A lot of straight guys are here but they pretend to be gays but one thing they didn't know a lot of gays have fantasies over str8 guys but i hate it when they call me like "man"and say like "what's up man" that just a no no cause im gay that str8 man talkin to me that way will seem to be closeted and trying to prove something if you cant call me baby or any sweet names you can call me then just call me by my screen name.
I am confused. You are saying that just because a
straight model pretending to be gay calls you "man" and not "baby or any sweet names" that they are "closeted and trying to prove something"? This does not make sense at all.
Each person has his own way of speaking. In some places it is common to say "what's up, man" or to call all men "babe" or "dude". Whether the model is gay, straight, or bisexual, if those are the speech patterns he heard growing up or hears regularly, then it makes sense that he is going to use the same speech patterns online as well. He should not be expected to change the way he speaks on cam.
Personally, I find it disturbing to be called "baby" or anything else other than my username (or a reasonable abbreviation of it) in a model's room. If after numerous visits the model starts referring to me as "babe" or some such, at least then there is a justification: we have gotten to know each other well enough that such intimate references could be accepted without discomfort. But I would not ask--nor expect--to be addressed as "sweetheart" or some-such from anyone on casual acquaintance, be they straight, gay, or bisexual.
And if a model chooses to greet me with "what's up, man" even on first meeting...well, I am a man, so it doesn't bother me one bit.
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