Hi guys,

After reading many topics on this forum and having almost a month of experience on this site as a performer I would like to give you a performers point of view.

Leaving aside the time when I read and answer on topics in here, and the time I spend sending messages to my members... because this time I really enjoy. Most of the time I spend being live on cam and looking to make some $ (as every other performer).

Its actually really hard not to get bored when I am online and I am trying to interact with my rooms visitors. First of all only 20% of them bother to say hi, even in reply to my own greeting towards them. I cant understand why the members dont want to interact with a performer, after all the performers are the reasons why all the members are online on this site. What could you lose if you would just "hi, how are you?" And now imagine how it would be if you would say this to every performer you visit in one hour, and none of them would bother to give a single reply.This is how I feel when I have more than 20 premium experienced members in my room at one certain point, and absolutely none of them bothers to answer to my greetings. You want the performers to be full of joy, happy and cheerful all the time you are in there, to tease and make you happy too, but how could this be possible if you treat the performer like a homeless person? Think about this next time you are in a performers room and try to get into a conversation with him.

Another problem it would be with the members who dont like to cooperate. I didnt had any group shows going because extreemly few members actually want to tip Even if it would be very cheap and a great deal to be part of a group show (at least from my beginners point of view) I've noticed no member actually wants to participate in this awesome way to have fun. Parties and private members, also voyeur way is not even close to how much fun a grooup show can be...and still I had nice parties, good private shows with plenty of voyeurs.

Third thing I dont understand is why would a member stay in my room for more than 30 minutes, sometimes even 2 hours, without trying at least to communicate. And this didnt happened just on rare occasions like they forgot their laptop on while they went out, or to sleep. This happens on a daily basis with many experienced members. They just join my room and start looking at me, without responding to any of my greetings. They do this for a looong time, even if nobody else is talking in the room (and I didnt blocked any members from chatting). I know you gain 60 boost points from being for one hour in a performers room, but I think 60 boost is a lousy benefit for wasting one hour in a performers room without at least talking to him. Crazy right?

All bad things left aside, I also had the rare chance to meet smart members who talked about awesome topics, and really made the time they spent for free in my room a memorable one. Why arent there more people like this in here? What happened to you members that made you become so cold and empty of basic human feelings and interaction?



Kian Quote

lets not forget that theres lots of models out there that are

customer : Hi
model : Lets go pvt bb

for real

if not

customer : hi bb
model : are you horny bb
customer : yes
model : yes pvt bb
-another case of that-
model : hey!!!
model : r u horny baby?
customer : no
model : Hi everyone!!!!

or

customer : hello
model : hi hru
customer : *tells all the struggles in life and then end it all with butterflies and rainbow
model : you want to go pvt bb? Quote

I am the worlds worst for falling asleep in a models room Quote

"customer : hello
model : hi hru
customer : *tells all the struggles in life and then end it all with butterflies and rainbow
model : you want to go pvt bb?"

I've seen this more times than i care to remember ... Quote

Hi Kian, if I want to "park" in a performers room for the boost points I always ask first the performer if it's OK for him but I don't "park" much. Quote

lets not forget that theres lots of models out there that are

customer : Hi
model : Lets go pvt bb

for real

if not

customer : hi bb
model : are you horny bb
customer : yes
model : yes pvt bb
-another case of that-
model : hey!!!
model : r u horny baby?
customer : no
model : Hi everyone!!!!

or

customer : hello
model : hi hru
customer : *tells all the struggles in life and then end it all with butterflies and rainbow
model : you want to go pvt bb?


I've noticed that too when I visit some other performers rooms. I've also noticed most of them block basic users from saying anything I guess the problem is from both sides I am probably one of the few performers who likes to make a deeper connection with the members not just a show thing. But its a lot easier just to go directly for action, no words implied ) unless really necessary to direct a pvt show.

Probably patience is the best weapon against getting bored when I get online ;)) Thanks guy for answering.

Thomas.. I dont think members get in my room just to park for boost points, probably they are waiting for freebies or some of them even record the free chat hoping they would immortalize some free dick. I say this because recently I found so many VOD's to download from torrents. So so so many hot pvt shows to download for free.
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lets not forget that theres lots of models out there that are

customer : Hi
model : Lets go pvt bb

for real

if not

customer : hi bb
model : are you horny bb
customer : yes
model : yes pvt bb
-another case of that-
model : hey!!!
model : r u horny baby?
customer : no
model : Hi everyone!!!!

or

customer : hello
model : hi hru
customer : *tells all the struggles in life and then end it all with butterflies and rainbow
model : you want to go pvt bb?



@Sir_Ken dont forgot that kind of model is one who dont enjoy with own show ;)
I look around last time , i find a lot of models who enjoy with own show , in public , group or party.
Dont think all we have same attitude Quote

@Kian first time i wanna say `Hello` :D
I look around also and all what i understand if we dont find a good base a members is hard to survive.We need just still smile and they will come.
I find lot of customers who spen hours in a row in my room without say nothing. And after a time they take me in private ( not too long but regular,few time per week) . Some of they just sit and look at us,how we talk,how we move,etc if they think we are good they will start to interact with us. Quote

Probably patience is the best weapon against getting bored when I get online ;)) Thanks guy for answering.

Thomas.. I dont think members get in my room just to park for boost points, probably they are waiting for freebies or some of them even record the free chat hoping they would immortalize some free dick. I say this because recently I found so many VOD's to download from torrents. So so so many hot pvt shows to download for free.




