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Created by: Carla Lopez

11/23/09 @ 3:59pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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To members and models alike: CAN'T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG. After reading so many of these threads, one thing has become apparent to me, the more negative the thread, the more popular. People, this is fantasy site and to be perfectly honest, I do not lay in my bed and masturbate and fantasize about bitching and complaining. I myself like to think about...well...you will have to visit with me to learn what i like to think about...lol. Seriously though, this site should be an escape from all the real world bullshit that we have to deal with on a daily basis, not a place for us to dump that real world bullshit. These forums are for the purpose of model/member interaction. What they mean by interaction is not an all out bitch fest. The name of the forum clearly states "Straight Fantasies." Although I am quite aware of the fact that there are very few fantasies, at least keep the interaction positive. Members, if you are having issues with a particular model, do not air the issue here, contact VS or simply find another model that better suits you. Another thing, please do not bring the drama from this forum into models rooms. It is a distraction and mood killer. When you do that, you are pretty much ruining that models and her visitors time together. I will not throw anyone under the bus, but seriously, coming into my room while I am working and saying "You have to admit, the prices here are a bit ridiculous don't you think," is probably not the best idea in the world. What would you expect my response to be. This site continues to be the best site on the web and I don't just say that because I work for it, I say it because it is true. You get what you pay for. I simply do not walk into the Gucci store and complain that a purse is over-priced. If I feel as if it is over-priced, I simply take my happy ass to Coach and buy something I can afford. If my financial situation is that tight, I simply keep my ass away from Gucci all together. Maybe using a handbag metaphor will not work with you gentlemen, but I am sure you all catch the idea. Let's play nice...Carry on!!

Created by: suggs

11/23/09 @ 4:12pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Think the mens version of the handbag metaphor is if you want a decent shirt buy Armani if you can afford it - if not buy some from Wal-Mart or Target

I TRY to keep a positive attitude in here but admit I have slipped into Man-Bitch rant mode a few times.

Created by: carousel

11/23/09 @ 4:25pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Whatever are you talking about: drama??????

No-one 'round here can even begin to put J.R. or April Steven's to shame :orglaugh

You're right though: petulance is so ugly. It'd chance who I supported in a heart-beat.
But dwelling on it and 'beating' it down, only causes more drama :twocents

And all these contests: "intense competition"

byproducts of rivalry aren't always pretty.
A great deal of this drama is definitely model-to-model perpetuated.
Nonetheless, the Dr Frankenstein here, while continuing to 'egg on' with these dumb contest blogs, has done a yeoman's job distancing himself from culpability for his monster's behavior.

Circus life
Under the big top world
We all need the clowns
To make us smile

BTW: If you've forgotten:
April Steven's arrived in 'Dallas' in 1986, played by Sheree J. Wilson. She was the former wife of Jack Ewing. Jack was the cousin of J.R...

Created by: Miss Pandora

11/23/09 @ 4:54pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Well said!

Created by: webdude

11/23/09 @ 7:31pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Created by: anudda_idiot

11/23/09 @ 8:25pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I'm afraid where ever u find clumps of chumps you will find 'drama'. Due to the nature of us mere men u wlll find the 'good guys' (normally ass wipes trying to big note themselves with the their idols) and then the 'bad guys' hell bent on defaming the 'good guys' ... and then u have the 'what the hell guys' (me and the majority) who look on in AMAzement wondering do woman really find any of us attractive when the two most visible groups act like such idiots?

Why not ... If u got nothing good to say, then say nothing.

Unudda is Kert's neighbour if u wondering

Created by: amicu

11/23/09 @ 11:47pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Carla, 10+ great posts over the last week or two - the reasonable, articulate, AND fun-loving type? Tell me there's any more room in your room?! :winkwink

Definitely intriguing. Thank you for the sensible touch to each post you add comment to. Please, keep posting.

Created by: blonde_lover

11/24/09 @ 1:20am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: utah
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MMM , I dont think model CARLA is always so sweet and perfect in her posts too !!

