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Created by: gman007

7/30/09 @ 10:45am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Can members and models develop lasting friendships?

I would like to think so. I know that members and models cant actually date but does that mean that we cant be friends. I talk to my model friends all the time and I consider them very special to me. I only hope they feel the same way about me. I am probably just being the hopeless romantic again but I really want to know.

What do you think?

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Created by: suggs

7/30/09 @ 10:51am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I think that friendships can exist on here and off of here between performers and chatters of all variations eg Perf / Perf , Perf / Chat , Chat / Chat. I speak to an ex performer of the site and also to various chatters i have met on here via various other means.

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Created by: Kimee

7/30/09 @ 11:33am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I think it is totally possible. I am close friends with a lot of members and I love talking to then daily. It makes me feel so good when they make my day better by hanging out with me. I heart them

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Created by: Penney Z

7/30/09 @ 11:38am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Sure it is possible, the friends I made here always make me smile :thumbsup

Keeping in touch with them is often a reason for me to log on! They make every night so enjoyable

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Created by: gallodelcielo

7/30/09 @ 11:59am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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It's definetly possible...

I'm still in touch with a few models wich left the site for different reasons. With some I talk daily, with some weekly or monthly... But its still a friendship which has grown over a longer time.

And I have good contacts to performers which are still working.

It just needs to grow. Its up to you how you see it. If you think you are hiding and safe behind your screen it's hard to find real friends. But if you talk honest and respectful to the ones you like, everything is possible.

LickaU said some nice sentence in one of his threads and calls it "rule #1"... Treat the people like you wanna be treated.

Amen :drinkup

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Created by: Jade Hope

7/30/09 @ 12:13pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Definitly, I have close friend here. It makes ,my day when I see one of my bestest buddy stop by.
kisses
jade

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Created by: Rashel Cox

7/30/09 @ 12:35pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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very possible.. i have mebers who come to my room and tell me their life story sometimes it upsets me.. i am a very sympathetic person.. i am also very emotional... i can relate so people on so many different levels.. and i love to hear about others. i feel as if i am right there with them. i have mebers who email me and ask about my day. and those r the ones i cant wait to get on to tell them something exciting that happens in my life.

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Created by: Kalikatt

7/30/09 @ 12:38pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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yes absolutely. I really value my close friendships I have here. Some of us have gotten so close, explored so many parts of ourselves together (I mean spritually here - hehehe :evil

), gotten each other through many rough patches and been so amazingly supportive of one another - I know we will be friends for life now. :drinkup

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Created by: suggs

7/30/09 @ 1:58pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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well last ear many people connected to this site ( fellow chatters, models past and present ) helped me a great deal emotionally and spiritually.

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Created by: Kate Fox

7/30/09 @ 2:11pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I have SO MANY friends as a result of being a model on this site. Several very close friends that are also models here, and several friendships with my regulars. While I may never meet these people face to face- I care about them and care about their lives. I have had several regulars confide in me and vice-versa.

I've been pretty sick the last few days, and the messages I've been getting have helped me through... I consider myself lucky to have met the people I have, and feel blessed to call them friends.

Kisses~
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Created by: Tiffany Dove

7/30/09 @ 3:44pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I think that friends can be made here.

There are some visitors to my chat room as well as models themselves can stay close.

So I think that lasting friendships can be made anywhere and this is a great place for that to happen!

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Created by: Tiffany Dove

7/30/09 @ 3:48pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Just read my own post and what I really meant to say about friendships here YES YES YES!

I am friends with visitors as well as with some WONDERFUL models here.

As I said before, this is more than just a porn site - it is a community!

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Created by: Shasta

7/30/09 @ 3:55pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Hiya! I'm Shasta...and I'm new here. Would LOOOVE to meet some new friends! Never a dull moment in my world! I invite you to come and share what's going on in your world and how I can help with anything!!

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Created by: neildiamond

7/30/09 @ 6:59pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Canada

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I consider when two people can make each other smile on a regular basis, calling them a friend is not a bad thing at all.

I'm sure when telephones first came out people had the same question!

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Created by: l247

7/30/09 @ 9:35pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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i'm sure friends can be made here, i've done it with models and chatters, male and female. some have since moved on but we still stay in touch. is nice to log on to msn and see a friend there, even if you met them here, you still get a smile on your face knowing you day is about to get better...

you are hearing from a friend

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Created by: amicu

7/30/09 @ 10:01pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Possible? I find it happens more often than not. And the rare dating exception can even occur, rules being what they are of course it shouldn't be encouraged and models should follow them for their safety, and to keep unruly beggars from even bothering to ask (though they ask and ask again anyway).

