This is a question especially for the veterans as well as the models:.

Is it possible to connect - and I mean really connect - in this virtual reality, and hence crossing the border between virtual reality and reality? (And I�m not talkin`about some stalker-obsessionthing, but about mutual connection)

More important:
- is it advisable?
- is it avoidable?
- what if......?

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bisport

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Interesting topic, bisport.

I have a problem with the "virtual reality" and "reality" distinction. A phone call from a complete stranger is reality. So chatting to someone you can see on the screen is at least as real as a phone call. When you get to know each other better it seems even more real ... which I think is what this topic is about.

When two hot models get together to perform a duo show, is that reality or are they just acting out a fantasy? Not sure where the "border" is.

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This is a question especially for the veterans as well as the models:.

Is it possible to connect - and I mean really connect - in this virtual reality, and hence crossing the border between virtual reality and reality? (And I�m not talkin`about some stalker-obsessionthing, but about mutual connection)

More important:
- is it advisable?
- is it avoidable?
- what if......?


Wooohoo! great topic and worth a bump. Can I answer since I got my shiny Veteran thing on my avatar now?

Connections via cyberspace. Of course you can bond with someone online and cam. You can make friends, find commonalities, share love, affection and attraction. Prison penpals have been doing it for decades with pen, paper, photos and stamps and commercial online dating sites are making money hand over foot.

Is it reality? Not in the slightest.

Reality is when you roll over in the morning and find yourself laying next to someone with bad breath, goopy eyes, chicken hair, who farts on the way to the bathroom and you still think this person is irresistible.

Even a last call bar hook-up may produce feelings of "realness" for a few hours. It's definitely a real person, with a real cock that inflamed real hormones, but the next morning is when "reality" truly hits.

(Choosing my words carefully now) The feelings a favorite Flirt model can bring can be exhilarating and if both sides are completely honest with each other, a small seed of reality may set in and grow. But in the long run, I believe you got a better chance to be hit by lightning, then finding true love on here. You better be ready to kiss and PAY a lot of frogs.


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'connections' is the key word. everyone wants it on some level that visits f4f. to add flavor to a sporting event, we want to feel connected to "our" team even know we never went to that particular university. it's a driving force in us. to answer part of the questions, you can't help but feel the desire to be connected. many models use that to their advantage. and that's what can mess with some peoples heads. what's the intention of the other person? and i'm not saying the models are doing anything wrong; it's part of fantasy provided. however, there's a lot of pain for those that bite the wrong hook and hold on too long.

with that being said, i am a romantic also. if it's meant to be, if there is mutual intention and trust; well, then anything is possible. i'm not sure i would look too hard for it here, it's just more improbable. but if it happens on it's own, then lightning did strike. magic will take any form and can happen anywhere. Quote

I think you can have a strong connection, however like said earlier there can be a fine line between reality and non-reality. I personally have two models that are no longer active performers but will long in just to chat or send emails with me. We have a friendship, period. I think when you add other elements of sex, money and romantic love it can cloud the waters.. Is it possible to find your soulmate On f4f yes, is it likely no. If you went in that models room and didn't spend any credits for two months would they still give you the attention you get now? If the model was fully dressed the whole time in a chat would you be as interested in them? Quote

This really comes down to how subjective you feel reality is.

If you went in that models room and didn't spend any credits for two months would they still give you the attention you get now? If the model was fully dressed the whole time in a chat would you be as interested in them?


I find this very poignant. Thanks for covering both sides.
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This really comes down to how subjective you feel reality is.



good answer Max. i think the whole universe is a subjective reality. it's just the shared dream that gives it substance; makes it somewhat objective. that's why when you wish, believe harder than the 6 billion other people. ))))) Quote