

In this case they were in pvt a long time just chatting, like for 1 hour then when the pvt expired they continued conversation in open room. At first he was whispering then he eventually talked openly. It wasn't like he was bragging they were both just inconsiderate, especially her saying things like "I'll let you do whatever you want" then showing her ass to the cam. I had some time to spend but once I saw that it was goodbye. Most guys wouldn't care, but for me it's a huge turn off.

Keep it pvt! Whether in a paid pvt or in IMs.

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