There is one thing I have found. It's when one is not looking for a serious relationship. It happens & fast. I have been there. It's off the bat. The instant chemistry, compatibility & connection are there. It is at the deepest level. Both know they are meant to be with each other for life. I was there with my deceased fiancee. I got over her. We were in love with each other. It was from the start. All the rest automatically fell into place. It was with little, if any, effort. So it is now. I won't settle for less.
It's if it is meant to be. It will be. It's if it is not. It can't be forced or pushed.
It is either there from the start. Or it will never be there. It has been my experience.
The couple is automatically best friends. The intimacy & romance are there from the start.
And it happens when & where a couple least expects it. It is exciting but scary.
These are things that have helped me. It's to avoid relationships that are not meant to be.
It's to wait for one that is. But it is to make myself available if it does happen.
Some call what I refer to by fate & destiny. It is the true test.
It is also with a relationship. It means using both the head & heart.
But don't let the head get in the way of where the heart should lead. A suggestion.
And don't let the heart get in the way where the head should lead. A suggestion, too.
It can be complicated to fully explain. So it's if some else knows what I am talking about.
Please jump in & help me. We are here to help each other. I hope this helps!
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