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Created by: soller

9/16/14 @ 9:23pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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i seldom see members that i know. the friends that i have seen tell me they are watching their budget. i have a few ideas that could increase traffic but vs media will have to pay me for my consultation. :D

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Created by: thomas80

9/16/14 @ 11:59pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Belgium
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Thomas you are ok. The point is don't criticize or attempt to correct another members English using incorrect English.
Exactly, my opinion also.

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Created by: bluewolf76

9/17/14 @ 11:13am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Hey guys, reading the comments here I find I agree. Initially I felt compelled to defend a model from what I found to be a pretty offensive remark from SirKen (the one regarding him telling the model to shut up and keep bending over for us all). However, the way I dealt with it was unacceptable. To react to an insulting commment to a model by throwing equally rude comments to the member who wrote them, showed a lack of good judgment on my part.
I should have been more aware that this is a forum where that dialogue is discouraged, and that this site is meant for fun and entertainment.
My apologies to all who read my comments and were offended in any way, and most of all my apologies to Sirken. I found your post offensive, but I should not have addressed it by attempting to insult, belittle and patronise you!
Sorry folks, I've been a jerk and I'm off to brush up on my spelling x

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Created by: zyxwv098

9/17/14 @ 11:41am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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bluewolf76, the rest of us have learned from experience the pointlessness of responding to that same member's posts to the various threads. He des not care about anyone else's opinions and interprets any voicing of a dissenting opinion as a personal attack, so it's a wasted effort to share your thoughts with him. However, I am sure the rest of us--or at least most definitely myself--are grateful to have the insights of a former performer to better understand the perspectives and experiences of the current models.

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Created by: bluewolf76

9/17/14 @ 11:59am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Yes, In the past I was a performer myself so I felt that particular comment made to the model by Sirken was unecessary, and I found it really offensive! When you are a model you can get the best and the worst from people, but you are expected to take it on the chin.
When I was a model, time and time again members would attack and insult me while other members stood by and said nothing!
However, I stand by my last message. I could have reacted better and had no wish to offend anyone. I also extend my apologies to Sirken, I am new to this forum and have had no previous experience of this member, but whatever he has or has not posted in the past does not justify my rude remarks made in his direction.

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Created by: jjinuk

9/17/14 @ 1:43pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Thanks

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Created by: bluewolf76

9/17/14 @ 1:55pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Bluewolf it is understandable why you posted what you did, he only wants to get attention and you obliged. Just simply ignore him like the rest of us have learned to.

Thankyou

That's good advice.

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Created by: James Boyd

9/17/14 @ 1:57pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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the site is completely dead. I was on here for 2 hours not one cent. what a waste of time.

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Created by: James Boyd

9/17/14 @ 1:59pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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most people here dont have personalities.

most customers don't have personalities. They brain dead and only want one thing. So it makes us just talk to the ones that really want our attention by giving us credits.

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Created by: James Boyd

9/17/14 @ 2:03pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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This is depressing!

yes it is. And the funny thing is no one cares there just here to get a nut. No matter how good of a person you are, or how much of a personality you have. People are cheap that just sums it up.

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Created by: imacumluvr

9/17/14 @ 4:02pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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most customers don't have personalities. They brain dead ...

With that attitude, I can see why nobody bothers to spend money on you.

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Created by: jjinuk

9/17/14 @ 4:11pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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most customers don't have personalities. They brain dead and only want one thing. So it makes us just talk to the ones that really want our attention by giving us credits.

James I've read what you posted here and in the thread you started "it's been a long year and half." Coming to the forums and saying we have no personalities and calling us all brain dead is not the answer to improving traffic in your chat room. We don't come here and make generalizations about you or call you names do we? Some models have lasting success, while others simply don't and are replaced daily by new models offering something different and new. Be positive and don't lump all members into one category, it could be your frustrations are coming across in your chatroom.

But one thing for sure, coming to the forum and venting and calling us names has assured you will likely get less traffic in your room.

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Created by: sir_ken

9/17/14 @ 7:09pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Thats how it works in real life i know this is like a fantasy place for a lot of people here and they treat the models as "Gods" who cant make any mistake but not having that kind of mindset doesn't make me a bad member im just not that delusional and desperate.

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Created by: stinks

9/17/14 @ 7:35pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Created by: stinks

9/17/14 @ 7:37pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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With that attitude, I can see why nobody bothers to spend money on you.

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Created by: thomas80

9/18/14 @ 8:51am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Belgium
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the site is completely dead. I was on here for 2 hours not one cent. what a waste of time.

If you would be somewhat more friendlier to members that sent you gifts every day maybe those members would come to your room and tip you &/or go pvt.

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Created by: James Boyd

9/19/14 @ 10:50am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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If you would be somewhat more friendlier to members that sent you gifts every day maybe those members would come to your room and tip you &/or go pvt.

you all say be nice i'm always nice, How do you think i have come to change because of all of your disrespect, you all come in my room and sit for hours then get mad when i don't show in open free chat. If you all would take the performer private and stop playing mind games everyday then maybe you would get to see the best out of that person. Coming in my room everyday and saying racist remarks and other rude comments has made me put most of you all in the same category. Because out of a room of 40 people I only have 3 tippers, so how am i not the nice one maybe you all are just too cheap. You want to call me all kinds of names when i don't give a show but honestly how many times have you taken a model private. You want to play us models then degrade us then expect us not to respond. You have lost your mind. I'm a athlete and model to come here is for you pleasure and to make money at the same time, NOT to be put down by a bunch of people i don't know, nor will ever meet.

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Created by: thomas80

9/19/14 @ 11:09am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Belgium
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James, I never been in your room, if I ever was, I can't remember anymore & it certainly wouldn't have been hours without saying anything. In the last months I took a performer three times in private, if you want I can send you a print screen of my bills. I don't discriminate, I was discriminated by the police four times the last months & also by an insurance company. I know how it feels & how it can hurt so I don't do it myself at all.

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Created by: ken73

9/19/14 @ 6:36pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: USA
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Not having the smarts or the wit, I try to stay out of the discussions on the forum. However, James wrote that members abuse him with racist remarks. No one on this site should have to endure that.

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Created by: rivegauche2006

9/20/14 @ 2:15pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: USA
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i keep coming back to this site (since 2010) because it has something to offer and has some of the sexiest men I've ever seen. When i first came, it was like wonderland, i felt like a person in a candy shop. I admit there are times when i check to see who the new performers are and there aren't many that tickle my fancy, i get a little disheartened, but eventually i know that someone will be coming along that will. I guess every site has their dry spells, but i know that it won't last. And as someone mentioned, other sites (competition) could also be a reason why, but overall this is a gr8 site and has top quality guys.

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