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Created by: deaftn

7/14/13 @ 6:03pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Created by: forgottenclone

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Created by: asti

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Well said deafTN.

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Created by: gofish

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For the past 2 nights I have been in 2 different models rooms. Each night the model was tipped--one 1000 credits and the second one 2500 credits. In both instances a few of the other members in the room either sent smiley faces or clapping hands. Both nights 2 different members started drama...saying OMG you have so and so in your room...ban them ban them ban them. this goes to the members who do that...every model on this sight are free to make their own decisions. They can do whatever they want to whomever they want. We as members DO NOT own them. they are not our property. If they choose to let members in who do not tip that is their decision, not ours. Those of us that can and do tip are fortunate that we can. Those that don't probably wish they could but life's circumstances prevent them. It annoys me to no end when another member thinks he owns a particular model and can tell him what to do. We need to remember they are here because they need work and be respectful to them. And we need to be respectful to the other members as well. The last time I checked the site was called Flirt4Free. Several of the models I visit welcome all members whether they tip or not. As for being banned hell I have been banned so many times it doesn't even hurt my feelings anymore.

For the past 2 nights I have been in 2 different models rooms. Each night the model was tipped--one 1000 credits and the second one 2500 credits. In both instances a few of the other members in the room either sent smiley faces or clapping hands. Both nights 2 different members started drama...saying OMG you have so and so in your room...ban them ban them ban them. this goes to the members who do that...every model on this sight are free to make their own decisions. They can do whatever they want to whomever they want. We as members DO NOT own them. they are not our property. If they choose to let members in who do not tip that is their decision, not ours. Those of us that can and do tip are fortunate that we can. Those that don't probably wish they could but life's circumstances prevent them. It annoys me to no end when another member thinks he owns a particular model and can tell him what to do. We need to remember they are here because they need work and be respectful to them. And we need to be respectful to the other members as well. The last time I checked the site was called Flirt4Free. Several of the models I visit welcome all members whether they tip or not. As for being banned hell I have been banned so many times it doesn't even hurt my feelings anymore.

deafTN my friend that was very well said. I totally agree with you. It all comes down to showing respect both ways and realizing that models are real people and do this for a reason. A guy like you should never be banned from a model's chat room because I know you always respect the models you visit.

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Created by: ronnie-uk

7/15/13 @ 9:56am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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DeafTN - you don't like to see members asking performers to ban or silence other members?

I would have thought there were circumstances where this was appropriate, but I may be wrong. Perhaps it will always make things worse, and saying nothing might be the best option.

It sounds once again as if the large emoticons might be contributing to the problem. Some members tip, and other non-tipping members instantly wipe the tips off the screen (Clapping Hands, Butt Spanking, Lets Tip etc). That has always annoyed me ...

Just my :twocents

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Created by: forgottenclone

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No Ronnie, I believe the point DeafTn was making involved fans (specifically TOP Fans) who feel like they OWN their favorite performer to the point of openly and blatantly dictating what members are or not welcome in the performer's chatroom.

As DeafTN states, Top Fan or not, this a sole decision that should be left entirely up to the the performer's discretion. What happened in those two rooms consisted of a Top Fan repeatedly blurting out some VERY derogatory slurs against a longtime member who has minimal tipping abilities. The Top Fan made it clear, publicly, he wanted this member banned from the performer's room, and has done this in other models' rooms as well.

FYI, you may wonder what horrifically grievous offense did the minimal-tipping member actually DO???? In the incident I was present for, it was to congratulate another member(ME) for giving a a Tip Flood to a performer I've know since he first started on Flirt. One fatal word, after hours of silence, simply revealing the member's presence in the room was enough to provoke this Top Fan to viciously attack.

For the sake of the performer's awkward position and other members of the room, it was best to just deescalate the situation and remain neutral until now, but the question still remains. WHO or WHAT gives Top $$$ Fans, or any other fans for that matter, the possible idea that they have this kind of Absolute power over a model is beyond my comprehension. Exactly the reason why I keep my Flirt game name anonymous to avoid my fav models or their fans feeling "obligated" (aka OWNED) in any way.

With that being said, I think I've made my intolerance about bullying and discrimination quite fucking clear on this Forum and I'm ready to take on any comers to debate this topic.

And, as always, my disclaimer...(If you think I'm talking explicitly about YOU, then I probably am, and YOU are part of the problem)

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What is even worse is when the model feels he is obligated to do whatever the "top" member wants him to do .. and actually starts banning people at that members request

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Created by: deaftn

7/15/13 @ 12:44pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Ronnie my point is I as a member should not be allowed to tell a model to ban someone just because I don't like them. The model should do as he pleases not what the member tells him to do. I was merely pointing out the models are not our personal possessions but here for everyone to enjoy.

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Created by: deaftn

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and I stand with clone on this one the bullying needs to stop. I bit my tongue both times and regret doing so. I however respected both models enough to keep my big trap shut.

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Created by: ronnie-uk

7/15/13 @ 1:24pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Ronnie my point is I as a member should not be allowed to tell a model to ban someone just because I don't like them

Thanks for clarifying that, deafTN (and Clone). Obviously I agree :thumbsup

Your initial post mentioned 1,000 tips and Smiley Faces and Clapping Hands, and I had assumed that the banning requests might be connected with that. Sorry for the diversion

Ronnie :drinkup

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Created by: phil_usa

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...Most models know how to handle the members in their room. It is up to them to police the members. :thumbsup

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Thanks for clarifying that, deafTN (and Clone). Obviously I agree :thumbsup

Your initial post mentioned 1,000 tips and Smiley Faces and Clapping Hands, and I had assumed that the banning requests might be connected with that. Sorry for the diversion
Ronnie :drinkup

ahhh another meeting of the "Committee to Mess up EVERYTHINNNGGGGGG" averted ... YAY!

(TIP.BAN) you BITCHES!!!!!!!

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Created by: lickau

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I have tipped the model in the past to consider excluding RUDE people .
It is often BEFORE most members arrive in a room - many times it is a model's birthday or name day .
The model choses who they ban based on inappropriate behaviors according to the model - NOT my choice .

If you were polite to the model , I don't understand why you were targeted

Hopefully, those who tried to ban someone who is kind to the models , learn to accept all who try to help .
I hope others learn from this thread :thumbsup

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Created by: Zac Zeek

7/18/13 @ 12:55pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Hopefully, those who tried to ban someone who is kind to the models , learn to accept all who try to help .
I hope others learn from this thread :thumbsup

So far I would like this thread to be nominated for Top 5 best threads of 2013 ...

Thats all

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2 for 1 special today-- :evil

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2 for 1 special today-- :evil

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Created by: didione

7/20/13 @ 7:35pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I think I will put up multiple happy faces for Ophelia Rue's comment but I might get myself removed by the admins again. Without being specific which I think is what got my comment wiped out, I was critical of certain members who camp out in various model's rooms without tipping yet totally monopolize the chat room to greet their friends, etc. This makes it impossible for the model/performer to do his job of making money for himself. Hopefully, this comment will be so generic that the powers that be will let it stay on the forum. I am not trying to impose my values on others, in fact, when I see those people in rooms I usually leave rather than put up with their blather!!

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Created by: deaftn

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Didione once again I will say the models have the power to ban whomever they choose for as long as they choose. if said members arent banned then maybe the model enjoys their company and conversation. its not for us to judge

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