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Angelica Krause
Created by: Angelica Krause

1/18/09 @ 11:58am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

One of the things that I love about this site is the great diversity in the models. There are so many beautiful gals & guys of all different shapes & sizes that anyone could find what they are looking for! So, if you come into one of our rooms and you don't like what you see, why not just leave quietly without making nasty comments? If you think the model is to skinny, too curvy, or whatever there is really no need in being mean, evil, wicked, bad and nasty about it. :) I know this has happened to most of the models at some point; please don't build up your self esteem by tearing ours down!

It's just like your mama taught you - If you can't say something nice don't say anything at all! Just my :twocents ! So, any GENTLEMEN looking for a sweet curvy southern girl please stop by and say hello - I'd love to meet you!

AK
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Gina V
Created by: Gina V

1/18/09 @ 3:06pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

Thankya. Thankyavurrymuch, ma'am. I completely agree. :)
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Created by: suggs

1/18/09 @ 3:26pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Left of centre
Posts: 6,768

I use a somewhat similar philosophy as well as the 1 you mention -- speak to a model the way that you want people to talk to your brothers and sisters

'Keep mouth shut and give impression of intelligence instead of opening your mouth and removing all pretence"
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amicu
Created by: amicu

1/18/09 @ 6:21pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: In the F4F Archives, Sublevel 5, aisles 71-72
Posts: 1,088

Yes but some guys were clearly raised by wolves. There can be no other rational explanation for the anti-social behavior of the person who comes into a model's room to say she's too old/too fat/too ugly/too whatever and spend as much of his time as humanely possible spilling the most virulent dribble, pleased with his ability to torment anyone and anything in sight. As if there wasn't a question in any of our minds what sort of person it would take to please himself by humiliating others. While your effort to remind them to be respectful is appreciated, I think these particular guys are beyond any help, doubtful as unsuccessful meeting women in real as they are flirting with models here. Better to just let Darwin's theories do its work..
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Angelica Krause
Created by: Angelica Krause

1/18/09 @ 7:01pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

LOL, you are right about Darwin's theories. The chances of these guys reproducing is pretty slim. I guess sometimes we all just have to take a hit for the next generation!

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Scarlett West
Created by: Scarlett West

1/19/09 @ 12:28am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

Good thread :)

Every model is different and some can put up with more than others, though. Regardless, we should all be treated with respect.

The only thing that keeps me from going ballistic is to remind myself the rude ones are generally very troubled people -- and possibly quite young hoping to see an *OMG* nipple flash. Or for us to even say the word nipple.

Lately i've met a few great guys who definitely outweigh the not so great..!
So far my best experiences have been for guys to start off with a nice convo, maybe i'm teasing a bit.. but when they cant take it any more, they know to stand firm and say "ok nuff chit chat, get down to business!!" with a smile on their faces :D Makes me laugh and i'm very happy to please them at this point. <3
If youre going to be rude and it is a part of your act.. just warn us first, chances are i'm totally ok to go along with it if I know you are actually a decent guy deep down. :)

I had a guy take me pvt totally randomly the other day, just to cuss me out and tell me how lame I was. "Turn there. no wait stop, thats ugly. Ok do this... oh god no.. you suck" :orglaugh I was like WTF?? lol
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Created by: lickau

1/19/09 @ 1:10am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Moving slowly but surely somewhere sometime
Posts: 29,285

Welcome to FLirt4Free :drinkup
Men seem to leave thier upper brain unactive oncce thier lower brains reacts :winkwink

I remember the "Gloden Rule" very well . Treat others the way you would like others treat you .
Mambe they had headphones on that year or 10 when they were taught that :orglaugh

I hope your topic makes a few "THINK" before they write :bulb

:guitar :party :drinkup :drinkup :drinkup :party :guitar
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Aries Knightly
Created by: Aries Knightly

1/19/09 @ 1:41am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

Good thread :)
.....I had a guy take me pvt totally randomly the other day, just to cuss me out and tell me how lame I was. "Turn there. no wait stop, thats ugly. Ok do this... oh god no.. you suck" :orglaugh I was like WTF?? lol


OMG.. .WHAT?? Someone PAID $5.99 a minute to be an ass. In this economy? What is that about?


