SOO many things to say here and the question is where to start... Here I go...
It is verboten to have a relationship with someone from the site we can get in trouble.. However with that being said some of us women and men are open to the possibility of the perfect match being anywhere... I CAN honestly say that when I started doing this it was not in the forefront of my mind however you seem to meet people with real intellect and a true sense of self worth and respect for others.. There are many times that we have that one person that makes our candle flicker and we have the ups and downs of any relationship... I will not say it is right or it is wrong but love can be found in any place especially one like this..
We models male and female open ourselves up to your interpretation and criticism or your approval or denial every single day of our lives... Why would it be impossible to think that that one perfect person is that very same person that sends you a single email everyday saying hello gorgeous hope you have a good day, and when you are alone you talk about everything under the sun away from everyone but under the watchful eye of the ever opening curtain.... I do have to admit that yes being a single woman sucks but to be honest I can say that there are specific times when I am "working" here My blood boils with excitement and that giddiness of the relationship butterflies.. I will not say if one or more people do this to me but I will say that when this happens to me it is genuine on my part.. When I tell someone what they mean to me... THAT PERSON MEANS EXACTLY THAT TO ME!!! I do not sugar coat anything about myself. If I am in a bitchy mood I'll tell you.. If I am in love or smitten I will tell you... If Im not feeling what you are saying I will tell you... This is a fantasy site true enough....I will say that I came here not for the money but for the connection that was lacking in my life... I enjoy every ounce of interaction that I have with everyone..
For someone to think that it is impossible for a model to fall head over heels for someone isn�t thinking 100 percent clearly.. We are human too�. If that is not what you mean then this was my interpretation.. I will not apologize�
There is a reason for a lot of the men and women that come here and their fantasy is simply to have the GFE or BFE.. (the girlfriend experience or the Boyfriend Experience..) Suffice it to say that they don�t want to have to say what they want when they take a woman or man pvt.. I know these people mostly when they hit pvt and I say hello. I get the how was your day dear�. I love it when a man is secure in himself enough to lay it all on the line and when they do that then it is truly a selfless thing that happens after that, you start falling.. I can say it can be dangerous and I will not say that I Have done anything wrong since I have been on this site because I have not however with that being said I wont say that I have not truly been tempted because of long standing relationships and truth talking� I am lucky because what my true profession allows me to know is, when someone is feeding me a line of BS�. God Lawyers rock� The good ones anyways�.
I know many men that would love to have a woman from here to wake up next to and to be honest everyone who has taken me away from the watchful eye of the entire room has seen me without makeup at one point or another while visiting me�.

That special one is out there and if the communication is honest and true anything is possible�..

I hope I ruffled a few feathers I like the opinions.....



in Paradise

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I personally feel that it is possible for a member to fall for a model and a model to fall for a member. Is it against the rules, absolutely, but does it happen, absolutely. There are certain people that when they enter my room, my face just lights up and it is not because this person is going to spend a lot of time with me in private, but because this person makes me laugh my ass off all night long. Private chats do however open up that closet of intimacy that just cannot be touched in free chat, only because there are always so many people listening in. If the feelings you have for that certain someone is true, then you should handle it like you would in the real world, with the up most respect, and there should be a level of discretion that should not be exposed to the rest of the chatters in an open room. While talking to someone on the phone or chatting on the computer, you will get to know a person and to develop and emotional connection would be likely if you are really feeling what the other is saying. But, on the flip side, this is a chat site and you cannot take what everyone says at face value. Models and members alike need to be careful because everyone is not always who they say they are and living in the world that we live in, there are a whole lot of looney tunes lurking and waiting to take advantage of someones feelings and naivety. Just be careful. Quote

SOO many things to say here and the question is where to start... Here I go...
It is verboten to have a relationship with someone from the site we can get in trouble.. However with that being said some of us women and men are open to the possibility of the perfect match being anywhere... I CAN honestly say that when I started doing this it was not in the forefront of my mind however you seem to meet people with real intellect and a true sense of self worth and respect for others.. There are many times that we have that one person that makes our candle flicker and we have the ups and downs of any relationship... I will not say it is right or it is wrong but love can be found in any place especially one like this..
We models male and female open ourselves up to your interpretation and criticism or your approval or denial every single day of our lives... Why would it be impossible to think that that one perfect person is that very same person that sends you a single email everyday saying hello gorgeous hope you have a good day, and when you are alone you talk about everything under the sun away from everyone but under the watchful eye of the ever opening curtain.... I do have to admit that yes being a single woman sucks but to be honest I can say that there are specific times when I am "working" here My blood boils with excitement and that giddiness of the relationship butterflies.. I will not say if one or more people do this to me but I will say that when this happens to me it is genuine on my part.. When I tell someone what they mean to me... THAT PERSON MEANS EXACTLY THAT TO ME!!! I do not sugar coat anything about myself. If I am in a bitchy mood I'll tell you.. If I am in love or smitten I will tell you... If Im not feeling what you are saying I will tell you... This is a fantasy site true enough....I will say that I came here not for the money but for the connection that was lacking in my life... I enjoy every ounce of interaction that I have with everyone..
For someone to think that it is impossible for a model to fall head over heels for someone isn�t thinking 100 percent clearly.. We are human too�. If that is not what you mean then this was my interpretation.. I will not apologize�
There is a reason for a lot of the men and women that come here and their fantasy is simply to have the GFE or BFE.. (the girlfriend experience or the Boyfriend Experience..) Suffice it to say that they don�t want to have to say what they want when they take a woman or man pvt.. I know these people mostly when they hit pvt and I say hello. I get the how was your day dear�. I love it when a man is secure in himself enough to lay it all on the line and when they do that then it is truly a selfless thing that happens after that, you start falling.. I can say it can be dangerous and I will not say that I Have done anything wrong since I have been on this site because I have not however with that being said I wont say that I have not truly been tempted because of long standing relationships and truth talking� I am lucky because what my true profession allows me to know is, when someone is feeding me a line of BS�. God Lawyers rock� The good ones anyways�.
I know many men that would love to have a woman from here to wake up next to and to be honest everyone who has taken me away from the watchful eye of the entire room has seen me without makeup at one point or another while visiting me�.
That special one is out there and if the communication is honest and true anything is possible�..
I hope I ruffled a few feathers I like the opinions.....
in Paradise
Maria


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I agree with everything Carla just said.

