well said. .

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1 -- No repetative begging :- This goes without saying, by all means ask a question ONCE and if performer declines dont just repeat the same thing over and over again.
2 -- Caps off please :- this is net chat equivalent of shouting at top of your voice and is not welcome
3 -- No promoting of a different site :- Do I need to even explain why this is so wrong?
4 -- No coming into a performers room to promote another performer off this site.
5 -- No discussing another performer UNLESS the model whose room you are in mentions them 1st.
6 -- The most important person in a room is the performer :- This one goes to all the ppl that come in and try to chat up any of the chatters.
7 -- When a performer says no to something it does not mean ask me again in 10 seconds and i will say yes
8 -- For the most part the performers speak / type in English to a varying degree.
9 -- A rule of thumb i follow is speak to the performers the exact same way that you would want any1 to speak to you - show the correct respect and manners and you will be fine.
10 -- All of the above rules are for when a performer is in open AND private :- Just because a customer has taken performer pvt does not give any1 carte blance to start being abusive, promoting another performer etc,
If every1 reads and tries to go by these simple 10 pointers the site will flow with a better movement than it has been recently where the idiots have seemongly ran amok.
*** If anyone else has any more guieslines for chat netiquette please dont hesitate to post ***
11 - show the models respect.
And if the model says no. "NO MEANS NO"
12 - No fighting with one another! I'm not talking about if some eejit comes in and starts insulting the model and all her fans spring to her defence; that's actually pretty sweet. I'm talking about picking fights with another member just for the sake of fighting - over football, politics, even the other person's username. DON'T DO IT. If a member says something you don't like, politely disagree with him and then ignore it. IGNORE it. Don't start a big macho testosterone-fuelled slanging match and keep whispering to the performer: "I'm sorry but HE started it". Be the bigger person and don't respond
Congradulations To Saphira and Ozzie adding more



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a totally deserved bump!!




kisses on yer best bits..
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Amen!



Amen. I hope this works
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Importing these from another etiquette thread.:

So, these are just my personal rules. These aren't numbered because I couldn't decide on an order. If I think of any more, I'll add them in another post.

Be as friendly as possible with the models with the knowledge that these girls are doing a job first and foremost, and that having fun is one of the great benefits of it.

Treat the model like a full person. Everybody asks her to show her ass or tits. If you do it, you're just like everybody else.

Try to compliment the model on something OTHER than her tits and ass...unless she's really trying to show you how nice her ass is. That's okay then.

Everybody likes a good joke. Don't take yourself too seriously.

DON'T SCREAM

Use /WHISPER to avoid conflicts and discuss personal arrangements before private. Do not use it to just talk to the model. It makes the room look dead.

Don't wank in open chat. Seriously. That's just lame.

Don't wank in open chat, then take the girl private for 30 seconds to finish off.

Don't take a girl private with 'scared money'. This site isn't worth going broke for.

Don't try to get the model to do something she doesn't want to do or is not physically able to do. No means no.

A lot of models are willing to do special requests. If you set up an appointment with a model and ask for something specific, do your best not to flake, and if you do miss your appointment, write an apology ASAP.

If somebody flakes on a model, and you have enough money for a private show. Take the model, and see what the other guy is missing. She'll appreciate it, and you might discover a new fetish to enjoy! :D

A good private is always at least 20 minutes. It's long enough, usually, for the model to cum and for you to really enjoy the full range of what the model enjoys doing.

TALK TO THE MODEL WHEN YOU'RE IN PRIVATE. It's not that hard to wank and type. A little frustrating, yes, but not hard. The ladies love feedback and they want to make sure you're enjoying the show!

Don't start talking dirty in open chat unless you're ready to take the model private. (I call this the 'shooting blanks' rule.)

Say 'Thank you' after a private. Even though these girls do this for a job, they are sharing something very personal with you. A thank you always goes a long way.

ALWAYS write a review after your private. It used to be that if you used the name you used to take the model private, it would say so in the review. That does not appear to be the case anymore, so if you want to use a different nick to protect your privacy, feel free. But do leave a review.