Even the prettiest of faces and the most flawless of women is very much human - I know most guys find some models completely unapproachable, even from the safety of the internet, halfway 'cross the world in their darkened room with their pants around their ankles and a reinforcement box of kleenex tissues, but EVERY girl has just as much to gain in friendship or even the online crush as the guys here. Maybe they're not as obsessive or as sad a case about it as the rest of us, but a simple friendship? On here? Of course it's possible. Most models can count on both hands and feet and multi-phalliced toys the number of friends they have here - so that even on the slowest of days, a shift on flirt is at the very least a social exercise amongst friends.

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Created by: dudley_do_ride

8/2/09 @ 12:46am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Ach ja,

Fur me zees stadt eez all about ze research into ze human psyche unt developmental pathvays. Meine Colleagen in Vienna unt Stockholm all are in agreemunt zat no other place creates zuch stimulae to ze auditory meatus. Unt ze bauplane hier! Ausgetzeichnet, zo many branches off ze primordrial bush. Ve haff hier examples opf every hox gene sequence unt political philosophy known to mankind.

Unt ze sex! At every hour of ze day you vill find some hier. No need to set up ze blinds! Or to make ze mating calls.

Of course ve must preserve our professional detachment. Thees ees very difficult at times as the inmates hier are verrrry social unt friendly. But the penalties imposed by our Director are so severe that most of us have given verry little thought to any dangerous, researcher-inmate interaction.

Ja, unt remember... verever you go ( what deed our directory say? ) ach ya, ... zere you are!

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Created by: Pammie Girl

8/2/09 @ 1:06am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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No doubt! I spend so much time with my special friends on this site...and I am happy to say I have met more people recently and hope to meet more in the future. It is awesome to really get to know a person and have that special cyber relationship. Thank you all for that. I have really felt the most fulfilled in my life...xoxo
pammiegirl :angel

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Created by: lickau

8/2/09 @ 1:10am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Moving slowly but surely somewhere sometime
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It's definetly possible...
I'm still in touch with a few models wich left the site for different reasons. With some I talk daily, with some weekly or monthly... But its still a friendship which has grown over a longer time.
And I have good contacts to performers which are still working.
It just needs to grow. Its up to you how you see it. If you think you are hiding and safe behind your screen it's hard to find real friends. But if you talk honest and respectful to the ones you like, everything is possible.
LickaU said some nice sentence in one of his threads and calls it "rule #1"... Treat the people like you wanna be treated.
Amen :drinkup

Treat people Right - Not scientific , but easy way to make and KEEP friends :thumbsup

I have been on this site over 5 years - I have made friends with many members and models :thumbsup

Friendship is great - Romance and unreasonable expectations can cause undue stress and trouble sometimes if Members expect too much :twocents

Blame it all on my roots
I showed up in boots
And ruined your black tie affair
The last one to know
The last one to show
I was the last one
You thought you'd see there
And i saw the surprise
And the fear in his eyes
When i took his glass of champagne
And i toasted you
Said, honey, we may be through
But you'll never hear me complain

(chorus)
'cause i've got friends in low places
Where the whiskey drowns
And the beer chases my blues away
And i'll be okay
I'm not big on social graces
Think i'll slip on down to the oasis
Oh, i've got friends in low places.

Well, i guess i was wrong
I just don't belong
But then, i've been there before
Everything's all right
I'll just say goodnight
And i'll show myself to the door
Hey, i didn't mean
To cause a big scene
Just give me an hour and then
Well, i'll be as high
As that ivory tower
That you're livin' in

*chorus*

(third verse)
I guess i was wrong
I just don't belong
But then, i've been there before
And everything is alright
I'll just say goodnight
And i'll show myself to the door
I didn't mean to cause a big scene
Just wait 'til i finish this glass
Then sweet little lady
I'll head back to the bar
And you can kiss my ass

*chorus*

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Created by: Robyn Ross

8/2/09 @ 1:16am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Even the prettiest of faces and the most flawless of women is very much human <...> so that even on the slowest of days, a shift on flirt is at the very least a social exercise amongst friends.

Exactly. When I say I look forward to seeing people on here, it's not just a line, and I don't think it is for any of us. When I'm not on I do think about you guys, a cookie commercial will come on, or i'll be wandering down the pretzel isle, or in the book store even. I have made excellent friends among the models and members alike and I think that even should my tenure here come to an end tomorrow as a model I'd still come and visit my friends!

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