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Female Performer Chat: (MOVED) PVT etiquette!
ozzieboy4u
Created by: ozzieboy4u

3/20/09 @ 4:45pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Under Saphira's Bed with the wand
Posts: 3,075

You know, I didn't rate anything here for a while because they publically posted your name by it. For some reason, that's a deterent for me. Do they still do that?


Yes they still post your name.
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Saphira
Created by: Saphira

3/20/09 @ 7:25pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

Pfffth. Amateur.
:angel


LMAO! I know, huh? Hehe.


Yes they post your name... BUT - you can choose which name to use. So you could theoretically add an anonymous name to your list of usernames in your profile and only use that one to rate.


Most guys who take me pvt don't rate me either, which is a shame. It's taken me a year to get the number of reviews I have now.

The reason all the ratings are high though is because they are screened. I don't think bad reviews are approved by the site; at least that's what I've heard.

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Created by: ourjeffie

3/20/09 @ 7:48pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Brisbane Australia, home of the 2032 Olympic Games
Posts: 45,964

The reason all the ratings are high though is because they are screened. I don't think bad reviews are approved by the site
:twocents

It's true. Flirt4Free have said that they don't post "negative" reviews. Seems ridiculous to me
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Saphira
Created by: Saphira

3/20/09 @ 8:11pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

Omg you're in Brisbane ourjeffie? Me too! :drinkup


I have one more thing to add to the pvt etiquette list:

- If you have time left, please don't leave WHILE THE MODEL IS STILL CUMMING! A drawback of not faking your orgasms is that once one has started, it's kinda hard to just 'stop'. lol. This has happened to me on more than one occasion and every time the member still had well over 5 minutes left on the clock. Nothing like opening your eyes and realising that a full room of people is now peering up your still contracting snatch! :orglaugh
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Created by: ourjeffie

3/20/09 @ 8:51pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Brisbane Australia, home of the 2032 Olympic Games
Posts: 45,964

Omg you're in Brisbane ourjeffie? Me too!
:twocents

I know, Saphira. I saw you in the supermarket the other day :winkwink

Just kidding! :)

:orglaugh
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Alluria
Created by: Alluria

3/21/09 @ 2:22am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

Great post Saphira! :)
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Saphira
Created by: Saphira

3/21/09 @ 2:30am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

:twocents
I know, Saphira. I saw you in the supermarket the other day :winkwink
Just kidding! :)
:orglaugh


Gah! You know how to freak a girl out, huh? Cheeky :evil lol
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Camy Angel
Created by: Camy Angel

3/21/09 @ 6:42am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

LMAO! I know, huh? Hehe.

The reason all the ratings are high though is because they are screened. I don't think bad reviews are approved by the site; at least that's what I've heard.


No, bad reviews are not approved on site, maybe is a good thing. One day I had a guy and he kept asking me to show my ass in doggy, I sayed sorry my ass is gone shopping for pantyes and he will be back after midnight!Then he asked me how much time I need to cum. I told him I don't know, I'm not a machine if you insert a coin you will get a coke. Anyway he left saying he will leave me a bad rating. Review didn't showed up, but is has someway block the other review I got after, one guy write 3 reviews and in the end it showed up and ......... we lived happily ever after!
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xxJDxx
Created by: xxjdxx

3/21/09 @ 9:21am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Canada Baby!!!!
Posts: 235

Nothing like opening your eyes and realising that a full room of people is now peering up your still contracting snatch! :orglaugh


you certainly have a way with words girl :thumbsup
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Telutzu
Created by: Telutzu

3/21/09 @ 9:28am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00


- At the end, if there's still time, by all means take the one second it takes to type 'ty'. It makes such a huge difference. It also helps her to know that you ARE actually done, and haven't been caught by your wife/disconnected from the Internet/had a heart attack... etc.



All your post is great but i really lought when i read that :orglaugh :orglaugh :orglaugh

I think this topic must be edited on the first page of flirt4free:):)

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_
Created by: _

3/22/09 @ 3:51pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Netherland

DogglyStyle
Created by: dogglystyle

3/24/09 @ 6:25am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Saphira's Bedroom

Nothing like opening your eyes and realising that a full room of people is now peering up your still contracting snatch! :orglaugh


I dont remember this happening... or maybe i was in pvt. Either way I knew i should of started visiting you earlier. :orglaugh :evil
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elsydeon
Created by: elsydeon

3/24/09 @ 6:34pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Normal, Illinois
Posts: 24

wholeheartedly agree

what i say about manners

make sure you have the right ammount of time: haveing 2 hrs of time but wanting a ten minute show makes the girl feel bad when she sees you got all this time and you cut her off

let her prepare: let her use the bathroom, smoke, etc. also get her outfits, shoes, toys, etc. ready, change if she wants to before private (most wont, but some will if they know the guy is going, usually a regular customer); so she isnt rushing to get that stuff while she's on the clock

please and thank you: plz and ty just dont have the impact of please and thank you, its understandable to say plz and ty in private (typing one handed with a timer and all) but always thank her when she gets back to free chat

be honest: if you cant afford more time, just say it; she will probably be understanding (id love to, but im poor:( is the best way to say it, since you arent saying i wont, but i cant)

leave a good review: lets her know you were a satisfied customer (most people enjoy their work more when they see the customer genuinely happy because of them)

complement her on her english: there are a large number of non-north american girls on these sites who have very good english; if she says her english sucks, tell her its very good, and better than your understanding of her language
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Jen Vixen
Created by: Jen Vixen

3/24/09 @ 7:06pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

From one performer to another:

Well done... Love the humor along the way :thumbsup

Great Job!

