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Female Performer Chat: a note about bannings for no reason ect. (from the VIP forum)

Created by: betenoir

1/26/11 @ 12:51pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Old Town, Basin City
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okay.. i'm not going nuclear here. just skimmed the past few entries, and i've no high horse or agenda other than to try to get you guys to relax just a little bit okay? i know we've had our problems, mostly with my ummmmmm *shrug*; that said.. the psst few days should have shown us all some things about ourselves, about the nature of this as a business, about needs and wants that are different and the same in everyone involved.

i've a legend of mixed materials here, and elsewhere in this business; some good things said and done, some really really bad. apologies to all.

its a business, we are all.. the business. every line of text, every soft blown kiss, every angry word, every plundered body, every exercised fantasy... all of it a strange sparkly, shiney, toy with a dark shadowed center.

it's about money.. and fun.. and heart ache. and we are it... the business. so.. try not to get exercised when a woman you find beautiful and desireable.. suddenly seems to have her eyes somewhere behind you.. on some other part of you than you so desperately want her to. i know.. i know.. i know.

just remember.. it's a playground run by those you never really see or touch or even would recognise. it has it's own carefully planned rules, and runs at it's own speed.. and sometimes it's very very bumpy for each of you.

and it will always watch out carefully for itself, because.. it is a business. *sigh* i love you all.. even cabbage boy believe it or not.

*leans my head on Brad's shoulder*

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Created by: dirtybit

1/26/11 @ 1:07pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Created by: suggs

1/26/11 @ 2:15pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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@ bete - the voice of reason.

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Created by: idude

1/27/11 @ 11:05am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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There are bigger issues in the world .. People need to get over themselves. The way I see people act on this site never ceases to amuse me.

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Created by: uscricky

1/27/11 @ 11:46am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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well said

there is certainly a more diverse clientel here compared to other sites___ :winkwink

but every site including ours,has it`s small band of merry obsessive`s,stalker`s & fruit cake`s :helpme

haha!

some here take everything too seriously and have huge ego`s haha!
its about entertainment & fun :guitar

those who can not handle that,should either lighten up or pack there bags & take to the high road :guitar

haha!

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Created by: easyfellow

1/27/11 @ 12:24pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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From what I have read in the forums, there is some turbulence in some rooms esp. in partychat rooms.
Some people (me for instance and i suppose Bete too) tip their favorite(s), because they like to help her and because they don't like to see her fail in her party.
Other people know that and abuse that, because they can see the show for free.
They know that only 4 or 5 people will pay for them.
When i speak for myself: I much much more like to spend my credits in pvts and i have been thinking many times to leave the parties from my favorite, because i don't grant 95 freeloaders a free show all the time.

I think that the rules for partychats are causing the problems and when rules are causing problems, they should be changed.
The solution is very simple (and mentioned in the forums many times): Charge people who want to enter a partychat for an entrance fee (25 or 50 credits) and show the others just a glimpse through the curtains every other minute.

I am convinced that this will solve the problems discussed here.

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Created by: uscricky

1/27/11 @ 12:36pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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good idea easy :thumbsup

nothing should free,its about time the freeloaders were forced to put there share into the pot
too :drinkup

increasing the entertainment & fun value,decreasing the risk of any potential enflamed situations :thumbsup

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Created by: uscricky

1/27/11 @ 12:50pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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model`s & member`s both have enough knowledge in knowing who are regular freeloaders___

possibly another idea would be to give model`s more control & a extra reason in expelling freeloaders from there party chat`s :thumbsup

it would be very amusing to both model`s & good member`s seeing freeloader`s butt whipped from there room`s :thumbsup

haha!!

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Created by: easyfellow

1/27/11 @ 12:55pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Created by: suggs

1/27/11 @ 1:06pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Personally i don't enjoy when people get hurt or are banned. (not even freeloaders).
Models don't need more control when the rules are good enough.

Like i said: change the rules that cause these unwanted situations

I say keep the ban option BUT

make alterations to the whole performer interface - if a chatter is being abusive the performer can click on that perons name and be given option to alert a moderator / admin to the room to observe.

Admins chat is invisible to us EXCEPT the person that they are watching - ( then they see a warning regarding their behaviour as a whisper )

If after 2 warnings and no improvement then the Admin ban the trouble maker. The ban length / type at admins choice - eg - single room or all rooms. ban being from 30 mins up to 24 hours.

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Created by: easyfellow

1/27/11 @ 1:26pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I also say: keep the ban button for models, but:

It doesn't give me any joy at all when a member is banned: I might be the next one tomorrow.

This website should adjust their rules, in order to make it impossible for freeloaders to visit party shows for free.

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Created by: kertus

2/2/11 @ 8:47pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Brad must have shoulders like a padded out footballer huh?

