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Created by: Kimee

4/2/09 @ 3:19pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Maybe before you go pvt with this model tell her " x, I would like to watch you play with your toys and undress in pvt for me, I would love to watch you pleasure yourself. But I would not like to chat, are you up to doing that pvt for me? That might help the model understand before pvt what you would like in YOUR pvt. You choose what you would like (to see to a certain degree) in pvt. If The model say no, move on to someone else, Or if she says yes and you get in pvt and she doesnt start doing what you would like to see just say " Im sorry x, Im going to leave now because I want a certain type of pvt.

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Created by: soap

4/2/09 @ 6:06pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I almost always tell a model what I am looking for before entering a private and most of the time they are honest and tell me whether they are comfortable with it.

Unfortunately there are a few models who will say, �yes I will do XYZ.� Then, when you go private they will spend time chatting, then some more time slowly striping and doing foreplay type stuff, all the time leading you to believe they will do XYZ. It is easy to say you should exit the room, but not that easy in practice. As another user observed, you want to get to know the model a bit and have some foreplay before jumping in to the money shot. You also can�t tell the model to hurry up, because it seems rude and ruins the atmosphere between you and the model.

When this happens to you, you feel lied to, cheated and ripped off. I think it is only fair that you can leave a bad review, so long as its honest and you don�t insult the model. I think this would also be good for other models, as it stops the dishonest models �stealing� privates. A happy member is also a member who is more likely to come back for other privates.

Unfortunately when this happened to me, the site did not post the review I wrote.

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Created by: ryangy

4/2/09 @ 6:23pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I almost always tell a model what I am looking for before entering a private and most of the time they are honest and tell me whether they are comfortable with it.
Unfortunately there are a few models who will say, �yes I will do XYZ.� Then, when you go private they will spend time chatting, then some more time slowly striping and doing foreplay type stuff, all the time leading you to believe they will do XYZ. It is easy to say you should exit the room, but not that easy in practice. As another user observed, you want to get to know the model a bit and have some foreplay before jumping in to the money shot. You also can�t tell the model to hurry up, because it seems rude and ruins the atmosphere between you and the model.
When this happens to you, you feel lied to, cheated and ripped off. I think it is only fair that you can leave a bad review, so long as its honest and you don�t insult the model. I think this would also be good for other models, as it stops the dishonest models �stealing� privates. A happy member is also a member who is more likely to come back for other privates.
Unfortunately when this happened to me, the site did not post the review I wrote.

Thank you for posting soap. That is exactly what I see happening in this situation over and over and I think you put it in better words than I could.

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Created by: randdom

4/3/09 @ 3:46pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Created by: Kimee

4/3/09 @ 4:09pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I think that when it's absolutely clear you've been LIED to, a review pointing that out is acceptable. It's happened to all of us at one time or another. It doesn't help anyone -- fans or models -- to have liars working here. It makes fans suspicious of all the models, and makes it harder for honest models to do their thing.
The review doesn't have to be nasty. It can be very simple and clear: I requested X, the model agreed to X before going private, but then during the private refused X. You can bump the review stars up for appearance and smile or whatever, but reduce it by two for not doing what was agreed.

I think thats fair, as long as the comment never gets nasty or mean. Customers should know both the good and the bad. Just not the horrible. I think they mainly dont post the bad is because they dont want the models to get upset and quit. For me example, I try really hard to please everyone who takes me pvt. I really want everyone to like me and think im great. If someone were to leave a comment that they were not happy ect ect. I would be heartbroken.

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Created by: soap

4/3/09 @ 4:45pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Kimmee - don't worry, we all appreciate the great privates that the good models give.

Ryan - happy to help, your post rang a bell for me.

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Created by: Amy

4/3/09 @ 8:43pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I've had a lots of privates where the guy just wanted to chat. One in particular, he even told me to put a sweater on because i looked cold in my skimpy lingerie :winkwink

and we just sat and chatted for an hour and a half.

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5/1/09 @ 11:38am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Created by: silverado09

5/1/09 @ 12:29pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I left a disappointed review for a certain model which never got posted by F4F. I rated her a very deserving 2 stars, complemented her appearance, criticized her attitude and never used any insulting language. I even suggested that she might just have been having a bad day! But it was never posted...

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Created by: lickau

5/1/09 @ 5:02pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I think thats fair, as long as the comment never gets nasty or mean. Customers should know both the good and the bad. Just not the horrible. I think they mainly dont post the bad is because they dont want the models to get upset and quit. For me example, I try really hard to please everyone who takes me pvt. I really want everyone to like me and think im great. If someone were to leave a comment that they were not happy ect ect. I would be heartbroken.

Most of the time if you leave 3 star [3 star is automatic default ] , you can calmly state facts .
Most are posted
Sofeware can ignore the 1 and 2 star responses
Recently a 5 star review for Elyse was nothing but gibberish , but went through :helpme

A bad review : Beautiful model who seem rude with attitude when I asked .........

Name calling and curse words need to be left out

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