Kertus -- I dont really think i am what you call a chick magnet, I just have been lucky.
Simple little things can make all the difference -- keep at least 90% of any time you are chatting to a woman as eye contact, remain interested in things she is telling you about herself, its not all about us guys - there needs to be give and take. Make her feel like she is special - not just with presents but little gestures - holding a door open if you go into a club or if you go for a meal - hold her chair when she sits down.
The tilt of the head, a hint of a smile all can be used to impless women - basic body language. IF you see a woman at the bar and offer her a drink but she declines - jst smile and walk away without saying something stupid like "Well it's your loss darlin" but either with a dignified silence or a polite 'sorry to of bothered you*'
* dont say it in a sarcastic tone unless you wish to be wearing whatever she is drinking at the time ( I know this from personal experience )
I've been lucky in meeting beautiful women that I have had dates with - and also I have had a LOT more tell me to Piss off. You live and learn is my experience.
1 thing i try to use as a rule of thumb is having sisters - I try yo speak to womnen I met how I would hope guys chat to my sisters - put myself in my sisters perspective- No woman wants to hear the same old tired chat up lines.
The right amount of personal confidence helps as well - dont go out thinking you are gods gift and act all macho - nowadays MANY women find the whole caveman attitude as being extinct. Same with guys that are so wet that anything they wear thats metal rusts after 1 day. Self assuredness but with a hint of personal vulnerability seems to work for me - but that will no doubt not be same for other guys.
Most of my small success has been by watching people and also the values I was taught by my parents to just be myself and have respect for others as I would hope they respect me.
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