This whole thread makes me a little nervous, to be frank. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings if possible, especially over something so important.

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Of course anything is possible in live. I would do not have the answer but I can say that when I get on-line you guys (an if you have been in my room often then you know) make me go from having had a trying or sad day into a fun and thrilling night or day. You are always (99.9%) of the time kind and caring towards me and I am most grateful. While I was out ill you sent me messages of support and caring and I am grateful for that. I do think it is most def. a two way street. So thank you all for being you and for letting me get the chance to know you. As for those of you who just sit in the room and do not talk I do see you I just do not like to call out names because I figure if you wanted to talk you would. As always I will post it here to but I love to teach my shy guys how to whisper so to whisper where only I can see it or whichever wonderful model you choose to visit you can us this and only the model can see what you are saying. I always say start with the test message just in case the whisper does not work the first time. O.K. here it is you do the following: /models name (you only need first name) the your message so here it is if you where in my room whispering to me: /cali test then I would let you know if you got it or not. So feel free to use that with me or your favorite model if you are shy or want to say something just to here. ~1 Cali Quote

"WHAT HAPPENS WHEN A USER FALLS IN LOVE WITH A WEBCAM MODEL"


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Look guys, most of you are super sweet heart and smart. I beg you not to fall for some model and bring her here. Sometimetimes it might be real, others and most likely not. I am not trying to bust your bubble, but this is not a dating/marraige sight. If you find a girl into that, she might be scamming you. I am not saying that love can't happen, just don't expect it so fast. I love ya'll and don't want you to be hurt. Please, take your time, and be super wary of all models ( i am not going to direct this to countries- just be careful) that fall quick for you and are ready to move quickly to your area. - Luckie Daye!!!!!!!!

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yep....been there, done that.
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i know who you are talking about. great, yet unlikely, story. good for them!!! Quote

On-site relationships follow the samr principle as a walk across a Continent -- take it 1 step at a time.


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Haha owl hangs out in my room everytime i am on so that is funny. I don't think it is possible for anyone to fall in love online.......... just my opinion. I have been on here for a couple of months and i have seen a lot of talk ;)

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honestly, there have been times that i couldn't get a guy from here out of my head after i logged off. when we've cammed or talked on the phone or just chatted for a long time then connections are made both ways. there are members here that i consider friends, there are some that make my heart race when i see their name in my room, there are others that can put me completely at ease and have fun relaxing times with me, and there has been a few occasions that i actually felt like a giddy schoolgirl with a crush.

not everyone is looking for that kind of connection, but they can be found here. of course there are rules that we as models cant' break and i don't think this is the place to get into the complexities of that.

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I know what you mean..... there are a certain few guys that are my favorite and make me smile like a kid in a candy store!! when they aren't on it just isn't the same. they make me want to stay on long after i have to get off line......... so i lag on that sometimes hehe.
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But how do you know if its real?, if the girl isn't just saying them words to get the guy in to a private show or if the guy is saying he is only thinking about that one girl, but really she is number 3 on his list that night. Quote

"WHAT HAPPENS WHEN A USER FALLS IN LOVE WITH A WEBCAM MODEL"
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for who the user or the model ?


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. I don't think it is possible for anyone to fall in love online.......... just my opinion. I have been on here for a couple of months and i have seen a lot of talk ;)


Krysalis let's say stranger things have happened ....

I never believed it too have to say and I would try not to let people get to close to me in that way on such sites, but one did and we hare happy together now

Sometimes you just click with a person and they click back and even a person like me that trys not to let that happen it happened.

Some things are just meant to be I guess.....


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I never believed it too have to say and I would try not to let people get to close to me in that way on such sites, but one did and we hare happy together now
Sometimes you just click with a person and they click back and even a person like me that trys not to let that happen it happened.
Some things are just meant to be I guess.....
Regards
Nabil



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Once upon a looong time a young man visited a chatline named "flirt4free". He was young and the relationship to his girlfriend just broke 1 or 2 weeks before. He was looking for some consolation and some company to get some other thoughts in his mind. The adress of this chatline he got from a friend which was member of this site already.

He looked around and found some amazing slovakian lady. They started chatting, chatting, emailing, calling writing SMS and so on. They got to know each other better every day. They were talking about their personal lifes, wishes, dreams, sorrows, destinations and desires. They found out that they are very similar. It seems like they were soul mates... Actually HE thought they were soul mates.

After some time they decided to meet each other in real. They wanted to see, if this what they felt for each other is true or just a illusion... He suggested to visit her in her country, because he wanted her to feel safe and comfortable when they meet the first time. But she insisted that she would come to HIS country. She told him she would like to see how he lives, where he lives and she would stay for a whole week there with him.

So he did send her the money for the ticket around 1 week before. The time was going sooo slow for both till that special day was there. This week seemed to be neverending for them. But then, finally the day was coming and they saw into each others eyes for the first time in real. C2C was not possible and they just changed photos before. They took each other into their arms, kissed each other like they just were separated for a longer time...

(ok I need to finish here for now, because I have a meeting) TO BE CONTINUED





P.S.: Similarity with existing persons are unintentional
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