my guess is you never visited vip forums ....
many threads there about this subject ....
many,many,many,many

lol. I would call it more of a support group if anything.
I've never met a model but I've had a couple of tumultuous online "relationships" with a couple, (mostly arguing back and forth who is loyal to who) but we remain friends which to me is more important then unrealistic promises.
I did travel a long way once a LONG time ago to meet someone from a non adult website (and before webcams existed) after 6 months and a couple grand in long distance bills. It was to the point of acknowledging on the phone we really had a connection (basically saying "I think I might be falling for you"). When we met it was really special, but knowing someone face to face is a lot different and less glamorous then online/phone and eventually we sort of realized we were 2 people from worlds too different and not willing to relocate either way. Plus she was really into drugs lol. Another thing is we were in bed 1 hour after we met, and as fun as it was if I ever did it again I would shake hands first. Keep it friendly.
I had one model tell me about a time she developed a relationship with someone thinking it was really special but the guy just basically left once they had sex, so broken hearts can happen both ways.
In Canada there's a TV documentary show called "Webdreams" that follows around a webcam model, and when she's at home with her BF she's miserable. But you see her face light up when she's at work chatting to her customers. So I think getting hooked on the emotional aspect can and does happen both ways.
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