I had someone be a huge ass to me once, I told him to quit it and he was like "you want the private dont you" and I ended the private. He went private again..I told him to apologize and he refused and I ended the pvt again. He has since apologized and is one of my better customers.. but you know.. its just weird seein that someone would take you private and curse you out. Wtf? Like you just have to sit there and take it because they're paying. Self esteem issues anyone?

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Heather Adams
Created by: Heather Adams

1/19/09 @ 2:28am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

You take me private--no introductions or pleasantries, belligerent and offensive direct orders, comments, etc....I don't need YOUR money that badly. I have ended several privates without a second thought. I REFUSE to be treated like that. I don't care what occupation you are: call girl, doctor, sex phone operator, administrator, preacher, whatever...everyone deserves respect. No one here should expect less--customer or performer.
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Scarlett West
Created by: Scarlett West

1/19/09 @ 1:06pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

OMG.. .WHAT?? Someone PAID $5.99 a minute to be an ass. In this economy? What is that about?
I had someone be a huge ass to me once, I told him to quit it and he was like "you want the private dont you" and I ended the private. He went private again..I told him to apologize and he refused and I ended the pvt again. He has since apologized and is one of my better customers.. but you know.. its just weird seein that someone would take you private and curse you out. Wtf? Like you just have to sit there and take it because they're paying. Self esteem issues anyone?


LOL yep :) Luckily I could forget about it quickly -- as I believe I had the upper hand. :)

And GEEZ i hate that line more than "hand bra 3 seconds for 30 min private": "You want the private don't you?" or something along the lines of "well I guess you don't want the private!" ...I guess I don't! :D
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Aries Knightly
Created by: Aries Knightly

1/19/09 @ 2:11pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

LOL yep :) Luckily I could forget about it quickly -- as I believe I had the upper hand. :)
And GEEZ i hate that line more than "hand bra 3 seconds for 30 min private": "You want the private don't you?" or something along the lines of "well I guess you don't want the private!" ...I guess I don't! :D


Ugh.. I hate that. Some people think that because we have this job that we're unbelievably desperate for money.

My absolute favorite line is "show me your tits 30 seconds, jump on one foot naked through a hoop while juggling pink flaming poodles and read a novel with a south american accent and ill go private for an hour."

you know whats more annoying, though. I actually have had people go private after I do some of their requests. So how am I supposed to know who to respond too.. lol. You just cant win. :winkwink
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Kitty Nubian
Created by: Kitty Nubian

1/19/09 @ 2:28pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

You take me private--no introductions or pleasantries, belligerent and offensive direct orders, comments, etc....I don't need YOUR money that badly. I have ended several privates without a second thought. I REFUSE to be treated like that. I don't care what occupation you are: call girl, doctor, sex phone operator, administrator, preacher, whatever...everyone deserves respect. No one here should expect less--customer or performer.



I find myself being this way too! Don't come in my room throwing out demands without even taking the time to say "Hi, how are you today"! I think its very rude. I was always taught to speak when i enter a room. So the one's that just enter the room and the first thing they say is "Show tits!" i ignore them until they realize they're not getting my attention and the ones that ARE getting my attention are the ones atleast saying "hello".
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Created by: suggs

1/19/09 @ 2:51pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Left of centre
Posts: 6,768

well its same for us 'nice guys' when wew are in a room and some new chatter appears - ( grey, white or gold ) that automaticly makes the 1st comment he or she posts being

"SHOW *Insert name of body part here" NOW"
or
"I FUCK YOU NOW"

makes me want to reach down thru the screen grab the twerp by their neck and slap some sense and manners into them woth a frozen leg of lamb.

