hey guys

I'm really new to all of this and wondering if anyone knows good tips to getting good at all of this and get a following? I love chatting it up with people and getting to know them...just not sure if that's what anybody is even after as part of this.

Anyways thanks for reading!
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Wow...you're a cutie Quote

Hi Colin, do you mean open or pvt chat? Quote

patience and consistency. being real; talk to members the same way you talk to your friends. Quote

1. Greet chatters as they enter the room as often as possible.
2. Using your mic to talk to chatters is way better than just typing. Your voice is sexy.
3. ALWAYS be energetic, upbeat, friendly to all, its contagious, and chatters like to be with a happy model.
4. Never ask for pvt. or tips, but, thank everyone who does.
5. Patience, patience , patience................takes time for the chatters to "discover you", weeks or even months. Even the best models here have really bad days where they make little or no money. The ups and downs can be mind boggling, but, to be expected. Its just the nature of the work here.
6. Try to actively engage the chatters in conversation, take the lead. "where u from" "what you doing today" "what do you look for from a model", etc etc. Many chatters are shy and don't know how to start the conversation with a model.
7. Sex is only a small part of this, many successful models don't take clothes off at the drop of a hat. Learn the art of the tease. If a chatter asks you to show or do something in the open chat, politely suggest a nice tip might convince you. Probably the only exception to the "don't ask" rule.
8. Remember, most guys here are lonely, make friends with them and they will reward you.
9. Encourage chatters to talk amongst themselves. Its all about getting and keeping more chatters in your room. Many of us like to go to models' room to chat with the model AND chat friends we have known for many years.
10. Invest the money to get a high quality camera and fast internet connection. It pays off. Many chatters will not frequent rooms with fuzzy video. Quote

Awesome answers Pistol and Soller. I couldnt agree more.

Being natural its a lot easier than trying to fake it, because in time you will get tired of faking it and its also hard to fake it so good so it wont be noticed.

Never think of the members as fools, even if many of them behave accordingly. But making this a general rule will make you miss potential members who could actually change your life.

Try not to take advantage of the members, because they will probably not return a second time, and thats a BIG loss for you.

Be yourself, try to be as nice as comfortably possible, and have a great time!

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