Her remarks to me about that members paying the salary of the models was very demeaning . Salary in AMERICA means the earning you earn from a job. When i purchase a new automobile i am in fact paying that salesman salary with that purchased .

We are all adults here and have a right to express our self's in a polite manner .In AMERICA we have the RIGHT to express our option. If you have a issue about reading a post about complaining on a issue then dont read the post !!! Dont take away our right to complain and this site is a AMERICA base corporation which still exercise the freedom of speech !! :angel

Created by: elmonitoloco

11/24/09 @ 2:25am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Wishing - Santiago de Chile
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Hopefully everyone reads the performers comments and realizes the performers perspective of all the unnecessary drama we, the members, are forcing upon them in this the place of their employment, and the drama we are causing VS. For some strange reason I would guess there is rarely the same type of drama occurring the 'Gay Forums.'
Hopefully this thread gets closed to help stop the drama fest that seems to be infecting every single part of the forums, and the site, over the last week. The unnecessary drama we (members) are inflicting on the performers needs to STOP. I have bit my tongue more than a few times the last week because I only know how to be direct (i.e. blunt) after having dealt with thousands of adults whining over a meager point in a single college course of their entire college education. Trust me, being blunt would have only added to the drama (I even edited this to eliminate causing more drama!). Rip me apart to get this drama fest over with, I will accept all insults and bite my tongue the entire time so this drama fest ends NOW.
If we, the members, continue to inflict this type of drama on the performers, the performers are going to leave! It will be my fault as a member that the performers leave because I did not do something to stop this unbelievable drama fest that has erupted and been forced upon them at their place of employment.
Brad, Craig, etc. please close, but do not eliminate, this thread. It appears we members are turning this into a drama thread.

Created by: Carla Lopez

11/24/09 @ 2:26am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Lol,,,I am definitely not going for the award of "sweet heart of the year" blond lover, and again, as you said, we are all entitled to our opinion and my opinion is that you have no idea what it is like to be on the other side of the camera and we all should probably remember that. So, before you come into the "fantasy forum" and debate the issue with me,please realize that in order to debate, and I use that word loosely, any issue, that you need to be familiar with both sides of the argument. I WAS a customer on the site before I decide to come work for it and the class and beauty that the models here posses is what made me decide to work for this site. If you do not agree with my opinion, that is your prerogative, but please, do not speak on my character based solely on the fact that I disagreed with one of your opinions. I responded in a very respectful manner, and if you feel any different, perhaps that is because you are so adamant about finding faults with the site and the models on the site, that you cannot attempt to see it from a models point of view. If you do not want models to respond to your post and if you are threatened by the idea that someone may disagree with your point of view, perhaps you should post only in the VIP forum or simply send your concerns via email directly to VS.

Created by: marani

11/24/09 @ 2:50am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I suppose the complaining comes because non-VIPs have no other forum to express it, and customer service spends 2 weeks sending an automated reply.

Created by: lickau

11/24/09 @ 2:58am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Moving slowly but surely somewhere sometime
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Carla is Sweet :angel

I have been to her room and also private
She was sick , but was able to talk very interesting with a sore throat :thumbsup

Carla is a Clasic and makes a point : Drama is over rated :twocents

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Blonde_Lover - no need to go to a post that wants less drama and try to make it with more Drama :twocents

There are plenty of Drama topics to add to Bro :thumbsup

I spend a lot here , but I hardly pay a salary to a model
Going private helps , but far from paying all her salary

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Carla is level headed
She is tired of too much Drama

Go Gators :thumbsup

Created by: bxhitman

11/24/09 @ 7:31am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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If you do not agree with my opinion, that is your prerogative, but please, do not speak on my character based solely on the fact that I disagreed with one of your opinions. I responded in a very respectful manner, and if you feel any different, perhaps that is because you are so adamant about finding faults with the site and the models on the site, that you cannot attempt to see it from a models point of view. If you do not want models to respond to your post and if you are threatened by the idea that someone may disagree with your point of view, perhaps you should post only in the VIP forum or simply send your concerns via email directly to VS.

