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Male Performer Chat: Physical verses Personality
Created by: gofish

3/4/14 @ 2:36pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: IN YOUR DREAMS
Posts: 2,119

Just a bit curious about what impresses members on the site. Often I think some members might be turned off by a model because there is not 6 pack action, but if given the chance that model just might have a WOOW factor going on that you just might over look.
Maybe I am a lone in this, but when I look at a model I try to look for the things that make them most appealing. Figure if you can't say anything good just don't say anything. You have to remember models are real people with feelings who just might need that one comment to lift up their spirits. So the next time you see a model on the site who is up for investigation for heavens sake say HI and if nothing else wish him all the best on the site.
So what do you other members think? How about you models as well?
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zyxwv098
Created by: zyxwv098

3/4/14 @ 7:16pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Posts: 883

For me, personality is key. The model can be very good looking (I don't need the "6 pack action"), but if the personality doesn't come through or is just off-putting, then I won't stay. I'll try to find a reason to give the model a chance, especially if it's a model someone recommended to me, but if something about the personality rubs me the wrong way, then the physical won't make a difference, and I'll depart forthwith.
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Danny Star
Created by: Danny Star

3/4/14 @ 7:29pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

So the next time you see a model on the site who is up for investigation for heavens sake say HI and if nothing else wish him all the best on the site.
So what do you other members think? How about you models as well?

You're right about it , thank you for the support. :thumbsup

What i wonder is how many visit the forums, afterall.
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Alex Storm
Created by: Alex Storm

3/4/14 @ 11:15pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

Just a bit curious about what impresses members on the site. Often I think some members might be turned off by a model because there is not 6 pack action, but if given the chance that model just might have a WOOW factor going on that you just might over look.
Maybe I am a lone in this, but when I look at a model I try to look for the things that make them most appealing. Figure if you can't say anything good just don't say anything. You have to remember models are real people with feelings who just might need that one comment to lift up their spirits. So the next time you see a model on the site who is up for investigation for heavens sake say HI and if nothing else wish him all the best on the site.
So what do you other members think? How about you models as well?

I know you are referring to me ...."...there is not 6 pack action.."

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Alex Storm
Created by: Alex Storm

3/4/14 @ 11:16pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

Just a bit curious about what impresses members on the site. Often I think some members might be turned off by a model because there is not 6 pack action, but if given the chance that model just might have a WOOW factor going on that you just might over look.
Maybe I am a lone in this, but when I look at a model I try to look for the things that make them most appealing. Figure if you can't say anything good just don't say anything. You have to remember models are real people with feelings who just might need that one comment to lift up their spirits. So the next time you see a model on the site who is up for investigation for heavens sake say HI and if nothing else wish him all the best on the site.
So what do you other members think? How about you models as well?


I know you are referring to me , as being the fattest model on f4f ..lol, but with a nice (sometimes) personality ...
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Created by: gofish

3/4/14 @ 11:38pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: IN YOUR DREAMS
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well Mr. Storm after that comment you have finally left me speechless
:thumbsup
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Created by: t.bird

4/5/14 @ 11:41am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Seattle,WA
Posts: 36

Just a bit curious about what impresses members on the site. Often I think some members might be turned off by a model because there is not 6 pack action, but if given the chance that model just might have a WOOW factor going on that you just might over look.
Maybe I am a lone in this, but when I look at a model I try to look for the things that make them most appealing. Figure if you can't say anything good just don't say anything. You have to remember models are real people with feelings who just might need that one comment to lift up their spirits. So the next time you see a model on the site who is up for investigation for heavens sake say HI and if nothing else wish him all the best on the site.
So what do you other members think? How about you models as well?


I am a guy who do not care about how model's body looks like but his actions. I know I know we are gay/bi we should care what a guy's body looks like. I am more likely to tip and/or give them points by their personality then his physical look. For an example, Zheus he has good personality. Always happy in his room and never be unrespectfulness to the members unless a member is unrespectfulness to him. He always welcomes the members that enter his room. His respectful got me to do my first priv with him years ago.

I do search for new models to talk to and tip/ point them when I can. The new models like that. I am with you gofish.
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Sencer
Created by: Sencer

4/5/14 @ 12:14pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00


You're right about it , thank you for the support. :thumbsup

What i wonder is how many visit the forums, afterall.




