This is a topic that doesn't really have any real right answer.For some love is real and worth the fight,for others love is a fake emotion and not worth the trouble it can sometimes cause.I am somewhere in the middle of this.I have loved and lost twice and very apprehensive about trying it a third time.If you have the right person in your life then it all seems to work out but how do you find the right person or can anyone even really know what that is? These days for most people sadly it's "yea lets go for it!" and then when problems arise it's "eh lets just leave it".Too many people throw themselves into fairy tale mode and ignore certain realities.Love is hard work some days and some days it is very easy and natural.Those who have the strength to endure the "work at it" days will survive and be happy in life 
Hello Stratos!
This topic has a real right answer.... The reality in which each of us believes, and it's different for everyone. Just as the beauty is in the eye of the beholder....
Unfortunately i will have to agree with you.... there are so many people that appreciate love only when it's beautiful... but when problems kick in, they run away. But i think that when that true love will show up, they will stay even on rainy days.
I believe that you find the right person out of luck, chance, destiny or a superiour force that brings it to us, but it only depends on us to keep it by our side.. and of course it's different for everyone.... as we are all different one from the other... It depends on so many things.
And also... love is not the only thing that we have to work on.... in life i think we have to work on everything, so that we can be happy and survive.
I hope your third time will come with a better chance... and it will work out the way it's supossed to... Good Luck!
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