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Created by: crelleke

9/30/12 @ 8:56am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Created by: martyfromnewzealand

9/30/12 @ 1:19pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Hi there
First of all i wanne say that i respect every performer. I don't see then as just an sex object.
It's nice to know that you can help" when needed, but sometimes i just wanne have a nice talk with an handsome guy.

It already happend that wen i just wanne talk in PV, the performer seems to feel not at easy because i don't ask him sexy things to do, or talk dirty or what ever (maybe i just ask him to take of his shirt ;-)because i like to see men with hairy / muscle chest).
already a few times it happend dat the performer almost "insist" to do somethin, as if they are oblige to it

Annyway, I wanne say that when this is happening it make me feel also not at easy and i start wondering if it happens more often taht you recieve this kind of "talks" and how do you feel /react when it is happening?

May I suggest a visit to either Izzi, Jake Trenton or Sebastian Carter then, they are all great "talkers" and about various interesting topics too.

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Created by: Luk A

9/30/12 @ 1:25pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Hi there
First of all i wanne say that i respect every performer. I don't see then as just an sex object.
It's nice to know that you can help" when needed, but sometimes i just wanne have a nice talk with an handsome guy.
It already happend that wen i just wanne talk in PV, the performer seems to feel not at easy because i don't ask him sexy things to do, or talk dirty or what ever (maybe i just ask him to take of his shirt ;-)because i like to see men with hairy / muscle chest).
already a few times it happend dat the performer almost "insist" to do somethin, as if they are oblige to it

Annyway, I wanne say that when this is happening it make me feel also not at easy and i start wondering if it happens more often taht you recieve this kind of "talks" and how do you feel /react when it is happening?

Since 70% - 80% of shows involves "sexy things", and it happens that some members complain about the model not being that fast to be naked/ hard / taking too much time to cum, then it seems normal to a model to ask what he can do to please you even if there has been an previous introductory talk during the pvt. If u say to the guy you want only to chat and u are happy with that..well both should be fine :-)

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9/30/12 @ 1:47pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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If I may offer a suggestion, be straightforward and up-front about what you'd like during your private show. Before even going private, perhaps ask the model if you can go private for a chat, and just a chat (or whatever else you want for that show). The model may still feel uncomfortable about not doing anything for you in private, but at least you made the effort to inform him and set him at ease beforehand.

Some of the models I have had private shows with in the past were surprised that I only wanted to chat, but they e-mailed later and said that it was a nice change of pace to just have chats where they do not need to perform on demand. In each case, for that first time at least, I asked if I could take them private just to chat (I always ask first, to let them know what I want, but also to let anyone else in the room know what to expect in case there's only a multi-user option or if they plan on voyeur-ing in).

And, of course, when I want other things, I ask first.

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Created by: tartegogo

9/30/12 @ 3:49pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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A few models are terrible chatters, and I would understand that they'd be uncomfortable, because they really don't have that much to share. But most will understand if you explain you just want to chat BEFORE the private has started.

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Created by: Luk A

10/1/12 @ 1:19am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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ohhh i fogot to mention that there is also an other kind of pvt

no action
and no talk

lol lol it happens a lot that someone clicks the pvt button by mistake

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