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Created by: old_rocker

4/2/09 @ 8:28pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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i know of 2 models who married from f4f ????

and a couple that seem to be looking.....

:winkwink

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Created by: purgatory

4/2/09 @ 8:33pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Does this ever happen ? :thumbsup

Yes then they become stalkers :orglaugh

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Also to add yes it happens ... Just a warning to you guys/girls (members) Flirt4free does not offer any warranties or return policy for damaged goods :evil

.. So when you take them home and unpackage them they are yours to keep...

Best mistake I ever made btw thank god she was not an axe murderer :orglaugh

Also yes I know many ex-performers that did meet some nice guys here, got married and even have kids now .. Like I said strangest things can happen anywhere.

But a word of warning to the performers too, don't take people at face value here or type value there is more to a person then what they type on this chat site and a lot of care has to be taken before deciding to meet any person from here. Also remember the fact you met here so there will always be the question of can you both live with the fact you worked here.. Some could not and fell apart due to this one thing... So remember the golden rule be safe first and meet under conditions that you can always get out off the situation if needs be.. So have friends/family round on the 1st date and get a feel of the person in a normal situation and not this site situation.

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Nabil

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Created by: j.o.h.n.

4/2/09 @ 8:38pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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It can happen both ways believe me, I have heard not one story about model and customer getting together and now happy. I can mention myself as one of those cases; It was her birthday last year and all of a sudden I said "Hey I'm gonna send you something for your birthday" she didn't believe at first but then I kept asking what she wanted and stuff ... Untill one day I just act for impulse and asked her "what if I send you an engagement ring, is that okay?!" , for my surprise she said yes and I just didn't believe it. Asked her if she really knew what I was talking about so there wouldn't be no misunderstood and she said yeah, and kinda silly but I asked her if there wouldn't bring her problem with any of her customers and no problem at all. So in theory we're a couple since August, 5th from last year (that's when she got the ring) and in a near future we sure gonna meet and who knows what may happen... :helpme

lol

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Created by: stratos66

4/2/09 @ 8:59pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Notice how no models are really replying to this? lol buy a clue fellas :winkwink

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Created by: purgatory

4/2/09 @ 9:06pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Notice how no models are really replying to this? lol buy a clue fellas :winkwink

TIFFANY_DOVE replied 1st page ... :winkwink

Notice how no models are really replying to this? lol buy a clue fellas :winkwink

J.O.H.N.

Posted Today, 8:38 PM

So in theory we're a couple since August, 5th from last year (that's when she got the ring) and in a near future we sure gonna meet and who knows what may happen... :helpme

lol

J J you didn't send her the kinder surprise ring did you now ? :winkwink

and J J I don't think you want any of us helping you there :orglaugh

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Created by: Alluria

4/2/09 @ 9:10pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Haha Okay Stratos, I'll bite. :P

Firstly, hey! It's great to see that love can come out of this line of work! I'm no stranger to internet romances and even indulged in a couple during my short lifetime.

I will say though, I'm not personally after a relationship here. I've had a lot of wonderful guys rock up with their hearts on their sleeves, but it's simply not on my To-Do list.
Don't get me wrong - I've never found a client of mine unattractive, and so many guys here seem very sweet and down to earth. I'd even say I consider a couple of guys the kind I'd usually chase after!
I've made a lot of friends from this already, even a few I'd be willing to meet at some point. I would never rule out a client becoming a real friend of mine, but I don't wish to take it further than that.
This isn't adultmatchmaker.com, this is F4F!

Nothing personal, folks. It's just business. ;)

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Created by: Alluria

4/2/09 @ 9:12pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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PS: Wait, I take that back!
The first guy to buy 1000 minutes of pvt time, gets to mail me a wedding ring...

I kid, I kid! :orglaugh

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Created by: j.o.h.n.

4/2/09 @ 9:17pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Brazil
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LMAO cmon mate I'm not THAT cheapskate, actually I sent two coz I got it wrong the first time lol but anyway the second was just perfect....Birthday is coming soon again and I'm thinking in send another ring but diamond one since in August it's one year aniversary and I ain't sending a present now and the ring later no way is freaking 30 bucks every time dude come ne lol Just messing, totally worth it... And you're right no help needed, I like trouble =D

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Created by: old_rocker

4/2/09 @ 9:18pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Yes then they become stalkers :orglaugh

....

Also to add yes it happens ... Just a warning to you guys/girls (members) Flirt4free does not offer any warranties or return policy for damaged goods :evil

.. So when you take them home and unpackage them they are yours to keep...
Best mistake I ever made btw thank god she was not an axe murderer :orglaugh

Also yes I know many ex-performers that did meet some nice guys here, got married and even have kids now .. Like I said strangest things can happen anywhere.
But a word of warning to the performers too, don't take people at face value here or type value there is more to a person then what they type on this chat site and a lot of care has to be taken before deciding to meet any person from here. Also remember the fact you met here so there will always be the question of can you both live with the fact you worked here.. Some could not and fell apart due to this one thing... So remember the golden rule be safe first and meet under conditions that you can always get out off the situation if needs be.. So have friends/family round on the 1st date and get a feel of the person in a normal situation and not this site situation.
Regards
Nabil

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very nice purg ...... :drinkup

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Created by: daltoc

4/2/09 @ 10:27pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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There are a couple of other threads on this subject too. I started to fall in love, went onto the forums, got some great advice from other members and am pleased to say that I am developing an 0n-site relationship very, very slowly. We'll see how it develops, but caution is the key.