Just recently theres been a preponderance of GOLD doing this more than greys because some VIP's seem to think that as they pay the monthly fees they are more important than others - errr WRONG !

and now a joke to lighten the mood.

What's the difference between a G-spot and a golf ball?

A guy will spend 15 minutes looking for a golf ball
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friend123
Created by: friend123

1/19/09 @ 3:10pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

golf balls are lucky
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Scarlett West
Created by: Scarlett West

1/19/09 @ 9:31pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

Ugh.. I hate that. Some people think that because we have this job that we're unbelievably desperate for money.
My absolute favorite line is "show me your tits 30 seconds, jump on one foot naked through a hoop while juggling pink flaming poodles and read a novel with a south american accent and ill go private for an hour."
you know whats more annoying, though. I actually have had people go private after I do some of their requests. So how am I supposed to know who to respond too.. lol. You just cant win. :winkwink


Aries, I havnt really replied to any of the more demanding people yet to find out if it even works.. so maybe I should every now and then. :)

Also, I just want to point out -- that for me (again, cant speak for everyone).. I try to respond to as many people as I can without saying "HELLO, A, B, C and D! How are you C and D? Oh really B and C.. and.. A... ha ha!" in the same greeting.. it is quite difficult to make everyone feel like I am paying attention, I do tend to respond to white and golds more as by my reason would technically know what to expect, and know the rules.. etc.. how things work, meanwhile 9 out of 10 greys are .. as we already discussed "SHOW TITS.. ASS.. TITS.. ok ASS NOW!" .. but then I feel bad if I have 10-15 greys actually having a meaningful conversation... ahhh!! Maybe we can throw in another suggestion to the box... to give models our own personal assistants.. :P any chance?... hmm? No...??? ...

Ive developed the "attitude" technique of if I have actually stood up to "show ass".. then I sit back down, then 5 seconds later.. I stand up... sit.. stand.. twirl.. bend... fold..flip... I was near out of breath, I made the next guy to demand such from me.. to promise that in 10 seconds when the next person asks.. he will just describe it to them for me so I can have a show-ass-break ;) It helped ;) I understand people want to see what we've got... but cmon, if youre seeing me from the front you can expect the back to be of equality -- just with an ass. Everyone knows what an ass looks like!!

Wow this is long and winded.

PS: LOL Suggs re: golf ball :p
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Angelica Krause
Created by: Angelica Krause

1/19/09 @ 10:39pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

Love the suggestion about making one of them tell what the ass looked like! I make everyone in the room say please or pretty please before I will!
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Scarlett West
Created by: Scarlett West

1/19/09 @ 11:13pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

Love the suggestion about making one of them tell what the ass looked like! I make everyone in the room say please or pretty please before I will!


sometimes i take a room vote to see what everyone wants -- and will only show if a decent # of people respond ;) wakes up the 'watchers' on occasion :p
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Prue Dobson
Created by: Prue Dobson

1/19/09 @ 11:32pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

Definitely support all of that. I've already had a couple degenerates who say extremely rude things about me as a bigger lady, and I usually say 'Excuse me?' or watch the rest of the room yell at them for being so stupid. Some guys on here are just so sweet. :angel
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Gina V
Created by: Gina V

1/20/09 @ 3:37am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

I printed a picture of a donkey; I stick it in front of the camera when someone gives me the "show ass" treatment.

You should know by now that I am NOT kidding.
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Aries Knightly
Created by: Aries Knightly

1/20/09 @ 2:24pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

I printed a picture of a donkey; I stick it in front of the camera when someone gives me the "show ass" treatment.
You should know by now that I am NOT kidding.


:orglaugh :orglaugh :orglaugh :orglaugh :orglaugh :orglaugh :orglaugh

Just two days ago I was in my room saying I should have kept the stuffed donkey I won at a carnival (the one from Shrek) so when people demanded to see ass I could show them Ass.


we run on the same wavelength! :orglaugh :orglaugh
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