Physical verses Personality
I was pleased to see you raise this key topic, gofish, but I don't think the responses by the ever-present Sencer and others do justice to it...
It is a topic where I suspect you and I have opposite, but equally valid, views.
Firstly, I'm sure that many of the girls on this site have personalities which are just as likeable as many of the guys here. However, I am a gay man and I like to spend my time on the guys side. It is the physical differences that are all-important. It is the physical qualities of the male performers that I love and admire so much. This is a real shrine to Male Beauty.
So in the "Physical versus Personality" debate I would obviously go for "physical".
There appears to be a certain classiness in enthusing about personality aspects (sense of humour, empathy, honesty etc), and a certain tackiness about enthusing about physical aspects (six packs, big cocks,
hairy asses etc). However, I also think there is a refreshing honesty in saying what we like to see here. That is really what this forum is all about.
I was intrigued that you took issue here with VS when they added Best BeefCakes to the Lists here. You told Nubia that it was "the gift inside" that is often more pleasing. I think you were playing the "personality" card there once again. However, there is a danger of over-promoting the "personality" cause
VS continue to add lists based on physical qualities and performance: Steamy Strip Teases, Red Hot Couples, College Studs, Best
ass play and Self-sucking so far. These reflect the reality of what this site offers. I have added topics in this forum, and lists too, in a similar vein. I hope this post will give you some understanding of why I have done that.
That is the case for the defence...
I'm sure your response will be respectful (as I have tried to be) and hope any responses from others are respectful too. There is room here for a wide range of views. Interesting comments make the forum more interesting for all.
Cheers
Ronnie
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