Great post Saph Miss visiting your room. Look at it this way if you come in a restaurant and say your hungry but don't say what you want to eat then you get what the waiter brings you and you really have no room to complain about it either. When you go prvt not say anything sometimes we have to just move around guessing on what may turn this silent mystery customer on. So you spank your ass but maybe they love nipple licking. Who knows. Then they leave quick no ty at the end. Thats fine if thats what you want I know the argument is that you dont really want to care or know the girl but at least politely say what you want before hand to enjoy your ideal show. Barking commands doesn't make us feel really sexy. Quote

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Well unfortunately the thread that ALL colours need to read that I wrote has been moved to models section -- the guidelines for the proper etiquerre in open chat. It's not like the models need to be told how we are supposed to talk to them. And I dont want my next post to be a mature sensible one as I reach the 1500 land mark ! Quote

Maybe Brad or someone else from VS will realize that and move it back, or at least, have it in both forums. Quote

Good idea G-Mann. they should have it in both of forums.
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sometimes i have a few guys in the room saying random things, and i want so bad to try to say "if you would refer to forum tread, PVT etiquette! that would be quite lovely" but I am sure that would not be taken well. So I just try to seduce them and hope they will remember the manners their mommas taught them Quote

My 1500th reply - and it is simply a Copy + Paste of updates of 2 threads

[Suggs I kept them on a notepad ]

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1 -- No repetative begging :- This goes without saying, by all means ask a question ONCE and if performer declines dont just repeat the same thing over and over again.
2 -- Caps off please :- this is net chat equivalent of shouting at top of your voice and is not welcome
3 -- No promoting of a different site :- Do I need to even explain why this is so wrong?
4 -- No coming into a performers room to promote another performer off this site.
5 -- No discussing another performer UNLESS the model whose room you are in mentions them 1st.
6 -- The most important person in a room is the performer :- This one goes to all the ppl that come in and try to chat up any of the chatters.
7 -- When a performer says no to something it does not mean ask me again in 10 seconds and i will say yes
8 -- For the most part the performers speak / type in English to a varying degree.
9 -- A rule of thumb i follow is speak to the performers the exact same way that you would want any1 to speak to you - show the correct respect and manners and you will be fine.
10 -- All of the above rules are for when a performer is in open AND private :- Just because a customer has taken performer pvt does not give any1 carte blance to start being abusive, promoting another performer etc,
If every1 reads and tries to go by these simple 10 pointers the site will flow with a better movement than it has been recently where the idiots have seemongly ran amok.
*** If anyone else has any more guieslines for chat netiquette please dont hesitate to post ***
11 - show the models respect.
And if the model says no. "NO MEANS NO"
12 - No fighting with one another! I'm not talking about if some eejit comes in and starts insulting the model and all her fans spring to her defence; that's actually pretty sweet. I'm talking about picking fights with another member just for the sake of fighting - over football, politics, even the other person's username. DON'T DO IT. If a member says something you don't like, politely disagree with him and then ignore it. IGNORE it. Don't start a big macho testosterone-fuelled slanging match and keep whispering to the performer: "I'm sorry but HE started it". Be the bigger person and don't respond



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Pvt Etiquitte !

Started by Sexy Saphira


Ok I'll probably get shot down in flames, but I do have a couple of suggestions for you if you want your favourite model to enjoy pvt with you a little more. This is generally aimed at those who are new to this, as I'm sure the 'old hands' (no pun intended) already do these things:

1 - Letting her know in free chat that you're about to take her is always good (unless you want to surprise her that is), in case she needs to pee/finish her smoke/get her toys ready/whatever first.

2 - Don't be afraid to ask for what you want. She can't read your mind. By all means discuss it in open chat (that's what it was actually designed for), or at least ask her whether she's willing to do whatever it is you want. I hate being taken pvt and THEN having to say 'no, sorry, I can't shove my whole arm up my ass/kill my pet/puke all over myself/etc.' And respect her boundaries, 'no' means 'no', which is why it's better to check in open chat first. She probably WANTS to please you, so by all means let her know if you want a close up/more dirty talk/different position etc.

