In no particular order:
Good Manners.
When I go out on a date with a new guy, I pay close attention to how he treats our server. It's an indication of how he'll treat me 6 months down the line. If he's respectful, says "Please and Thank you", makes small talk with her, is neat and doesn't make a mess all over the table, makes her smile and leaves a good tip- he's just made a very good impression on me.
Sense of Humor.
If you can make a girl laugh, you can make her do anything. The sexy Marilyn Monroe said that, and I agree. A dude that makes me belly laugh, and tears roll down my face, is a KEEPER.
Healthy Sense of Balance:
All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy- but vice-versa is no good, either. Responsibility sucks, but it's necessary. Carefree living can be dangerous, but every once in awhile, goofing off and forgetting about life's stress is needed. Knowing how to balance the two is the key to living a successful life.
Compassion:
No, I don't wanna be stroked like a kitty and told everything will be okay. But a good strong hug and a kiss on the forehead can work WONDERS if you know I'm upset about something. I'm a big girl, and I can handle tough times, but it's nice to know someone will hold my hand, and has my back.
Bedroom Skills:
No, I don't need a huge cock. I need a guy that can look me in the eye while he moves inside me... someone who trips my trigger with the kind of passion that lets me know there's no place else he'd rather be. Touch me, kiss me, stroke me, caress me, lick me, suck me, fuck me, hold me, thrill me- all of it matters, all of it counts. You CAN fuck and make love at the same time. Trust me. And the guy that can do both with me will have my loyalty.
Romance:
I'll never ask a guy why he can't be more romantic. I wouldn't be with a guy who doesn't know how. Pick me a flower and hand it to me when we take a walk. Write me a love letter. Breakfast in bed every once in awhile. Surprise with the newest book from my favorite author. Bring home a sweet treat for me. Simple things that don't cost a ton but go a long way towards investing in our future.
That's the basics for me. I don't think I'm that demanding or picky. Notice I didnt say a thing about looks. As long as you dont have a face that scares small children- we're good. But.... sexy eyes are a HUGE turn on for me.
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