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Created by: kinkyhole

5/5/13 @ 1:49pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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In the LAST 48 HOURS, i have been banned twice from a room. In one room, i simply said "hello".
In both cases, i was not abusive nor being a nuisance.
You might say, "well just go to another room, and dont go back to that modal". But i would like to say that "BLOCKING MEMBERS CREATES A VERY NEGATIVE VIEW OF THE SITE" :mad

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Created by: lord_gs

5/5/13 @ 1:54pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: West Coast
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I have been on this website for a while and being banned has been an extremely rare event for me. I'd say if you have been banned twice over 48 hours, you're doing something wrong. Models are not randomly banning people. They want us around :twocents

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Created by: kinkyhole

5/5/13 @ 1:57pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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ive had been a member for over 2 years, and i was only banned once which was an accident prior to these 2 bans in the last 48 hours. So no, im not doing anything wrong. I think ther is just a few modals that are rude, and spoil it for everyone else. wont be going back to them.
My main point, is that it degrades the reputation of the site. I dont care about the ban.

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Created by: forgottenclone

5/5/13 @ 2:09pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Just curious. Were these new models or models that have been around for more than a year?

I'm asking because as of late I find myself less and less interested in visiting new models with no experience who seem extremely ill-prepared and/or uninformed on how the site works and are at a complete loss on to handle members and their rooms.

The newbie models are often impatient with members and expect instantaneous results.

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Created by: kinkyhole

5/5/13 @ 2:24pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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one of them was new (always seems to be the eastern Europeans, and why have modals that can barely speak English too!!!!!), the other has been here a while, but often comes and goes.
I'm over it now, lol.

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Created by: timbo-83

5/5/13 @ 2:53pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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well I know if you or someone else enters a room while they are trying to ban someone it can shuffle the list of members in their room, they were hovering over the person they want to ban, then they are on someone else and they get the boot instead

or there might be a troll with a simalar name to yours and they ban you thinking its them

or there is the thrid option that they think you smell, or don't like your shoes, or something like that

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Created by: martyfromnewzealand

5/6/13 @ 5:55am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Auckland, New Zealand
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In the LAST 48 HOURS, i have been banned twice from a room. In one room, i simply said "hello".In both cases, i was not abusive nor being a nuisance.You might say, "well just go to another room, and dont go back to that modal". But i would like to say that "BLOCKING MEMBERS CREATES A VERY NEGATIVE VIEW OF THE SITE" :mad

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Created by: phlargjohansen

5/6/13 @ 7:58am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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oh ... mah ... gawwwwwdddahhhh

what a whiney bunch of girls you butch bastards have become ... and really "the most despicable thing is that my FRIEND got banned"? *eyeroll* yeah and *wink wink* *nod nod* "mums the word eh?" @ 'friend'

i cannot count the number of times i have ranted and raged and lectured and tweaked little boy's sniveling noses about "THE HORRIBLE DREADED BAN"!!! ffs you guys need to grow a set of your adored testicles and move on with your lives.

meh(tm)

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Created by: totallybogus

5/6/13 @ 9:12am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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What I think is the most disgusting and also discriminative is some models have banned a very close friend of mine simply for being deaf. In fact over 50 times now. This has resulted in him now being banned from the entire site. Flirt needs to do more about these kind of situations.

If the person you describe is actually deaf, then you have my full sympathies. Such discriminatory treatment should not exist in 2013. If, however, the person is merely deaf to requests to leave models' rooms and/or has a name something like Manny or Granny, then all all sympathy is lost and that permanent ban has been fully earned.

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Created by: tooshytoospeak

5/6/13 @ 9:20am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Southeastern Michigan
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It kind of amazes me that we've got models on here bragging about banning the people who hang out in their rooms and don't speak. Their own manual (which us sneaky members can find online if we look) tells them that the non-chatters are more likely to be spending money at some point than the chatters. And there are tons of reasons people don't chat. The phone rings and the member mutes the room. Much has been said about the infamous pop into a random room. I suspect some people don't even know that they're still in a room. And I don't know the whole story about the deaf member, but I'm pretty horrified by it. It's the equivalent of kicking shoppers out of your store before they finish browsing. Sorry guys, you're hot, but it's still our hard-earned money.

