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Created by: Nikki Blue

3/12/09 @ 11:16pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Hi to EVERYONE!

This is my first month on here and I love it soooo much! I wanted to know if anyone had some advice for me! One thing I have a problem with is when people come into my room and don't talk...EVER. And sometimes when I am in chat None of the guys will talk at all! It's not like one or two guys in my room, it's the entire room that won't talk it's so awkward sometimes...I try to make convo's but sometimes it just doesn't work out. And I am just sitting there like "yeaaahhh... :helpme

" lol! As far as me doing this, I am not shy at all with my body, and I have read all the rules lol and some nights are great, some are not...

Also do we have to become a member on the site to go into other girls rooms to chat? Anyways would love to hear from everyone on what yall want to say and any advice would be sooo great!

THANKS SO MUCH!!

NIKKI :hitit

((I love these little smileys!))

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Created by: lickau

3/13/09 @ 1:59am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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1 - You did what I call "roll call" where you called out everyone's names who was in your room

I was talking before , but waited until afterwards . I was actually also looking at the forums

2 - Who knows . Most customers who go private decide in the first few minutes whether to go private

Strange , but most men think with thier lower brain and rarely upper brain when they visit this site

3- Simply register as a member and you can visit all rooms [Easier to be noticed than as a grey]
Or log into http:www.flirt4free.com and you can always log into as a grey non-registered member

4 - You are sexy and have an unique personality . I hope you do great here and in school :thumbsup

Good luck Nikki :drinkup

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Created by: Nikki Blue

3/13/09 @ 6:50pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Ah! Thank you soo very much for your post! It realllllly means a lot to me!

Is the role call a bad thing or a good thing?? I figure if I let them know I see them, is a good thing? I am sorry if you thought I wasn't paying attenchen to you! I try to always say Hi to everyone, and make sure what you (and others) have said to me after my "roll call"

Once again thank you for your post! come and hang out in my room sometime if you'd like

XOXO

NIKKI :hitit

(my fav dude lol)

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Created by: lickau

3/13/09 @ 6:57pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Maybe do a few names at a time and wait for others to talk

We went private and talked later . I took a break here to forums when you did it . I got "bored" after a few names and no one spoke is all

Good thing because a few who are shy or sly might talk and also go private

You are sexy and have a nice personality - you will do great here :thumbsup

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Created by: Penney Z

3/13/09 @ 7:01pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Don't worry about people entering your room and not talking, some are just like that. Some will hang around your room for your whole shift, sometimes for many shifts... and never say a word o.O

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Created by: Nikki Blue

3/14/09 @ 1:11pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Yes I have some of those! Some times it just really upsets me, I will have like 6, 7 guys in my room, none of them will talk and I mean, none, I feel like a regect! lol...So like I don't know what to do and just sitting there, then they all leave lol, so I guess I will just have to get used to that!
haha

TY for replying! :drinkup

XOXO

NIKKI :hitit

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Created by: Nikki Blue

3/14/09 @ 1:15pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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LickaU

man of a million names :offtopic

lol

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Created by: francy

3/14/09 @ 1:21pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Italy
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i'm sorry for that, i'm one of the ppl tha dont talk. Its because usually i forget to close the browser and my nickname remain in the room

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Created by: Camy Angel

3/14/09 @ 4:02pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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You are such a cuttie, but don't be sad or dissapoined. Some guys are shy, others are busy watching porns, others just need time to get you know you better. I had the same problem like you, I was thinking something is wrong with me. But if you have 10-15 guys talking in your room, asking you different stuff you will need to borrow 10 more fingers to type.Just be cool , and if nobody wants to talk to you maybe you can dance ( that will sure catch their eye).
Be succesful! :drinkup

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Created by: Nikki Blue

3/14/09 @ 5:13pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Hmmm what GREAT advice

I will give it a shot next time! LOL I can't dance...But I will make something up lol

TY SOOO VERY MUCH!

XOXO

NIKKI :hitit

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Created by: Nikki Blue

3/14/09 @ 5:14pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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It's okay BB

I still like you lol

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Created by: blonde_lover

3/14/09 @ 8:06pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: utah
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MMM , i will never say anything to a model until i see how she reacts with the other chatters . Then the theory also can be that most members have a hard time communcating with females in general :thumbsup

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Created by: kevsh1

3/14/09 @ 9:26pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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If no one's chatting, the "sheep syndrome" comes into play: No one wants to be the first

So yes, doing a roll call is a great idea - just a simple greeting. Just try to be a little bit different so they feel like you actually noticed them.

E.g.
"Hi Fred!"
"Hey JeffD, how are you?"
"Welcome Mark!"

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Created by: blonde_lover

3/14/09 @ 9:45pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: utah
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Oh yes the " the sheep syndrome " a well knowen medical condition !!!

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Created by: Nikki Blue

3/14/09 @ 10:19pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Cool Idea! Thanks for it sooo much! :bowdown

Hope to see you in my room? Lol

XOXO

NIKKI :hitit

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Created by: Nikki Blue

3/16/09 @ 4:51pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Lol, I think a lot of guys are like you, they want to see how I react, problem is, usually they don't get to see untill I get a few of my guys that come in every night ((Just about)) But I am working on a great dance that's ganna blow yalls minds away (haha) can't wait to try it out!! :drinkup

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Created by: hotdick23

3/18/09 @ 3:29pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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