OFF TOPIC!

not many..and for sure not these who spend...so i guess the forum is just a playground for us..like..enjoy ur time here ,but don`t expect any improve on ur income just for beeing active here....i still enjoy to read the posts and shake my ass around :))

ON TOPIC!

a body without a brain,is nothing but a big pieace of meat ! X_x...
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toppgun
Created by: toppgun

4/5/14 @ 1:48pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Great White North
Posts: 278

Hahaha Sencer....i just have no words to your reply :orglaugh
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Sencer
Created by: Sencer

4/5/14 @ 2:29pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

Hahaha Sencer....i just have no words to your reply :orglaugh



oups..did forget one of the number one fans on my spender list is a guy from michigan that p1ss and run on here alot..can i take my words back? X_x
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toppgun
Created by: toppgun

4/6/14 @ 12:36pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Great White North
Posts: 278

Hahahaha now i may need to change my nick to anonymous :orglaugh
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Sencer
Created by: Sencer

4/6/14 @ 12:57pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

Hahahaha now i may need to change my nick to anonymous :orglaugh


u better don`t,then michigan grey user might take over again...and this time im sure he gonna be more nasty then last time :)))))
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Jake Newman
Created by: Jake Newman

4/6/14 @ 2:59pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

Both count ,
models are humans and so are the viewers .

There are people who only interested in a good appearance and others who wanna develop a relationship where soul plays role . Theres space for anyone .

@IamJakeNewman
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Created by: ronnie-uk

4/12/14 @ 12:11pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: London, UK
Posts: 2,381

Physical verses Personality



I was pleased to see you raise this key topic, gofish, but I don't think the responses by the ever-present Sencer and others do justice to it... :winkwink

It is a topic where I suspect you and I have opposite, but equally valid, views.

Firstly, I'm sure that many of the girls on this site have personalities which are just as likeable as many of the guys here. However, I am a gay man and I like to spend my time on the guys side. It is the physical differences that are all-important. It is the physical qualities of the male performers that I love and admire so much. This is a real shrine to Male Beauty.

So in the "Physical versus Personality" debate I would obviously go for "physical".

There appears to be a certain classiness in enthusing about personality aspects (sense of humour, empathy, honesty etc), and a certain tackiness about enthusing about physical aspects (six packs, big cocks, hairy asses etc). However, I also think there is a refreshing honesty in saying what we like to see here. That is really what this forum is all about.

I was intrigued that you took issue here with VS when they added Best BeefCakes to the Lists here. You told Nubia that it was "the gift inside" that is often more pleasing. I think you were playing the "personality" card there once again. However, there is a danger of over-promoting the "personality" cause :winkwink

VS continue to add lists based on physical qualities and performance: Steamy Strip Teases, Red Hot Couples, College Studs, Best ass play and Self-sucking so far. These reflect the reality of what this site offers. I have added topics in this forum, and lists too, in a similar vein. I hope this post will give you some understanding of why I have done that.

That is the case for the defence... :)

I'm sure your response will be respectful (as I have tried to be) and hope any responses from others are respectful too. There is room here for a wide range of views. Interesting comments make the forum more interesting for all.

Cheers :drinkup


Ronnie
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Sencer
Created by: Sencer

4/12/14 @ 2:21pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00




I was pleased to see you raise this key topic, gofish, but I don't think the responses by the ever-present Sencer and others do justice to it... :winkwink





haha..ever present Sencer...:))) im like a bad flu....i knjow i hear it alot...anyway...getting back on topic...yes the Physical is what get our attention on first ....if a human dosen`t look on our taste we don`t really care about hes personality and there are only few chances to get to know hes personality ever...but i tough we don`t talk about 1 night stand....i think no one wish to have by hes side a doll that look nice and talk/act stupid all the time...i tough u can buy these things from store..and im sure they cost less to take good care of then a human that look good and have a shity personality...so i think i did made my point a lil more clear by this replay...i think there are personality that might be not that nice for me..but like goldie for others...everyone have he`s half someone in this world that would think he is perfect for everything he is....so i think the topic is a little obiectiv..but if we talk from a subiectiv opinion...no meat is good just from look until it has a nice taste...
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Darren Dash
Created by: Darren Dash