3 - Remember your manners. Of course time is money in this case so no-one HAS to use flowery language or bring seduction to an art form (unless you want to), but the odd 'plz' or 'ty' or 'yeah that's good' goes a LONG way towards helping her feel like she's doing it properly and making you happy. Rudely barking orders at her like she's some retarded robot is not good. Neither is bellowing 'HURRY UP!' at her if she's already going as fast as she can. Some things do take a minute. I'm not talking about girls who try to keep a customer talking to delay it; I'm talking about getting out the lube if you want anal, getting the camera angle right sort of thing.

4 - At the end, if there's still time, by all means take the one second it takes to type 'ty'. It makes such a huge difference. It also helps her to know that you ARE actually done, and haven't been caught by your wife/disconnected from the Internet/had a heart attack... etc.

5 - If you really enjoyed yourself, then by all means leave her a nice review. It's wonderful advertising. There's also a tip function in pvt if you really want to show your appreciation.

6 - Have FUN!

If anyone can think of any more to add, please feel free to do so

Others to be added

7 - but if you know your limit before, get that taken care of so you don't have to interrupt yourself ..
if you're stripped for time, don't be afraid to tell us. If you're respectful and honest

8 - Make a review, be honest, other customers will use them as advice as to if they should go private. So be fair and accurate

9 - I normally let my regular know when I'm leaving - say, "I am going in 1 or 2 mintues".

10 - And when it comes to the end i like to make sure i have plenty of time to thank her for the time together and alwsys say 'I'll give ya time to get cleaned up and camera in right positiion before leading you back out'

11 - If you have time left, please don't leave WHILE THE MODEL IS STILL CUMMING! A drawback of not faking your orgasms is that once one has started, it's kinda hard to just 'stop'. lol. This has happened to me on more than one occasion and every time the member still had well over 5 minutes left on the clock. Nothing like opening your eyes and realising that a full room of people is now peering up your still contracting snatch! [This comment has got her new members and privates]

12 - let her prepare: let her use the bathroom, smoke, etc. also get her outfits, shoes, toys, etc. ready, change if she wants to before private (most wont, but some will if they know the guy is going, usually a regular customer); so she isnt rushing to get that stuff while she's on the clock



Members - be adults . Not so hard

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this forum has been good for more people than you think, i didnt actually think of changing and getting ready before pvt, but thats a great idea...
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I'm new on the site have yet to go on and see all of you guys yet, but i will soon

This post has been awesome, it would have been nice to have something like this on my old site,somethings I wanted to add tho. I worked on a diff site for almost a year, there are some guys (despite the ranking they hold who will be rude. If a guy is going to be rude to me it shows that he's not interested in me and has no respect for me and perhaps some of the other girls. Plus it only makes him look bad to the other guys in the room so if someone wants to act like a jackass and talk badly about you, let him because the guys that talk to you on a normal basis know that that one guy who's being rude, is just being rude end of story there's no "truth" in what hes saying or anything like that.

I honestly think that some of the guys who are rude are just having a bad day and need to put you or others down just to make themselves feel better. What do you do? Kill him with kindness, then next time maybe he will be nicer to you and maybe say "hey, I was having a really crappy day sorry I acted like that"

On a side note guys if you are having a crappy day let us know we can try to help make you feel better (not by just pleasing ourselves lol ) but by having a true convo. with you.

As far as being able to tell who's going to be the one to convert from grey to white or even yellow, you can't tell. It's up to the model to talk to everyone. Treat others as you want to be treated, so I do and in the past I've gotten good feedback. It's up to us to let the grey guys know hey were smart and sexy. Whats your pleasure?. Not all guys are going to respond to the "I'm so horny" remark this hot little thing has just told them. Correct me if I'm wrong but guys also want to know that other than being amazingly sexy we have a personality too. We can talk about other things than just sex. Than again sex is the best topic lol

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You are true gentleman, Suggs. The site needs more guys like you


Are you suggesting that most of the guys on this site are NOT true gentlemen?

I'm a guy like Suggs! Well, up to a point anyway!

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