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Created by: Misty Anderson

1/2/09 @ 8:42pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Hey Guys........

I have had a rather important question that concerns all of us lady performers. What should us female performers do when in Private during our monthly Menstrual Cycle? Yes..... this seems like an off the wall topic, but I as a performer would like to know what I can to do keep the privates coming even during a crummy time of the month

Ladies feel free to chime in on this one too!

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Created by: Camy Angel

1/3/09 @ 8:17am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Created by: wonkydonkey

1/3/09 @ 9:06am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Off the wall yes, but important (and natural) all the same.

Honesty would be good as a starting point. I took a girl pvt during her 'red days' without warning. the sight of a tampax string (for me anyway) was a real turn off - and consequently everything that followed was 'faked'. Having said that there may well be guys who find this a turn on - each to their own

I appreciate this isn't easy for girls - I really don't know what to suggest. sorry.

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Created by: Noamy

1/3/09 @ 10:12am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Well i know that suxs ladies but is something u cannot really hide .. i meet a few guys who asked me for a pvt in my period time but not all the guys want that... so guess theres not much to do unless u warn them before ,,, Good luck ...

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Created by: Heather Adams

1/3/09 @ 2:45pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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There is an internal cup made of plastic called "Instead". They are found in the feminine hygiene department of your local drugstore. If you Google "Instead" softcups--go to their site and there is a list of stores that carry this particular product. ***WARNING*** Not for the squeamish: the cup is inserted by your fingers to rest around the cervix. So nothing is shown from the outside, PLUS you can use toys without fear of any unfortunate mishaps. However, the thing you have to get past is the REMOVAL of the cup...it tends to be messy, but if you are on the potty, you just empty it in there and of course, wash your hands thoroughly.

The advantage of these cups is that they actualy last three times as long as a regular tampon does, with less of a chance of infection, etc. These "cups" are also available online and made of different material by a company called "Diva"--as in "Diva" cups. The "Instead" is cheaper, and like I said, available at my drugstore. I usually take off the first two days of my period, anyway--but I am back at it with the "Instead"cups.

Good luck :bulb

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Created by: Misty Anderson

1/3/09 @ 5:56pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Thanks for the tip on this one, but I already know about and use them. Problem is.... they don't last as long with those drastically heavy ladies ;) best on those who are lighter. LOL. Thanks so much for getting in on this one.

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Created by: Misty Anderson

1/3/09 @ 6:00pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Thanks for the reply. I really didn't think that most guys want anything to do with seeing things of this nature. I was hoping for more guy opinions, but really think the whole thing sort of explains itself. I am cursed..... with the worst. LOL. It would be nice if there were guys that wanted to prvt chat with the ladies during down time to be more of friends and make us all feel better during crummy times. You gotta love us :winkwink

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Created by: Misty Anderson

1/3/09 @ 6:03pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Sorry...... it may be off the general topics that should be getting posted, but it is a logical one. The opinions allow for the other ladies with the same question to know the answers now! Either way we can't help the way all of us females were made :orglaugh

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Created by: Misty Anderson

1/3/09 @ 6:04pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Warning the guys and being honest and up front is probably the best and only way to go about it......... Thanks for stopping in and adding your reply :thumbsup

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Created by: amicu

1/3/09 @ 6:53pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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There are a lot of guys who would do just this exactly.. chatting in private isn't so uncommon, given some time you'll find your regulars most likely to do this, as they value the time and intimacy with you.

On the sexual/show side, some guys are very hung up on seeing the release/tip of a tampon and want nothing to do with a show, some guys are perfectly fine with it. Still others are probably just so horny that a very sensual topless dance and sucking on fingers, licking lips and close-ups would put them over the edge :winkwink

It's certainly not the most ideal time of the month for you, but when you have a loyal customer base, most of these guys come back regardless of the circumstance.