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Created by: suggs

4/2/09 @ 10:44pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Created by: lickkitty

4/2/09 @ 10:44pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Notice how no models are really replying to this? lol buy a clue fellas :winkwink

LOL!

Does this clue cost more than all my privates?

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Created by: Tiffany Dove

4/2/09 @ 11:49pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Damn, Suggs, that is very intriguing......

I wonder how, but then I guess things really can happen......

Wow!

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Created by: dudley_do_ride

4/3/09 @ 12:38am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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that is very intriguing......
I wonder how, but then I guess things really can happen......
Wow!

'How?', you ask madmoiselle..

Eet begins weeth sahm wine. And a rathaire large moon... up een ze sky.

Ze camera, he comes zo close... He winkas his eye...

Ah but eets so ... romanteek. Ze hum of ze feed. Ze reflecting off ze lens...

Ze curve of his font. Oh, eet eez... so much more, than any woman can bear...

So just let go and let the medium take control.

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Created by: lickau

4/3/09 @ 12:52am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Nice read

Yes , it has happenned . Most of the time it is hushed and not told about for all to hear
I know of 3 models who are happily married and no longer work here
Happiness CAN happen , but it is not the rule
All relationships takes honest communication between BOTH partners to make it work :twocents

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Created by: mrsilly

4/3/09 @ 3:14am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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What's funny is when another person "thinks" that you are engaged or is mad at you just because you treat a model with a little respect.If you ask polite questions instead of "let's see your tits". your attacked for going against the "norm".lol.some of these customers actually think the "live" chatroom is a tape :orglaugh

Sometimes a person just enjoys the company of another doesn't mean they have to get married lol.

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Created by: blue_lover74

4/3/09 @ 10:47am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I have to agree on your argument RyanGy about how some models can lead a user on thinking he/she is going to get something more than a private show. I know of plenty of users that send models dresses, hats, diamond rings and all kinds of intimate items. I personally believe that might be the beginnings of crossing the line into dangerous territory.

First, the user starts off telling the model how much they are in love with them in text. (Usually most models either boot you/ban you/ or just ignore your text) This means they been hypnotized. Being hypnotized by a model by the way she moves her sexy body so sensually and especially if she talks real sexy in open chat, most users get hooked so fast. Eventually you stare at her image until you are under her spell then that desire builds up and you want to sample her content in a private show.

Secondly, when you make the decision to buy some credits and click that private button you feel like this is the most intimate experience(its actually a virtual experience, but your brain is tricked into believing its real) you have ever had with a woman that you think is perfect for you.

Thirdly, once the time limit runs out on your session with this model do you somewhat feel a sense of disappointment or a feeling of emptiness, some users do. It sometimes feels like the time runs too fast in your private sessions. I now know why some users use screen recorders to record their sessions with models in private, to preserve the precious moments you paid for it.

In conclusion, how some users end up buying diamond rings, dresses, hats, shoes etc is beyond me and this is a big no no, because you don�t even really know this model. You only know her image or what she is presenting to you. For example, have you ever seen some of these models without their makeup on? And when you do would you still want to be with them. Good question, huh think about that one for a minute. Some of these models on flirt4free you would never ever recognize if you seen them out in public without their makeup on. In the end, I slowly came to realize that like the model Alluria said �It�s not personal its just business�, and as long as you keep it business like you are safe.
:winkwink

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Created by: dudley_do_ride

4/3/09 @ 11:09am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: hain't Pochipsie son
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Another dangerous pattern to avoid:

GodUser: 'What have I done to deserve this disrespect? You say we are friends and yet now I see you talking to my sworn enemies. Even pleasuring them shamelessly.'

Model T: 'It is just business GodUser. I meant no disrespect. A lady has to eat. It is not an easy world.'

GodUser: 'And what about the code of silence? The Omerta. You told them all that you did not cum when you were with me last. You laughed. You squealed on me. You broke the code. And for what? A happier crowd in the room? A better chance for a followup pvt?'

Model T: 'Please GodUser. Please. You've got it all wrong. I would never do such a thing to you.'

GodUser: 'C'mere. Let me take you private once last time.'

ModelT: 'No Goduser, not the death private. No please, please give me another chance ....'

sigh All this could have been avoided if both had taken a few simple precautions...

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Created by: mydyingbride

4/3/09 @ 11:32am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Netherlands
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Lol bleu_lover... Funny how you mention "For example, have you ever seen some of these models without their makeup on?" I bet they look like monsters when you wake up next to them, lol (Was meant sarcastic)

Be careful blue_lover! Lol...

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Created by: blue_lover74

4/3/09 @ 12:11pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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That is funny post. I laughed my ass off when I read it. Becareful is the right word to use. By the way, MyDyingBride do you know something I don't know. Please feel free to share it.

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