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Male Performer Chat: Greeting Guests
Jeremy Spears
Created by: Jeremy Spears

8/19/12 @ 5:32pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

So I keep wondering what is appropriate in regards to greeting guests. When a memebr enters my toom and I see them on my guest list, should I greet them, or shoud I wait for them to post something first?

It seems like some people like to be greeted but alot seem to be shy or don't want people to know that they r in my room.

I want to be polite. So should I say hi first, or what is the protocol?
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Asti
Created by: asti

8/19/12 @ 6:18pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Posts: 3,985

This has been debated alot here Jeremy. I would suggest if they are a regular greet them first, (if they haven't already said hello.) If they are first timers to your room give them reasonable time to say hello. Maybe a minute. If they don't greet you in that time then you say hello.
People are funny some don't want to be called out and others get upset if they aren't. Strange animals people are. Good luck.
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Created by: .jeffie.

8/19/12 @ 7:29pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Brisbane, Australia


In other words, some members prefer to be greeted and others prefer not to, and there's no way of knowing which is which :)


:thumbsup
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Asti
Created by: asti

8/19/12 @ 7:31pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Posts: 3,985

And there's jeffie with his nutshell response. :orglaugh

Hey jeffie what's up? :offtopic
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Created by: .jeffie.

8/19/12 @ 9:08pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Brisbane, Australia


I personally don't like to be greeted, I prefer to make the first move


:offtopic


Hey Asti, I'm fine thanks, but I miss playing with you :winkwink

What's up with you?
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Created by: phil_usa

8/20/12 @ 8:34am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Driving Down Thunder Road
Posts: 4,747




...I like to be greeted when I enter a room, but that's just me! :)
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Jake Newman
Created by: Jake Newman

8/20/12 @ 9:12am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

Wondering the same Jeremy .

It depends on my mood every time some time im more social and others just waitin others to start. Others start to talk after I have greeted them and others dont react at all . Be yourslef .

would like the guest opinion on that . do you like to be greeted or prefer to stay hidden ?
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chinmusic
Created by: chinmusic

8/20/12 @ 10:45am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: 19,627
Posts: 21,154



would like the guest opinion on that . do you like to be greeted or prefer to stay hidden ?



Much like yourself, it really depends on my mood. Sometimes, it even depends on the particular model. So, there's not really a cut and dried answer here.

Somewhere between overly aggressive and complete abandonment works for me (as a greeting)...lol
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Created by: phil_usa

8/20/12 @ 10:46am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Driving Down Thunder Road
Posts: 4,747




...LMFAO :)
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imacumluvr
Created by: imacumluvr

8/20/12 @ 11:27pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Posts: 382

I think a generic "Hi guys" would do. That way, everyone is greeted, nobody is left out and those who do not like to be "named" by the model will have no reason to be offended.

On a side note to the models - When we do enter your room, please do not greet us by picking your nose, popping pimples, etc. Not very sexy guys .. not sexy at all. Thanks.

just my :twocents

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Created by: .jeffie.

8/21/12 @ 12:23am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Brisbane, Australia


:offtopic

On a side note to the models - When we do enter your room, please do not greet us by picking your nose, popping pimples, etc.


What about the guys who have a nose-picking fetish? Or the guys who have a pimple-popping fetish? Fetishists are people too you know!


:orglaugh
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Anwar D
Created by: Anwar D

8/23/12 @ 10:28am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

the most decent thing to do is for that who enters a room to say hello, it is common sense, but as we do not meet that very often it is impossible to know. Just be yourself, a guy who wants you will take you private even if he likes being greeted or not. :hitit
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chinmusic
Created by: chinmusic

8/23/12 @ 10:41am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: 19,627
Posts: 21,154

Words of wisdom, from Anwar D...
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eugenio68
Created by: eugenio68

8/23/12 @ 11:45am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Posts: 13

One model greeted me fairly assertively upon entrance to his room, and began reading information from my profile aloud. As he did, he offered a running commentary on what he did and did not like about the information contained therein. Freaked me out a bit, and I was more than a bit peeved. See, normally, I prefer to lurk a while before piping up. But this guy - who is both totally cocky and a complete chatterbox - had no patience for that whatsoever. Ultimately, because his goading was good-natured and because his teasing totally fit with who he is, we ended up spending some private time. So, even though his style seemed not to fit with mine, it obviously wasn't a dealbreaker.

That said, I think it can be risky to be too aggressive, unless - of course - it's clear your guest likes that sort of thing...
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