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Created by: firefighter92

10/9/14 @ 3:53pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Hello everyone,
Do you think it's possible to "fall in" love with a performer? Performers, have you fallen in love with a customer? I am interested in your answers and anecdotes could be interesting. I know it's an erotic simulation website and we're there to achieve our fantasies but is a friendship possible between a performer and a customer. Some customers are attached to a performer and with time, a virtual friendship can be born, why not a real friendship. Imagine for a moment that you felt before your cam a sudden feeling, a sort of unexpected "love at first sight". Sometimes life is so strange and sometimes love is so complicated and don't take the easiest ways. Could you imagine having a performer like boyfriend?

i'm waiting for your comments

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Created by: Carlo Huge

10/10/14 @ 10:15am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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As long as you name them customers, it is less possible to get friends, try to call them friends try to get friendly and you will have lots of friends here, I have more friends then I thought I will, not everyone is only interested in sex. good luck with everything

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Created by: thomas80

10/10/14 @ 10:33am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Hi FireFighter92, yes I think it's possible :-)

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Created by: jack.mehoff

10/11/14 @ 12:07am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Fall in Love? No, I don't think so. Infatuation? Yes. Lust? Yes,of course. But Love? It would be difficult at best. There are too many obstacles to overcome. How do you share the everyday joys and sadness? How do you enjoy the warm comfort of arms wrapped around you? The feel of that kiss? The sharing of a knowing glance from across the room. The miles difference would be a toll on anyone. That being said, can too people have some form of relationship on here? Yes, I think that is possible. But without being within reach of each other... ever... I don't think true heart pounding Love is possible. But then again I am merely a jaded, old fucker who has lost his rose colored glasses long ago.

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Created by: louisphillippe

10/11/14 @ 12:12am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Yes you can....But....
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why would you put yourself through such torture????
:angel

Remember: this is the land of make believe....
My :twocents

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Created by: sir_ken

10/11/14 @ 1:19am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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LOL no.. i have a life to live.

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Created by: sam743

10/11/14 @ 1:45pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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yes, I definitely think it's possible. I've seen some people spend hour after hour, day after day in just one performers room, saying they love them, throwing who knows how many tens of thousands of credits at them...i'm just glad it's never happened to me

I have developed crushes on performers, and I do develop feelings for people quite easily, but thank goodness it hasn't gone anywhere near that extent (so far...lol)

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Created by: soller

10/13/14 @ 10:31pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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anything is possible. this place can make you feel like you've walked through the looking glass; where fantasy and reality mix strangely together. how far does that line go and in which direction; no one knows.

Alice asked, "Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?"
"That depends a good deal on where you want to get to," said the Cat.

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Created by: ronnie-uk

10/16/14 @ 5:10pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Love it, Soller

Some nice replies here :thumbsup

When I first visited F4F I was overwhelmed by the wonderful choice of guys I could chat to. I rather focussed in on my "dream guy", and then allowed myself to get too emotionally involved. The disappointments when he didn't show up, or spent time with others, became rather painful. He was only here for a few weeks.

Fortunately the wonderful choice made it easy to find other guys here who could give me a great time, without getting too "hooked".

I am pleased when my favourite guys have lots of fans. I often encourage them to do group chats and party chats.

I have some admiration for those members who can fall in love with a single performer here, and handle the range of emotions involved. There is no real problem for others, unless they become jealous and possessive.

It is so nice that the next Mr Right is just round the corner (or on Page 2 of the Live Chat page).

I am glad I'm not "the only gay in the village"

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Created by: Tristan F

10/16/14 @ 5:38pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Firefighter yes it is possible to fall inlove with a performer like me. As long as you know him a lot and as long as you fall in love why not. you cant control your self when u fall in love even who are they. :thumbsup

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Created by: sir_ken

10/16/14 @ 7:52pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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no wonder why some peeps here are ....

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Created by: thomas80

10/16/14 @ 11:53pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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no wonder why some peeps here are ....

Sir Ken, yes probably...

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Created by: abt_tim241

10/17/14 @ 7:20am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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It is possible. I met my partner on this site. We connected during a private where we were talking and after several privates of just talking to each other we began communicating via email. Once that started it just built from there. We formed a friendship and that escalated into a romance which has lasted for over a year now. After we met in person the attraction was undeniable and we could not resist each other. We both understand that the site is a job and it is "fantasy," but what we have cultivated is love and it is real.

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Created by: Jake Newman

10/17/14 @ 8:23am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Created by: Jake Newman

10/17/14 @ 8:26am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Never expected to fall for someone when first joined to get to know people worldwide and have fun . Currently Im seeing a bud here who turns me mentally on . Cant see the time to join me every day and I m interested to know his daily news and feelings . I feel developing similars feelings like when I ve been in love in real life . He hasnt turned his cam on so far but I feel no matter his appearance he would be charming man to develop a decent relationship.

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Created by: Jake Newman

10/17/14 @ 8:30am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Created by: firefighter92

10/29/14 @ 5:47pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I see that my post has some reaction from people and your opinuons are different on the subject. I would favor people who say "yes" it is possible to fall in love however, I think it's not possible to fall in love through cam shows and streaming videos. When you find a model that you like obviously we can be attracted by a model and have an erotic feeling. I feel it's not possible to replace a real kiss and many other things by a virtual relationship. It remains a virtual distant relationship. And there are several obstacles : the distance, the language sometimes... Personally I really like many of my favorites, but until the 'rubber hits the road" I do not think anything can happen.

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Created by: seducemerightnow

10/29/14 @ 6:31pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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For us of course yes but to the models I think it is close to impossible because they are here for $$$$. I experienced to have a boyfriend here he is the couple section but we lasted just 3 - 5 days I broke up with him because her girl just slapped me with words(she said she was just joking) that made me realize that maybe they are just hoping for more credits coming from me but since the start me and the male have already agreed and clear out about spending credits and he told me he does not need my money he even gave me gifts and a free fan club access. He wants me back but I think I do not like anymore.

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Created by: firefighter92

10/29/14 @ 6:51pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Created by: seducemerightnow

10/29/14 @ 6:59pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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That is one of the downfalls of trying to fall in love on a site like this. Most models on this site are out to get your money one way or the other. It may start with I need money or expenses or school and gets into a bigger problem from there.

when I said I thought he does not need my money he replied I need money in general I want bicycle and that is the wake up call for me

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