HAVE A PLAN

You're not doing the model or yourself any favors by not knowing what you want when you take a model private. Back in my early days here, I would sometimes take a girl private and she'd talk my ear off, or give me a confused look because I'd simply say I wanted to do whatever she wanted. Some of them BEGGED me for direction, and I would simply not give it to them. These were probably the worst privates I could have ever had, and I only had myself to blame.

She's there to make you happy! If you want to talk, then by all means, do so. Talking in private builds rapport with a model, and can make the times you do go in for sex a lot more intimate and fun. But, if you're there to have fun, then make sure she knows what you want. Be creative with your dirty talk and let her know you're there to have a good time with her!

If somebody else comes out of a really short private, just welcome the model back. Don't say, "That was short." or "That was quick." It's really rude. Maybe the guy was just trying to burn his final credits off. Maybe that's all he could afford. You don't know. Just welcome her back. If you must say, "That was quick" then whisper it.

TALK IN OPEN CHAT! That's what it's for! Even if you're just there to hang out, at least say 'Hello'. It's frustrating when the room is dead.

In the very rare and almost non-existent moments when you must mention another model's name in your current model's chat room, please be sure to ask the models permission before doing so. Quote

Thank you so much for this awesome post! I hope that alot of people read this and use it as their 'Bible' Y'all are truly a Godsend! Muah! Sapphire C Quote

Would like to add one more to the list:


Don't go in a room and sit there quietly never responding to the model's attempt to include ya in the chat of the room----its called lurking

I'm sure there are models who can verify the following:

Lurking is creepy, annoying and frustrating

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Would like to add one more to the list:


Don't go in a room and sit there quietly never responding to the model's attempt to include ya in the chat of the room----its called lurking

I'm sure there are models who can verify the following:

Lurking is creepy, annoying and frustrating









Yup... I hate it! Quote

Suggs, I voted for you in the photo contest. Quote

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I have an etiquette question I need help on, I would love to hang out in a performer's room to chat, especially after a day after a nice private session (or even sessions) with her. However, I'm kind of money-shy to spend my credits again for a private until I build up enough credits for another private. Can I still just hang out in the chat room to chat (following all the polite etiquette rules above), or am I expected to have a private every time I come in the chat room after a private session with her?

Thanks a lot in advance for answering this, it would help me. Quote

I have an etiquette question I need help on, I would love to hang out in a performer's room to chat, especially after a day after a nice private session (or even sessions) with her. However, I'm kind of money-shy to spend my credits again for a private until I build up enough credits for another private. Can I still just hang out in the chat room to chat (following all the polite etiquette rules above), or am I expected to have a private every time I come in the chat room after a private session with her?

Thanks a lot in advance for answering this, it would help me.



I would suggest you ask the model---whisper your question and see what she says. You'll never know her respond if you don't ask.

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I would suggest you ask the model---whisper your question and see what she says. You'll never know her respond if you don't ask.

Just my of advice for you.


Thanks, what's a whisper? How would one whisper? Thanks again in advance.

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Most models dont mind you being in their rooms just chatting after you have taken them pvt on a previous visit.

To whisper you put /modelname before your comment.

Example if model is called Saffron asking if she has a pink bikini for pvt. To whisper type

/Saffron have you got a pink bikini for pvt?

You can use the first 3 or 4 letters of their name.

Just remember to keep whispering to a sesible amont
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I'd like to add something else
Site prices are not about to be discusses.The fact some of the models are able to go to semi pvt or cheaper rate doesnt mean everybody can do it and can do it any time.Demanding the model to go cheaper mode immediately so u can spend more time with her/him is just silly and comments like this site is too expensive i will never take u pvt so show me something for free are just ridiculous.
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Most models dont mind you being in their rooms just chatting after you have taken them pvt on a previous visit.

To whisper you put /modelname before your comment.

Example if model is called Saffron asking if she has a pink bikini for pvt. To whisper type

/Saffron have you got a pink bikini for pvt?

You can use the first 3 or 4 letters of their name.

Just remember to keep whispering to a sesible amont



Thanks Suggs!


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I agree with everyone else on this. I think it is a really good set of guidelines that everyone should read and follow. All the models I've meet so far have been amazing and dont deserve to have some dumb idiot come in and treat them disrespectfully. Ohh this is my first time in forums so nice to meet everyone Quote

nice to meet u too hun.welcome Quote