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Created by: jerkinmycock-1

2/2/11 @ 10:24pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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i say lets give costumers the option to bann a model....just for one day to see if she would think about it and ''why did i got banned?''...uhhh...maybe you were rude?...maybe you were to tired and was feeling bad??.......maybe you didnt get right what i was trying to tell you the first time??.....but what ever you banned me anyway!...... :twocents

..love you all........

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Created by: Miss Pandora

2/2/11 @ 10:31pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Jerkin', you know I love you, but why should customers be able to "ban" models?

You always have the freedom to leave a rude model's chat room and find someone (like me) who will always treat you right

We models, on the other hand, can't go anywhere to get away from the rude customers or freeloaders..

i say lets give costumers the option to bann a model....just for one day to see if she would think about it and ''why did i got banned?''...uhhh...maybe you were rude?...maybe you were to tired and was feeling bad??.......maybe you didnt get right what i was trying to tell you the first time??.....but what ever you banned me anyway!...... :twocents

..love you all........

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Created by: Nicole Tyler

2/2/11 @ 10:41pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I just want to say before you automatically think the model banned you maybe you should wonder if you did something that broke the site rules and got banned by the room monitor or maybe it was a glitch in the system. I rarely ban people and when I do it is because they are just outright disrespecting me. I got blamed for banning one of my sweethearts yesterday. I think he is still mad at me. I don't believe he actually thinks I would ban him.

Just saying try not to take things like that too personal because sometimes it isn't the model's fault.

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Created by: jerkinmycock-1

2/2/11 @ 11:33pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Just saying try not to take things like that too personal because sometimes it isn't the model's fault.

you like him but you banned him? one of your sweethearts?....lmao...let me laugh a second lol....its like you have a boyfriend and he does something wrong and you say .''HEY I BANN YOU BECAUSE YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG!''...im sure he did something very bad and now he is the one feeling bad because you banned him..i am sure this guy likes you more then you like him and you hurt him!...but on your side you dont care...''generally speaking not you personally''...you just banned another asshole??..ppfft...i respect you and you know i like you but come on now...lets talk between adults..lol... :winkwink

...''the bann button is so close when you feel like anger and frustrated''...even if i spent thousounds here before i got banned by models just because i was quiet in their rooms!...do you call that nice?....some are frustrated because they know some costumers that spent a lot but never a penney with them!...maybe there is a reason??..........someone is right or was right...it is ALL about $$$$$$...just my :twocents

...i took a lot of criticisms before for saying some truth and i am still the same guy...ill take it again..lol...but tell me honestly that what i just said isnt true??...take care..

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Created by: forum_junkie

2/2/11 @ 11:37pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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All I said was "hey bb you look a little plump this morning and rather bitchy. are you prego?" and next thing I know, Customer Banned 119. wtf?! How could she misconstrue that comment other than a genuine concern for her health and well-being?

Yeah, I'm kind of an a-hole. but no, I really didn't say that. Anywho, I'm cool with the bans. I can take it should the model think I deserve it or just felt compelled to do it for shits and giggles. I'll just take my 24 credits somewhere else. :orglaugh

try not to take it too personal and not let what happens in an adult site ruffle the feathers all too much. Just brush it off and do it all over again after the 6 hours are up... with better choice of words of course and a little bit more than 24 credits wouldn't hurt either :thumbsup

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Created by: jerkinmycock-1

2/2/11 @ 11:38pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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hi sexy......how you been?...you have my answer below but one of the easiest way for you models to get away is to bann people...even when you are wrong...''generally speaking''....take care sexy and i hope your doing well....

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Created by: jerkinmycock-1

2/2/11 @ 11:41pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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my last quote didnt work but it was for you miss pandora...take care...

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Created by: Nicole Tyler

2/3/11 @ 9:22am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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you like him but you banned him? one of your sweethearts?....lmao...let me laugh a second lol....its like you have a boyfriend and he does something wrong and you say .''HEY I BANN YOU BECAUSE YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG!''...im sure he did something very bad and now he is the one feeling bad because you banned him..i am sure this guy likes you more then you like him and you hurt him!...but on your side you dont care...''generally speaking not you personally''...you just banned another asshole??..ppfft...i respect you and you know i like you but come on now...lets talk between adults..lol... :winkwink

...i took a lot of criticisms before for saying some truth and i am still the same guy...ill take it again..lol...but tell me honestly that what i just said isnt true??...take care..

Jerkin I wouldn't have posted in here had I banned him. You haven't been in my room since I first started or you wouldn't be saying this to me. I think you forgot how nice I really am in my room. I have people tell my I am too nice. It's all good though if you want to think the worst of me. I don't think I will bother posting in the forums anymore. There is just too much negative attitude in here. I simply wanted to share my experience with what happened yesterday so that some of you would stop thinking so negative of us all and stereotyping us all into one box. I guess that is just too much to ask though.

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