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Created by: skylord

1/3/09 @ 7:04pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Southern California, USA #1
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Different strokes for different folks as I say.....to each his own..... but on the other hand I think the performer should in a round about way mention to the individual taking them pvt that it's that time of the month and I don't mean biting their heads off...lmao :orglaugh

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Created by: Tiffany Fox

1/3/09 @ 8:55pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Hey Guys........
I have had a rather important question that concerns all of us lady performers. What should us female performers do when in Private during our monthly Menstrual Cycle? Yes..... this seems like an off the wall topic, but I as a performer would like to know what I can to do keep the privates coming even during a crummy time of the month

Ladies feel free to chime in on this one too!

I take the week off! It sucks going that long, but I don't want to deal with the mess and my bitchy hormones in a show! :evil

xoxo,
Tiff

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Created by: Alyssah Simone

1/4/09 @ 1:03am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Hello Misty

Do not feel bad about Insteads. Generally women who work in the adult industry or porn do not use them because despite their claim of staying securely around your cervix they are easily "tipped" by any insertion, real cock or dildo. Usually in a setting such as a porn set or webcam show they are a a total mess if you have any sort of flow and crazy sex or masturbation going on. Working on set having things inserted in you over and over you need to feel totally secure, this goes the same for working webcam. Working in the adult industry is how we pay the bills and taking a week off once a month for women issues is just not necessary. Girls within the industry have shoots often scheduled months ahead of time and can not "call off" for their woman issues. I have the solution of what we all use within the industry but I am hoping that you can get in touch with me out of the forum and I can enlighten ya!

You will be so happy and amazed and will never have to take work off again or worry about another "accident" or unsightly tampon strings.

I just do not feel this is the right place to be talking about it in detail and do not want to break any of the illusion or fantasy for the fabulous guys that come here to see us.

Do you have a VIP or registered user account? You could email me from my bio. I would give out my email here but do not think they would allow that. Or I could just talk about it but I just am hesitating considering what the real reason is for these forums.

Hope to be able to exchange info somehow. Brad if you see this please feel free to give up my email to the girls so I can help them out.

Aly

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Created by: Heather Adams

1/4/09 @ 2:23am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Created by: Alyssah Simone

1/4/09 @ 2:34am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I personally have never had an issue with Instead. It works for me SOLO (strategically using a toy as to not penetrate too deeply). Again, this is TMI. It works for me, so for some ladies--you may want to give it a shot.
Alyssah--I will be emailing you, lol!!!

Please do! I hope I didn't come across as being a snoot! I used Insteads for awhile while just working webcam and I had 50/50 percent success. But when I started shooting within the industry I learned new techniques. You won't have to worry about "strategically" working the dildo or worry about heavy days. I would love to share these with you and all the girls. It will be your favorite and will save you everytime. You may even decide to work your first two days because it works so well! I really look forward to hearing from you or any of the other ladies.

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Created by: skylord

1/4/09 @ 3:01am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Southern California, USA #1
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Where's Doctor Drew when u need him...geeezzzz......lol :smoking

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Created by: lickau

1/4/09 @ 3:56am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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After seeing the " :offtopic

" reply - I was afraid that many would not answer .

1 model simply weears red - tells her regulars to knw it is that time of te month .
She does about 75% of her regular privates with most talking :thumbsup

The models who have made friends/members who like to chat also - cancontinue to work .

Nice to see a model forum :drinkup

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Created by: paulywally

1/4/09 @ 4:46am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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honesty is the best policy, most times you will still get a pvt with your regulars so long as you pre warn them.

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Created by: suggs

1/4/09 @ 5:18am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I feel that topics like this are needed to be discussed BUT in a new forum section that is ONLY open to performers that way new models can ask questions that the older, more experienced performers can give advice on/

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Created by: Camy Angel

1/4/09 @ 5:43am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I take the week off! It sucks going that long, but I don't want to deal with the mess and my bitchy hormones in a show! :evil

xoxo,
Tiff

my kind of girl. I do the same. I m very grumpy that time of month and have very bad cramps and i think is not so healthy, At the end of period i m horny, i can have sex or cam.

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