It is fortunate if new members and performers are able to do the best private shows when they first start. A number of improvements can be made, and problems avoided, with experience.

So this is an open invitation to experienced members and experienced performers to pass on bits of advice which might be helpful to others Quote

In a lot of my earlier shows I think I did too much typing, and it stopped the performer from concentrating.


Nowadays, about half way through the show, I will often type something like:


- you can cum when you like

- I will stop typing now

- will let you concentrate
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Ronnie - I wish more people would do that in Group Chats too Quote

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I would suggest that the member and the performer negotiate BEFORE going into private exactly what it is they want to accomplish in the private, at least initially. I know it takes away the spontaneity, but this way neither side will disappoint or be disappointed. Nor should either side enter into the private show with unrealistic expectations of the other. Quote

One of my complaints with some models (new and old ones) is that they aren't ready to "go to work" when they are online. Many times, I've gone private with a guy, only to find that he has to go "lock the door" before doing anything. Recently, I was with a guy who told me the battery on his laptop was about to run out. (Charge it up beforehand, or keep it plugged in!) Or, "I can't take anything off because my mother (father, brother, roommate) is in the other room."

I think I'm willing to accommodate a lot of things when I'm in a private: guys who discover that they have to go to the toilet (OK, we all do from time to time), or new guys who turn out to be more nervous than they thought they would be (that's only natural). But I would like all my private chats to be with guys who go online prepared to treat this as a JOB (hopefully, a pleasant one), not just as a HOBBY!

It goes without saying that there are MANY models, including complete newbies who are scared to death about doing this, who are thoroughly professional and are a delight to be with.

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