4/13/14 @ 6:05am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

A personality can go a lot further. In my case, part of the enjoyment of another person (be it in or out of bed) is feeling them out in addition to the play. Truly connecting with them. Sex is far more intense and passionate. I personally love nasty, sweaty, rough, loud, head-board banging sex. In order to get there, the person has to be more than just physically attractive. We have to be able to feel each other out and connect on some level. Being able to connect with another person on an emotional and physical level is like cream cheese frosting on a red velvet cupcake. To sum up the answer to your question, a personality is far more impressive.
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Alex Storm
Created by: Alex Storm

4/13/14 @ 10:22am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00




haha..ever present Sencer...:))) im like a bad flu....i knjow i hear it alot...anyway...getting back on topic...yes the Physical is what get our attention on first ....if a human dosen`t look on our taste we don`t really care about hes personality and there are only few chances to get to know hes personality ever...but i tough we don`t talk about 1 night stand....i think no one wish to have by hes side a doll that look nice and talk/act stupid all the time...i tough u can buy these things from store..and im sure they cost less to take good care of then a human that look good and have a shity personality...so i think i did made my point a lil more clear by this replay...i think there are personality that might be not that nice for me..but like goldie for others...everyone have he`s half someone in this world that would think he is perfect for everything he is....so i think the topic is a little obiectiv..but if we talk from a subiectiv opinion...no meat is good just from look until it has a nice taste...



MMMM I have a sex doll from the store and he got offended from ur comment hahahahah and he said to respond to u, that he might be plastic but still have personality , and last time when we had sex "he" was rough on me trying to show some personality lol......
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Sencer
Created by: Sencer

4/13/14 @ 4:26pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00




MMMM I have a sex doll from the store and he got offended from ur comment hahahahah and he said to respond to u, that he might be plastic but still have personality , and last time when we had sex "he" was rough on me trying to show some personality lol......



sorry to offend ur bf bud...i hope i didn`t ruinned ur relationship with him..just tell him im a jack ass and he should not listen to my words,plastic is great!

btw in my defese, the last doll man i had was almost like yours...but different...was talking,but had no feeling,so im sure didn`t meant t hurt ur bf feelings X_x
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Created by: gofish

4/13/14 @ 6:17pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: IN YOUR DREAMS
Posts: 2,119




I was pleased to see you raise this key topic, gofish, but I don't think the responses by the ever-present Sencer and others do justice to it... :winkwink

It is a topic where I suspect you and I have opposite, but equally valid, views.

Hot Couples, College Studs, Best ass play and Self-sucking so far. These reflect the reality of what this site offers. I have added topics in this forum, and lists too, in a similar vein. I hope this post will give you some understanding of why I have done that.

That is the case for the defence... :)

I'm sure your response will be respectful (as I have tried to be) and hope any responses from others are respectful too. There is room here for a wide range of views. Interesting comments make the forum more interesting for all.

Cheers :drinkup


Ronnie



Ronnie I don't think anyone would take offense to what you said there. Quite a valid reason for being on the site. Yep I probably get a carried away with my messages here, but so dang much fun to see the responses. Hey that is what it is all about.
OH and hey there Mr Storm that plastic buddy of your needs you. Seems he has been building up some PRESSURE and needs to release....WINKY WINK.

As for that ever so loveable "S" guy dude keep on posting your responses ...always enjoys seeing what you say.

Interesting comments make the forum more interesting for all. WELL SAID RONNIE

:thumbsup :thumbsup :thumbsup :thumbsup
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Alex Storm
Created by: Alex Storm

4/13/14 @ 9:35pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00



Ronnie I don't think anyone would take offense to what you said there. Quite a valid reason for being on the site. Yep I probably get a carried away with my messages here, but so dang much fun to see the responses. Hey that is what it is all about.
OH and hey there Mr Storm that plastic buddy of your needs you. Seems he has been building up some PRESSURE and needs to release....WINKY WINK.

As for that ever so loveable "S" guy dude keep on posting your responses ...always enjoys seeing what you say.

Interesting comments make the forum more interesting for all. WELL SAID RONNIE

:thumbsup :thumbsup :thumbsup :thumbsup
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My plastic sex toy wants to have a 3some with you...oooppppssss. I told him no chance, but I am asking you anyway...lol
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