How can you love someone but not be in love with them? How can the mind by all deductions know reality, but the heart still holds onto a feeling? A few moments in time. And why does the heart win? Why is it so very hard to just say "fuck it", it is what it is? Quote

What is reality ??? At this moment u might be in a dream and what u think is reality is nothing !!!! Quote

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I relate loving someone to careing for them. You want the best for them. When I am in love with someone its so different, I want to spend every day with them. They make me laugh, Ill always be there for them. They are my best friend. I couldnt have relations with anyone else. Love and in love are totally different. Im going to post a poem or my thoughts when someone I was in love with left me. Maybe it will help you. Quote

this is not the poem but, you cant let the heart win. You have to let your mind take over after you have been hurt. It is better to force yourself to let go then to hold on to what is already gone. Ok im gonna find the poem. Quote

Why hold on to someone who let you go. The passion to keep you there has vanished. The love that kept you warm is cold and empty. As tears run down your face that person chose not to be there to comfort you. Every breath you take is by yourself. Every problem you face has to be with your own solution. When the waves crash over you and pull under, you have only yourself to save from the suffocation of being abandoned. As loneliness dwells in your heart, they are nowhere to be found. As the memories run through your head like a broken record player, you are the only one wishing this was all just a dream. Why hold on to someone who didn't love you enough



When I wrote this like more then a year ago I was so sad. I am very weak when it comes to loving someone. I forced myself to let go. No matter what it is always better if its broken to let it go. Hope this helps xoox Quote

Thank You Kimee. You make so much sense. Quote

i don't know why anyone could ever hurt kimee like that. you will always be amazing to me gorgeous! Quote

working in music, i use it to help me work my way through pain as well. here's one that i wrote about trying to understand just whats happened and how you're going to move on. it's not as amazing as kimee's, but hopefully it'll help a lil:


I'm standing all alone in the rain again, because of you
I finally feel the pain of an empty man
Thinking back on the way things should of been
I'm so confused..
I see the smile on your face, how I held you when you cried
The way you kissed my lips, seeing heaven in your eyes
I'm listening to my heart but my mind keeps thinking 'bout you
And I just can't take it
I keep trying to move on,
While my heart keeps breaking

It's all wrong, but I guess it's alright
Just trying to make it through another night
I need to let go and move on
Gonna try to be a better man inside..
Without you in my life

Stop...you're breaking me down again
Feeling lost,
Not knowing where I'm going like the four winds blowing
Just wondering where you are or maybe what I'm doing
I keep running things over and over and over in my mind,
And maybe you were right
See I might have been wrong,
But it's time to stand up and face the fight

It's all wrong, but I guess it's alright
Just trying to make it through another night
I'm letting go and I'm moving on
Just trying to be a better man inside..
Without you in my life

I used to think there was a part of me
That would never think of treating you wrong
See, now I'm passed the pain, and I've dried my tears
And every part of me's glad you're gone

It's all wrong but I'm doing alright
I made it through another night
I've let go and I've moved on
I've learned to be a better man
Oh, I've learned to be a better man inside
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I love many people

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Being "In Love" means you are devoted to only them 1st . If that person does not show and feel the same - it is time to move on .

Set it free - They will come back if it is meant to be [Short version]

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How can you love someone but not be in love with them? How can the mind by all deductions know reality, but the heart still holds onto a feeling? A few moments in time. And why does the heart win? Why is it so very hard to just say "fuck it", it is what it is?


I think the heart just wants want the heart wants and no amount of logic or reasoning matters. Quote

Still pondering... Can you become too comfortable with someone that is becomes uncomfortable? Quote