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Created by: Vix Aspir

5/6/13 @ 12:15pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I dont know why im writing this becasue it wont be acted upon anyway. But i think blocking customers for reasons other than being abusive to themselves or other customers, is just stupid, apart from the fact you will end up with no customers. (we where all grays once). This site used to be flirt4free, no i feel just to sit in a room, you best tip 50 or get banned.
Think twice before you block someone.

I've been thinking for a while to post this, because this post is about customers and there is no reply of not even one preformer. I just want to say...

Customers... You have the control of the things that happen here at the site, I used to be a customer too, and I was banned a couple of times, just because I didn't do what the performer wants.

What I'm concerned about is that the customers are feeling that they are losing out, but the reality is that the performer is the one who is truly losing out.

Please remember that the customers are the ones that sets the rules and if a performer bans you its their loss not yours.

Sincerely

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Created by: imacumluvr

5/6/13 @ 12:19pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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guys, you're hot, but it's still our hard-earned money.

there are many models who need to remember these words :thumbsup

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Created by: Vix Aspir

5/6/13 @ 12:19pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I also forget to say that there are new performers that know how to treat the customer,

Have a great day!

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Created by: .jeffie.

5/6/13 @ 12:51pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Brisbane, Australia

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I said this a year ago and I'll say it again now ...

Getting banned for whatever reason or for no reason is no big deal. You are banned from only that one model's room, and the ban usually lasts no more than 24 hours. I always say just forget about it and move on - there is never any shortage of models available

It is possible to be banned by accident when perhaps the model's screen refreshes just as he clicks the ban button for a misbehaving member

Also it's possible to be banned not by the model but by an over-zealous studio administrator

If you are really concerned, e.g. if you were banned by a model who you previously had a good relationship with, then perhaps consider sending him an email

Getting banned only degrades the reputation of the site in your eyes kinkyhole - nobody else knows you have been banned

:thumbsup

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Created by: Cody Bunny

5/6/13 @ 1:07pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Created by: timbo-83

5/6/13 @ 3:56pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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well the thing is, models have only the ban to control who is in their room

as a member how many times have you gone into a room, saw what the performer had to say, and decided the performer wasn't for you and left

this is similar to banning the model from the room you are in, the model doesn't chose who comes in the room and when, so maybe you weren't the costomer the model wanted, it's not an insult, the fact is some people don't like other people

if the models wants to ban you because they don't like your requests, they don't like the things you are talking about or even they don't like you saying "BB" at the end of every sentance, they should be able to, as long as they are willing to accept the loss of potential income from said costomer

just move on like jeffie said, no big deal. Just remember as a costomer it's your resonsiblity to not only find a perfomer that meets the specifications of your fantasy, but also one that enjoys your company and wants you to be in their room

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Created by: martyfromnewzealand

5/6/13 @ 4:32pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Auckland, New Zealand
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If the person you describe is actually deaf, then you have my full sympathies. Such discriminatory treatment should not exist in 2013. If, however, the person is merely deaf to requests to leave models' rooms and/or has a name something like Manny or Granny, then all all sympathy is lost and that permanent ban has been fully earned.

yes, this person is actually deaf, and it is part of his username as well.

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Created by: martyfromnewzealand

5/6/13 @ 4:34pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Created by: bisporti23

5/6/13 @ 4:40pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Germany
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....Getting banned for whatever reason or for no reason is no big deal. You are banned from only that one model's room, and the ban usually lasts no more than 24 hours. I always say just forget about it and move on - there is never any shortage of models available...

There are quite some occassions where I can�t agree with Jeffie�s sometimes moody and sarcastic comments...this time though he�s right.

Just my :twocents

Bisport

P.S. Hope this comment is not just cluttering the forum, as has been complaint about before :winkwink

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Created by: Dirk Thomas

5/6/13 @ 5:10pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I'm so sorry kinky and your friend deaf is a shame that for shares of other models you can feel excluded ... this is a place for fun and no one should exclude someone at least if you have a bad behavior ... I just hope you can get better and you can forget it and move on here .. enjoying a hug to make you feel better and I hope that

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