i'm a super romantic guy and i love doing those little things that make a girl smile. i've been told by quite a few girls that they wish their guy was as romantic/sweet as i was, and have actually had a few of them have me sit their boyfriends down and have a little crash-course training session with them! so that got me thinking: if my friends boyfriends aren't very romantic, there's probably other guys who aren't as well. which also means there are probably guys out there who want to be but don't have the foggiest idea as to what to do to be romantic or sweet. so i wanted to get some thoughts from the ladies as to what they've had done to them or what they would consider romantic to give those of us guys some ideas as to how to make our girl feel special?! Quote

When a guy says show me hand bra or show ass or show doggy. Those are all the most romantic lines that i have ever heard. I wish more guys would shout these things at me when im at the grocery store, or the mall.
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lol Ive never had a romantic boyfriend lol. I did have one that messed up one time and pissed me off so he took me to a really nice dinner on the water and brought me flowers. We had drinks all night. It was a lot of fun. Another one for my birthday was sick of me saying "do something romantic" and took me to a nice hotel and had wine and strawberries in the room. It was very sweet. Quote

When a guy says show me hand bra or show ass or show doggy. Those are all the most romantic lines that i have ever heard. I wish more guys would shout these things at me when im at the grocery store, or the mall.
jade


LMAO - oh i hope i see you in public sometime... Quote

I cant say I've ever dated a romantic guy, I feel like I'm always the romantic one, cooking dinner for us, handmaking cards for special occasions. But I do tend to pick some bad ones I've learned.

Hey to guys who don't know this yet... fast food IS NOT romantic lol. Quote

since i started the thread i figured i would give out some advice on coming up with ideas!

when you're trying to think of new ways to be romantic you have to remember the golden rule: for it to truly be romantic you have to give without wanting to receive. that's right, you have to give for the sake of giving. whenever i've done anything it's not with the idea of being rewarded, it's been because i am just wanting to see a smile on my girls face. that being said anything can be made romantic if you have that mindset. it also takes the girl being appreciative of those kinds of things and not all of them are. there's been many times i've tried unsuccessfully to be romantic cause she thought she deserved everything given to her - but as they say try, try again.

i'm a big fan of leaving little notes on her car or slipping it in her purse before she leaves. that can also be a good way to excite her for later too saying something like "i can't wait for you to get home tonight so i can kiss you all over". the trick is to make them cute.. just a few lines, it's a note not a letter.

don't just be romantic when you mess up. you need to let her know how special she is and that you appreciate having her, not just when you're scared you could lose her!

i like to make plans and not tell her where we're going. this is probably the easiest one in the book. sometimes i'll have her drive and just give her directions as we go: "turn right on 32nd st" then once we're on 32nd st tell her "turn left on main st". the suspense can really build up so the surprise is even more fun once you get there. just make sure that the final destination isn't mcdonalds or something lame.

don't just send flowers on birthdays and anniversaries. those days are reserved for bigger bouquets, but you can still send hundreds of other types of flowers any other day of the year. tulips are a great "thinking about you" gift.

for one of my ex's birthdays i planned the entire day. we didn't live together at the time so that morning before she got up i put a note on her car telling her that she needed to pack her swimsuit, a towel, a nice dress and shoes, a casual outfit and some comfy shoes and then to come over to my house at 10:00. i then texted her so that when she woke up she would go to her car and get the note. the day was a lot of fun and seeing how excited she was to try and figure out where we were going next and how happy she was almost made it better for me than it was for her.

remember too that you don't have to spend a lot of money either, sometimes it's more romantic to see how you can make the simplest things into something about her!! Quote

I always use to ask on of my ex, 2 years into the relationship "why have you never given me flowers" He said " I dont do flowers" I was thinking in my head ok well daisys are one of my fav flowers and you can get them for like $5 dollars. Its really not a lot of effort since when you leave work there is a store that sells those flowers for that price, Im always there buying food. Sometimes the simple things mean so much. Im a simple girl and I like nice simple things. Guys a little effort goes a long way. Just put in the damn effort lol Quote

here's something else to help too. when you're girl says things like:

I was thinking in my head ok well daisys are one of my fav flowers

remember that stuff! so that months down the road when i got her the EXACT camera and color she wanted she's pretty happy (and impressed) with that.


ok, now i'm off to go find some daisy's!!

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your a sweetheart Quote

LMAO - oh i hope i see you in public sometime...


Dude, If I hear you yell any of that at me in the supermarket im gonna hurl a orange at your head!

jade Quote