JenVixen
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Created by: suggs

3/27/09 @ 2:42pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Left of centre
Posts: 6,768

bump
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_
Created by: _

4/2/09 @ 12:13am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Netherland

Bump
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Alluria
Created by: Alluria

4/2/09 @ 1:07am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

I love this post so much, I want to take it behind the middle school and get it pregnant.
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Created by: lickau

4/2/09 @ 3:29am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Moving slowly but surely somewhere sometime
Posts: 29,285

I was waiting for the version with all together - but I decided to put the parts together :thumbsup

Saphira rocks ! :drinkup


Pvt Etiquitte !

Started by Sexy Saphira


Ok I'll probably get shot down in flames, but I do have a couple of suggestions for you if you want your favourite model to enjoy pvt with you a little more. This is generally aimed at those who are new to this, as I'm sure the 'old hands' (no pun intended) already do these things:

1 - Letting her know in free chat that you're about to take her is always good (unless you want to surprise her that is), in case she needs to pee/finish her smoke/get her toys ready/whatever first.

2 - Don't be afraid to ask for what you want. She can't read your mind. By all means discuss it in open chat (that's what it was actually designed for), or at least ask her whether she's willing to do whatever it is you want. I hate being taken pvt and THEN having to say 'no, sorry, I can't shove my whole arm up my ass/kill my pet/puke all over myself/etc.' And respect her boundaries, 'no' means 'no', which is why it's better to check in open chat first. She probably WANTS to please you, so by all means let her know if you want a close up/more dirty talk/different position etc.

3 - Remember your manners. Of course time is money in this case so no-one HAS to use flowery language or bring seduction to an art form (unless you want to), but the odd 'plz' or 'ty' or 'yeah that's good' goes a LONG way towards helping her feel like she's doing it properly and making you happy. Rudely barking orders at her like she's some retarded robot is not good. Neither is bellowing 'HURRY UP!' at her if she's already going as fast as she can. Some things do take a minute. I'm not talking about girls who try to keep a customer talking to delay it; I'm talking about getting out the lube if you want anal, getting the camera angle right sort of thing.

4 - At the end, if there's still time, by all means take the one second it takes to type 'ty'. It makes such a huge difference. It also helps her to know that you ARE actually done, and haven't been caught by your wife/disconnected from the Internet/had a heart attack... etc.

5 - If you really enjoyed yourself, then by all means leave her a nice review. It's wonderful advertising. There's also a tip function in pvt if you really want to show your appreciation.

6 - Have FUN!

If anyone can think of any more to add, please feel free to do so

Others to be added

7 - but if you know your limit before, get that taken care of so you don't have to interrupt yourself ..
if you're stripped for time, don't be afraid to tell us. If you're respectful and honest

8 - Make a review, be honest, other customers will use them as advice as to if they should go private. So be fair and accurate

9 - I normally let my regular know when I'm leaving - say, "I am going in 1 or 2 mintues".

10 - And when it comes to the end i like to make sure i have plenty of time to thank her for the time together and alwsys say 'I'll give ya time to get cleaned up and camera in right positiion before leading you back out'

11 - If you have time left, please don't leave WHILE THE MODEL IS STILL CUMMING! A drawback of not faking your orgasms is that once one has started, it's kinda hard to just 'stop'. lol. This has happened to me on more than one occasion and every time the member still had well over 5 minutes left on the clock. Nothing like opening your eyes and realising that a full room of people is now peering up your still contracting snatch! [This comment has got her new members and privates]

12 - let her prepare: let her use the bathroom, smoke, etc. also get her outfits, shoes, toys, etc. ready, change if she wants to before private (most wont, but some will if they know the guy is going, usually a regular customer); so she isnt rushing to get that stuff while she's on the clock

13 - Use please and thank you . Complement what you like about model


[I used exact quotes mostly . Some were duplicate and combined . Politeness never goes out of style


14 - Tip for outstanding privates . Models rarey get a tip and it makes her day/night
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Saphira
Created by: Saphira

4/2/09 @ 4:11pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

I love this post so much, I want to take it behind the middle school and get it pregnant.


Hahahahaha! Then we'd have a *baby* thread. Awww.

Seriously, thanks to all the stunning models who complimented me on this thread. You're all gorgeous. And the members who commented on it aren't half bad either, of course.
:evil
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Created by: _

4/2/09 @ 4:27pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Netherland

:bulb Maybe vs_nubia can make the thread sticky as was done with the April Fool's Promotion :bulb
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