Well said.
Patience,thick skin,sense of humor,good chat and the power to discern
good customers from bad boring,rude or demanding ones is a must.
You only need 2 or 3 members with chatting ability and good manners to make
your day go by like a breeze ...Make some friends Kian!
It takes a few years ( not months) to make a decent clientele,
get a good name and be able to enjoy your craft.
There are models here for the beginning of time as we know it :-),the
early 2004 or 5 and believe me they complain about the same things Kian!!
Just stay sweet,polite,smiling and kind and you'll see your room in a different manner
after a while...learn to ignore what you can't change.
The mute ones don't matter... the rude demanding ones even less
Take the good with the bad and care only about the ones that pay for what they ask..!!
"No money no honey" like they say... .... "
Wishing you the very best handsome!

Just my Quote

LP, your room? Quote

I've noticed that too when I visit some other performers rooms. I've also noticed most of them block basic users from saying anything I guess the problem is from both sides I am probably one of the few performers who likes to make a deeper connection with the members not just a show thing. But its a lot easier just to go directly for action, no words implied ) unless really necessary to direct a pvt show.

Probably patience is the best weapon against getting bored when I get online ;)) Thanks guy for answering.


"I guess the problem is from both sides"
DEYMN!! YOU HIT IT!!!




@Sir_Ken dont forgot that kind of model is one who dont enjoy with own show ;)
I look around last time , i find a lot of models who enjoy with own show , in public , group or party.
Dont think all we have same attitude


that is base of my own experience.... and you have yours as well. Quote

lets not forget that theres lots of models out there that are

customer : Hi
model : Lets go pvt bb

for real

if not

customer : hi bb
model : are you horny bb
customer : yes
model : yes pvt bb
-another case of that-
model : hey!!!
model : r u horny baby?
customer : no
model : Hi everyone!!!!

or

customer : hello
model : hi hru
customer : *tells all the struggles in life and then end it all with butterflies and rainbow
model : you want to go pvt bb?



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WOW!THIS WHAT GOOD. SIR KEN. YOU MADE THE CASE IN FEW WORDS. THANKS FOR ALL THE MEMBERS WHO FEEL LIKE THAT.


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Hi guys,

After reading many topics on this forum and having almost a month of experience on this site as a performer I would like to give you a performers point of view.

Leaving aside the time when I read and answer on topics in here, and the time I spend sending messages to my members... because this time I really enjoy. Most of the time I spend being live on cam and looking to make some $ (as every other performer).

Its actually really hard not to get bored when I am online and I am trying to interact with my rooms visitors. First of all only 20% of them bother to say hi, even in reply to my own greeting towards them. I cant understand why the members dont want to interact with a performer, after all the performers are the reasons why all the members are online on this site. What could you lose if you would just "hi, how are you?" And now imagine how it would be if you would say this to every performer you visit in one hour, and none of them would bother to give a single reply.This is how I feel when I have more than 20 premium experienced members in my room at one certain point, and absolutely none of them bothers to answer to my greetings. You want the performers to be full of joy, happy and cheerful all the time you are in there, to tease and make you happy too, but how could this be possible if you treat the performer like a homeless person? Think about this next time you are in a performers room and try to get into a conversation with him.

Another problem it would be with the members who dont like to cooperate. I didnt had any group shows going because extreemly few members actually want to tip Even if it would be very cheap and a great deal to be part of a group show (at least from my beginners point of view) I've noticed no member actually wants to participate in this awesome way to have fun. Parties and private members, also voyeur way is not even close to how much fun a grooup show can be...and still I had nice parties, good private shows with plenty of voyeurs.

Third thing I dont understand is why would a member stay in my room for more than 30 minutes, sometimes even 2 hours, without trying at least to communicate. And this didnt happened just on rare occasions like they forgot their laptop on while they went out, or to sleep. This happens on a daily basis with many experienced members. They just join my room and start looking at me, without responding to any of my greetings. They do this for a looong time, even if nobody else is talking in the room (and I didnt blocked any members from chatting). I know you gain 60 boost points from being for one hour in a performers room, but I think 60 boost is a lousy benefit for wasting one hour in a performers room without at least talking to him. Crazy right?

All bad things left aside, I also had the rare chance to meet smart members who talked about awesome topics, and really made the time they spent for free in my room a memorable one. Why arent there more people like this in here? What happened to you members that made you become so cold and empty of basic human feelings and interaction?



Kian


as a model/performer i angree to kian


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sometime a name say it all-stinks Quote

@kian your post is very well said and I appreciate how frustrating it must be for you. I am pretty shy, but your post inspired me to try harder to communicate with the models. unfortunately with not good results I came across a lot of what sir ken described. I tipped one guy 50 credits in open chat, only to get "thanks, now can you tip me 100" no lie lol another model I chatted with asked me to go private, I said I wasn't really in the mood (especially after having another bad experience with a different model) he said he understood, only to hound me about going private for the next 5 minutes before I finally left his room. there were others but those were the worst 2..overall rather a discouraging night. I know there are good models out there of course, it just takes time to find them sometimes. same thing applies with finding good members, I guess. good luck. Quote

@kian your post is very well said and I appreciate how frustrating it must be for you. I am pretty shy, but your post inspired me to try harder to communicate with the models. unfortunately with not good results I came across a lot of what sir ken described. I tipped one guy 50 credits in open chat, only to get "thanks, now can you tip me 100" no lie lol another model I chatted with asked me to go private, I said I wasn't really in the mood (especially after having another bad experience with a different model) he said he understood, only to hound me about going private for the next 5 minutes before I finally left his room. there were others but those were the worst 2..overall rather a discouraging night. I know there are good models out there of course, it just takes time to find them sometimes. same thing applies with finding good members, I guess. good luck.


it is true that most models are like that but soon or later you will find a model like the 3 that are on here and than you will know just how good this site can be.
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LP, your room?



Cum and get it!!!!!
For you anytime!!
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LP, cum & get it where? Quote

LP, cum & get it where?



My room man!!!
Unless you prefer yours.... I can accommodate you
to your likings... Quote