Google the sybian.
Might be out of her budget.
What toys do you already have? Most of the time we're not that particular about specifics. So long as you're happy with your toys, we're happy.
One that I keep hearing about is the Hitachi Magic Wand. It's about 45 bucks on Amazon.
Don't be intimidated by it's large size, it's obviously not for penetration. But, it's a multi-tasker. It can massage sore muscles and works as a very nice vibrator. It plugs into the wall, so you never have the frustrating feeling of running out of batteries when you're almost there.
They say you can use it on guys too, but I haven't heard how. I might get one just to find out. :p
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