Figures that most of the Forum posting would focus on a handbag reference instead of the big picture that Carla is trying to point out here. The Forum has been a bundle of negative energy for months on this site, filled with guys posting things about themselves and not focusing on why we are (or should be) here, the models. People are too busy posting on line games in a thread instead of getting to know models. When people try to make a positive contribution to the forum, it is normally discounting all together.

Everyone wants rights but no one things responsibilites come with those rights - everyone has an opinions; however there is a right place and a wrong place to express them. Freedom of choice is your right to visit or not visit this web site; your responsibilities that comes with that freedom of choice is to respect the models that work here. If you don't like something about the site, tell management; don't take it out on the employees unless you are willing to yield your choice to visit the site all together.

Sadly this negative energy is spilling over into the chat rooms now with Carla expression of drama becoming true and I would guess that Carla is feeling the same thing many other models are feeling. Things are tough for everyone nowadays; however this should be a play to relax and not a place to bring your angry and take it out on other members and especially the models.

My only wish is that the web site listened more to the models like Carla who did visit this site before she worked here and understand the points she makes here. The Forum has been turned into a place where people can talk about themselves and not the models, which in the end always hurts the web site and the models. The Forum's true intent has been lost, the true meaning of what it was designed to do has been reduced to its lower common elements by the people that discourage and not encourage this web site and its most important elements, their models!

Created by: Bryanna Spanks

11/24/09 @ 10:47am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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*hug* Carla

Created by: dicimus

11/25/09 @ 2:14am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Created by: bxhitman

11/25/09 @ 7:06am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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christ, not another thread about how the forums are bad for models. I agree with everything Licka said, but seriously, this thread isn't well intended, and has only caused drama, not end it. I vote the thread removed. Like the other two they killed today.

So models are not allow to express an opinion in the Forum?
And anyone who disagrees with your opinion should have their thread removed?

That's the way to have a healthy conversation; agree with me or get out!

Created by: Carla Lopez

11/25/09 @ 10:13am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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christ, not another thread about how the forums are bad for models.

I agree with everything Licka said, but seriously, this thread isn't well intended, and has only caused drama, not end it.

I vote the thread removed. Like the other two they killed today.

This was a very well intended thread for models and members alike, but surprisingly (I am being extremely sarcastic), the negativity that I speak about, has of course found its way into my thread. I could of said that a lot of the members and models alike need to grow up and start behaving like adults, but THAT my friend would of been rude. It is becoming more and more popular for members to start dissing models in the forum and it is quite sickening. And just to clear something up, this thread was not to point out how the forums are becoming bad for the models, the forums are just becoming bad for EVERYONE...even you have found away to turn one negative post from one particular member who obviously misunderstood a reply from me in a previous post into a reason why this thread is negative. I guess I will never understand why misery loves company so much but from here on out, I will not join all of the members/models who have a quest to piss in everyone's corn flakes. As I said,I come here to have fun, make friends and more importantly, have as many orgasms a day as I can, not go back and forth with members in the forums...Peace Out!!

Created by: Carla Lopez

11/25/09 @ 10:23am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Lickau, Amicu, thanks guys...we tried but our attempts were defeated...lol. There is always going to be someone out there having a bad day so I will brace myself, for they may find it easier to dump their b.s. on me than someone in the real world...moving on....there is always room for a new friend in my room Amicu. I have seen you hanging around, but you never speak

. I would have said hello, but to be quite honest, I am kind of shy...I know, I know, hard to believe. So, if you stop by again, please by all means, don't be afraid to say hello...I don't bite...that hard anyway....kisses!!!

Created by: sneeknapeek

11/25/09 @ 3:00pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Carla, don't give up baby! You are a ray of sunshine in an otherwise dreary day. Some people were just born to bitch and never will find a moment of happiness. They become insanely jealous of people who have even the briefest moment of happiness.

You will never win these people over but know that your victory is that you will be bringing smiles to many more.

Created by: suggs

11/25/09 @ 3:30pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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